Do feelings and life coexist? How do you save it?

Feelings and life coexist, because you can't deny the affection between husband and wife in the world.

Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, this is a life problem that everyone has to face, and it is inevitable to avoid it.

When you are sincere in life, when you want to live with your other half for the rest of your life, you will slowly see these problems very clearly.

When you live together, don't think about the romance that doesn't go anywhere.

Pay attention to the details of life, it will be more touching.

For example, if you have a well-prepared dinner table, you can watch your loved one eat it happily, and even if it will not be done well, the other party will still praise it for being delicious.

Lying on the couch together and watching the rotten soap opera.

Wear a tie before heading out.

And so on, many, many are the feelings that can be brought about by life.

Every normal person has feelings, some people have joys, angers, sorrows and sorrows on their faces, and some people bury their feelings deep in people's hearts. As for life, it is very realistic and cruel, so sometimes people have to give up their feelings for life. If you can coexist with your feelings and life, you should be a happy person.

Complain less, understand more.

Think about it more, but the happiness is that the troubles are gone from you.

Understand and care for each other.

You're asking too much, you don't have any children yet! If you have children, you know the hearts of parents in the world! If you really love him, you have to tolerate him, you have to love his son, his son has already followed his ex-wife, so there is a lot less trouble, as long as you have him in your heart, these are small problems!

In addition, you must do the work of your parents, as long as he has a good character and is good to you, love is still very important! You have to stick to what you believe in! Don't let him forget about his son!

It is precisely because he thinks that his son is good, if you don't even recognize your son, but you should really leave him! What is the difference between such an irresponsible father and a beast? So I hope you see the truth!

And people who have been divorced once usually cherish a second marriage!

You don't understand your boyfriend well enough.

Think about it, if a man doesn't even love his own children and doesn't want to, can he still be considered a responsible man? Will he still love your child? The child is innocent, your boyfriend is a good man and a responsible man, you are 20, he is 28, he has to be more mature, and when you grow up, you will understand that being together requires not only love, but also responsibility, understanding, and support.

Of course, as a woman, there must be some imbalances. But you really have to understand your boyfriend in this matter.

Maybe you can try to put yourself in his shoes and think about it. If you were him, would you abandon your own son? It's not that he has cut ties with his son, but he loves you.

He can now contact his son, and then you can cut off anything from him in the future. Whether he really loves you should not ask others, but yourself. If the love between you is so untrustworthy, then what will you talk about later?

Maybe you can put this matter aside for a while, don't think about anything, and rest for a while. Wait until you have sorted it out before deciding on this matter.

Also, women, love yourself. Love can't be eaten.

Your problem is not complicated, you think he doesn't love you but have you ever wondered if you love him? What is love? Love is a kind of responsibility, a kind of renunciation, and sharing joys and sorrows, but do you know where the suffering of men is?

If this man is not a bloody and inhuman person, then he has no love for his relatives, and he will not love you His son is a part of him, and if you love him, you must love him with tolerance

"I love you very, very much, and I will be good to you for the rest of my life"I think he said this to his ex-wife as well. Hehe, you are still young, the two of you are not on the same level, what you need at this time is romantic love, he is mature and steady, he needs an empathetic, gentle and considerate wife, you have not yet understood the truth of love and Wu, if children can affect your love, then your love really needs to be considered!

This question depends on the foundation of your relationship. He said he didn't want to see his ex-wife. Why don't you want to see it?

Why do you get divorced? I think you should know that too. Maybe the same question later.

You're at odds. The same result will occur as her ex-wife. We can't help but look at the lessons of the past.

His son, these should not be so exclusive, your feelings are in understanding.

Be tolerant and don't be too harsh on those things.

Personally, I think you should take the initiative to accompany him to see his son, only then can you last long.

It's hard to say this question, the key depends on your relationship with him.

If he truly loves you, he is telling you that you need to be independent. If he doesn't really love you, then he is. This point is omitted, sincere or not, I think you should know this very well! Wishing you happiness! Thank you!

He just wants you to take your time to find happiness.

He is afraid that you will be in a hurry to pursue happiness, and choose in a hurry. So advise you to rely on yourself and take your time.

Perhaps, he, also hopefully, you can wait for him. What are you waiting for him? Waiting for his pursuit. (Personal guess, don't spray if you don't like it) hope

If you don't have feelings for her anymore, you won't treat her as well as you used to, maybe letting go is happiness! Living together or not being together depends on the two of you.

After all, you have walked together, and there are your crystallizations, but an emotionless marriage will not last long.

Think carefully. For each other's happiness. I think kids will understand it when they're older.

Since you don't have feelings, don't live together!

It's better to leave early!

That's good for everyone

Remarriage shows that she still has feelings for you, feelings, can be cultivated slowly, it is indeed a mistake, but, since you have remarried, it is good to think about how to make your life go a step further, it is best to talk to each other, say all the unpleasant in your heart, don't hide anything, say it, see if you can solve it, if you seem to have a shadow in your heart, life will be a painful thing. After getting married, living together love will not be so strong, relying on family affection, do you have no feelings of family affection for her, or rather, you are starting to dislike her a little, if so, it is not good for anyone not to solve it, life should be calm, but the heart is gone, and even peace can not be talked about, see what kind of mentality you have for her, and try to live together if you can solve it, after all, there is also a relationship foundation.

Wishing you happiness!

Divorce is not good, this is a fact, of course you don't have to leave, but you really can't get by, I don't think it's necessary to live together for the sake of children. Of course, if it can also create a good living environment, then it is beyond the scope of this discussion.

Super sympathize with you, divide it, the child should be able to bear it, and he will understand when he grows up.

Love needs to be tolerated, love needs to be responsible, why did you choose to remarry her? Remarriage means that you are still willing to accept her, so who can not make mistakes in their lives? I think you just can't control your thoughts, maybe you can only let time dilute it, try to forgive her!

Love is supposed to transcend.

Such a life is unfair to both you and the child, maybe you can give the child a warmer environment after separation!

If you love, you tolerate.

If you don't love and it's painful to be together, then give up!

Children are not an excuse, let alone a handle, single-parent families can also educate their children well!

Since you don't love anymore, divorce, a marriage without feelings is the most cruel, don't use children as a reason to be together, in the future, the child will be sensible and know that you are all like this, and you will be reluctant to be together for him, the child will have a psychological disorder, no matter who it is, if you can't live, you can separate, maybe it's also a relief for each other.

If your child is still young and underage, you can consider growing up with him for a period of time in order to return the child, a child without father's love or mother's love is not healthy... His psyche will inevitably have some obstacles... Wait until he is an adult to think about it ...

If you really can't get by, make a decision without hurting the child...

Give yourself and her a little more time, calm down, and see if you really don't love it anymore! You can also talk to her well, say your feelings, if these are useless, then over, don't say for the sake of the child, because the parents that the child sees every day are not happy and not harmonious, which will also cause a shadow on the child!

Hope you can be happy!

It depends on what you think, if you really want to continue with her, I think you should let go of everything in the past, if a man can do this, I think he is very broad-minded, think about the good life before, think about her good, everything can pass, forget what can be forgotten, life will be full of sunshine again.

Don't always think about how it was before, give people a chance to make amends, and at the same time give yourself a choice. If you really don't have feelings, there's no need to be together again.

It's all for the sake of children, just bear it if you can! You should also try to re-accept her (she has repented).

If you leave again, your child will lose faith in you.

Quarrels are the spice of love. Sometimes it's appropriate to make a fuss. No, no, no.

But it's better not to speak those aggressive language. In fact, sometimes the relationship is long. And that's what changed.

I feel that it is a kind of family affection and responsibility. Relationships need to be maintained with IQ. And not simple language.!

Do you know what it means to start a family? It is to start a family first and then start a business, this makes sense, people who have a family are more responsible and motivated, if there is still love for each other, then what can not be created, most of my friends and relatives around me have nothing before marriage, and now a good life is created together. It is easier to know that two people create more power and motivation than one person, and it is easier to succeed if they have a clear sense of purpose.

Sometimes people need to put pressure on themselves to stimulate their potential, and people who are used to being comfortable are not willing to struggle. Your views and topics show that you have obviously entered the misunderstanding, you divide love and life into contradictory opposites, you say whether to choose love or life, in fact, love and life are coexisting, life with love is wonderful, gorgeous, even if this road is full of bumps and thorns, you can completely rely on your own efforts to split them, to cross, this is life, the sweetness of life is certainly delightful and exciting, but the bitterness of life can also make people reminisce and enjoy!

As a man, you don't even have the confidence and courage to give your loved one a happy life, I think you love the wrong person!

I feel that it should be emotional, because you can't get along well with this one, and it's the same with your other girlfriends, unless you decide not to marry in the future, you can't say what the work will be, who knows what the situation will be in the future, you can't fight with feelings and probabilities, and I feel that if you are with the person you like, it will help you solve a lot of things, and there is sustenance in the emotional aspect, so you will boldly do the work you want to do, if it is me, if the girl is not strongly opposed I will choose to get married,

According to what you say, there will be no poor people in China in the future - because they are poor, they will not dare to get married, they will not dare to have children, and in the future, there will only be rich people in China!

Although it is said that poor couples mourn everything, isn't life just a piece of chicken feathers? There are all kinds of problems in marriage, and you should know that marriage and love are not the same - the poor have the difficulties of the poor, and the rich have the difficulties of the rich. God is fair in imperfection.

Of course, I'm not saying that you should cover your ears and steal the bell, you should make a basic estimate with her: what to do with the pension in the future, is there any feasible plan, if it continues to develop as it is now, the economy will not be very rich in the future, and is it possible to resist the past.

In fact, I think that as long as your relationship is deep, each other's character is reliable, and the living are not suffocated by urine, there must be a road in front of the mountain to the car, which may be more difficult, but you can always get through.

But if you don't have this confidence, then forget it, if you don't have the courage now, you won't be able to hold on in the future.

Then it's better for you to find a good person, such as you, find a local girl with a monthly salary of 3000, such as her, go back to your hometown to find a partner, don't worry about pension.

If the two of you love each other, you should be together, don't give up on each other because of some problems in life, and it is normal to start a family first and then start a business.

Besides, even if you give up this girl, you don't want to find a wife yet, and you're 29 now. Personally, I think you should cherish what is in front of you. Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

You can't talk about the frivolity of your youth now, so what you do is also very responsible, there is nothing you can't do, it depends on what you think, it is not necessarily that you are rich and young is capital, your current maturity is capital, there is nothing to think about, there is no need to doubt, two people work together, I believe that the result will be very happy, believe in yourself,