What kind of person asks you to borrow money, and you won t borrow if you have money?

There have been people who borrowed money and didn't repay their criminal records, and I wouldn't lend them money if I had it.

In real life, it's normal for friends to help each other. However, when someone who borrowed money and did not repay the criminal record asked me to borrow money, I would definitely find various reasons to refuse him.

When people get along with each other, trust is the foundation, and if you lose trust in someone, it will be difficult for two people to get along with each other. When I was in college, I had a very good friend, and we lived in the same dorm room, so good that we could even change clothes for each other.

After graduating from college, we were a little distant, because we didn't work in the same city, but I always thought of him as one of his best friends. Once he called ** to borrow money from me, saying that it would be a turnaround, and I did not hesitate at all and gave him all the money I had in my hand at that time.

Originally, it was expected to be repaid within a month, but I waited for three years, and the money was not returned to me. Since that time, I have stopped trusting him, and there may be a superficial connection, but in my heart I have long since stopped seeing him as a friend.

There has been a person who has borrowed money and has not repaid his criminal record, and I will not lend him money if I have money. After that, that friend called ** several times one after another, wanting me to lend him some money for turnover, but I no longer trust the other party, so I always have various reasons to refuse, and slowly he stopped borrowing money from me.

I think this situation should be common in life, and he should know why I always reject him. But he still hasn't paid back the money, which makes me feel a little resentful all the time.

I never want to use money to see the true face of a friend, but when I do encounter this situation, I can only choose to accept the reality, but in the future life, we should have less and less intersections.

There are always people in your life who come to your life, and there are always people who choose to leave, but there are various ways to leave, and some of them are really annoying.

There is borrowing and repaying, and it is not difficult to borrow again, perhaps this is the most correct way to open the borrowing between friends.

The kind of person who is addicted to gambling asks me to borrow money, and I will not lend it to him if I have money, because I know that the money lent to him cannot be recovered, and this kind of person is a bottomless pit.

The kind of person who likes gambling very much, moonshine clan, has no plans for his life, and lives one day at a time, I will definitely not lend him money, why not be responsible for my own money?

People who drink a lot, ask me to borrow money. I don't borrow anything, such a friend of wine and meat, if he wants to borrow money, he will definitely not pay me back, and I am very clear.

Even if someone who has no credit asks me to borrow money, I won't borrow if I have money. Because I know that such people are not worthy of my trust.

If this person has a problem with his character, has some bad habits, or has a bad reputation, then I will definitely not lend money to such a person.

First of all, I want to see if this person is trustworthy, if this person has borrowed money from me before and does not pay it back, I will not lend it to her again; If the person is honest, I will lend it to him.

No one should borrow, after borrowing, it is to find an enemy for yourself, and the money is not yet there.

The people who often ask me to borrow money are friends, and I still trust them.

Living in a real society, everyone may be troubled by money. When we encounter difficulties in life, asking for help from friends is everyone's most instinctive reaction. The people around me who often ask me to borrow money are friends, and they all have a good relationship.

There are always people who say that friends should not borrow money from each other, but borrowing money is actually a way to cultivate friendship. When I just walked out of campus, I needed to borrow 2,000 yuan for emergencies because of some unexpected circumstances. At that time, I didn't have all kinds of advanced consumption tools, so I chose to call ** to a friend who I thought was on a good relationship.

But after going around and playing all the **, only one friend swiped his credit card and lent it to me. I've been very grateful to him since then, and we've always been in close contact, even if we don't live in the same place.

I think borrowing money is probably the best way to test the relationship between friends, he is willing to lend you, this is the relationship between you, and you are willing to return it in time, which will also deepen his trust in you.

The people who often ask me to borrow money are some familiar friends, I know their living conditions, and I am very comfortable with them. I'm now on the right track, I'm married, I have children, and my income is relatively stable. In this situation, there are always some friends who call me to borrow money for emergency, and I rarely refuse friends who have a better relationship.

My current circle of friends is actually very small, only three or five people, and in this circle, each of them has known each other for more than ten years. I know their actual living conditions clearly, I am not worried that they will cheat on me, and I am more confident that they will repay the money on time.

After borrowing money from each other so many times, I didn't care too much about this kind of thing for a long time. When a friend opens his mouth, if he has it in his hand, I will definitely lend it to the other party, and if he doesn't have it in his hand, I will not slap my swollen face and become fat.

I think that's the normal way for friends to borrow money, I lend them love, they all take it and are willing to give me something back, and our friendship has deepened over time.

I'm sure my friends who come to me to borrow money won't joke about our friendship.

Some of the people who borrow money from me regularly are lazy people who don't usually work very hard, so they borrow money often.

The people who often borrow money from themselves are actually friends around them, because these people rely on their friendships with themselves, so they come to me from time to time to borrow money, and I will lend them too.

Most of the people who ask me to borrow money are the kind of people who tend to lose their minds when they spend money, and then they don't have a financial plan.

It's all lazy people who don't make money on their own, they always try to borrow money from others.

People who often ask themselves to borrow money are actually very lazy or very cheeky people.

The people who will borrow money from me are my best friends, and they may be having some difficulties.

No one has ever borrowed money from me, and everyone knows that I am a notoriously iron rooster.

In the end, I found out that they were all fox friends and dog friends.

Borrowing money, a very common thing in life and everyone will encounter, borrowing or not borrowing, in fact, reflects your attitude towards money, the understanding of the relationship between the two parties, and the expectation of future interest exchange, which also includes emotional response.

Borrowing money is also a sensitive topic, and most people will not speak easily under normal circumstances, and there are many friends or relatives around them, because borrowing money is more stiff than closer.

The borrower will open his mouth, there will be n many factors or reasons, there is your objective cognition and judgment of it, not to mention why I borrowed from you, and now I have received the demand for borrowing, there are the following two handling suggestions?

First, borrow. The money lent is within the range that you can afford, and it must not become a burden on yourself, the right to invest **, it is possible to earn, and it is more likely that you will not be able to return it. The brother settles the account clearly, the emotion comes last, the rules go first, leave a record, explain the date of borrowing, the date of repayment, the method of repayment, whether the interest is calculated, whether it is an investment, etc.

Second, don't borrow. Briefly explain the reason for not borrowing, hope that the other party understands, and give him help in aspects other than money to help him solve his worries and tide over the difficulties together.

There are also people who use borrowing money as a litmus test for a relationship, and this method should be used sparingly. Due to the different situations and moods of each person, it will be self-defeating in many cases.

Don't worry about having money in hand, every expenditure should reflect the value you can perceive, and make yourself happy!

Indeed, this is a scumbag. Usually a man asks a woman to borrow money, then the woman has no loyalty value in his eyes. You may be able to fall in love or even get married, but you will never be faithful.

No matter how shameless a man is, he will leave a bit of dignity in front of the woman he really likes. Regarding borrowing money, don't think that others will pay it back if it is less than 1,000. 1,000 to 10,000 depends on how urgent the loan is, and usually the more urgent it is, the less it will be repaid.

More than 10,000 can only be said to look at the character, the closer the relationship, the higher the proportion, but usually not satisfied.

In the current environment where it is very easy to borrow money, you can raise money through the Internet, credit cards, small loans, bank loans, etc., if you don't borrow money through these channels, you have to ask the people around you to borrow money, how much strength can he have to repay the money? So don't think about paying back the money you borrowed. So my principle of borrowing money is not to borrow.

In the past, I would make excuses not to borrow, but later I found that the more excuses I gave, the more faceless I was, so I just didn't borrow.

A friend of mine taught me, and he said that he had met a luxury car, but he still asked his old classmates who had met for the first time in a few years after graduation to borrow money.

My friend said, you make excuses, how do you find them? "I have run out of money lately"? "I've been short on money lately"? The simplest thing is: "My personal principle is not to borrow money, sorry, I can't break my principles." ”

This kind of saying should be very majestic.

I've heard of kneeling in front of others and borrowing 30,000 yuan, and finally taking a knife to the neck and not paying it back.

It is true that people who have borrowed money at the end of the mountain are not very capable of repaying the money.

Of course, if it is the closest friend, as long as my survival is not in danger and I don't need to lend money to him, I will borrow it, and I don't expect the other party to pay it back. It's a good friend, and he'll definitely pay it back.

It's not a good friend, just enough to break up an unnecessary relationship.

I don't advocate taking money too seriously, and after borrowing it, I scolded my mother on the circle of friends. But I don't want to mix economic factors in my personal feelings, which is really a bad feeling. So the easiest way is not to borrow.