I have ideals, I am not motivated, I feel guilty, what should I do if I have ideals and I am not mot

There are ideals, but if you just stay in the house and think nonsense, the ideals will become bubbles. I think you should go out for a walk, meet positive people, see other people's lives, and maybe give yourself some inspiration. Also, you have to think about why you want to achieve that ideal, how much you want to achieve it, and if you don't really want to achieve it, inertia will drag you back again and again.

Suggestion: First of all, find a goal, choose someone you admire to socialize, and learn from it secretly; Secondly, make a plan, the realization of the ideal requires steps, a small step a day, will be closer and closer to the ideal; At the same time, control yourself, surf the Internet less (also a word of advice to myself), the Internet and TV are the most time-wasting things; In addition, practice, in fact, as long as you take one step, the next step is much easier. For example, today you just don't want to read or study, but if you force yourself to watch for an hour, you will be very excited to find that you can actually do it, and this sense of accomplishment will bring you great joy and confidence.

If I think about my ideals, if this is still the case, there will definitely be no hope at all. I've tried to drive ** before, but your inertia has caused the current situation, you have to cheer up, give yourself a little motivation, and say silently every day: I.

At least you know that guilt is good! You just haven't found a reason to work hard! Find out what you're going out of your way for!

In terms of my own experience and the experience I have gained over the years. When you are young, people who don't live in a very good environment can easily fall into two extreme ideas. You are negative, and it is normal.

You can see from this sentence: What are you reading? I should learn a trade and work like a slave!!

If you use the word 'slave', it means that you have a high heart, and your subconscious mind is a person who does not want to lie in wait. There are good and bad ideas about this, and the bad result is the question that you are asking now. Turning bad into good, that is, if people don't eat bitterness, how can they know that there is sweetness.

There is nothing wrong with you dividing yourself, and not having ideals is where your problem lies now. But one more thing, you have a bit of low self-esteem. If you don't have enough confidence, you will often have lazy and passive behavior.

If you have a problem, you can solve it. I don't think you should rush to find understanding first. You need to start by cultivating self-confidence and strengthening your competitive spirit.

As you become more competitive, you will find out what you excel at, and then you will understand what you need and what you have to do.

If you continue like this, you will not be confused, you will affirm your own abilities, and you will be moved by your achievements. Affirm what you do in a positive way, regardless of whether it is successful or not. Always suggest to yourself that I was born to be useful! Experience happiness in producing results.

Life is good. Life is a process of management. You can tell from your question that you are self-motivated, and that is enough. You're sure to have a great future!