After breaking up with her boyfriend, she found out that she was pregnant with his child

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If the two of you love each other very much, you can use this to convince your parents, but the most important thing is that he has a sense of responsibility and will work hard to earn money to support you, so that it will work. Otherwise, you can knock that one out without knowing it, and your parents will make a fuss if they know about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's better to be decisive, since you have broken up, there is no hope, or you are not determined enough to be with him, then, you better go to the hospital to do it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it can be recovered, it must be recovered.

    Small lives are also very important! How can you easily say give up?

    Think about your future life, if you think you will be happy with him, then don't be depressed, this is also the most perfect ending!

    If for some reason, you will not be happy together, give birth to a child, the ultimate victim will be that child, don't take him as a sacrifice!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are two ways: First, I think this kind of thing should let the child and his father know that the graduation child is two people, and you can't decide how selfishly one person decides.

    Second, I think you easily obeyed your mother's words and broke up with him, which shows that your love can't withstand the ordeal. Since you've heard your mom's first time, why don't you ask her again, what should I do? See if you want to beat him or marry him.

    Take your pick!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    One way, knock it out, otherwise the trouble will be even greater.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a living little life.

    If you really can't bear it.

    Now it's time to face things.

    Find out the other person. Whether or not you are adamant about having children.

    There is also the issue of custody.

    I can't bear to see another little life lost.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What a troublesome thing

    Do you like him? What's wrong with the countryside, it's about development, if you don't like it, let's fight.

    You have to love him, talk to your mother, this is an opportunity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    yes, or you'll regret it later.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    However, there are also dangers in hitting children.

    Do you love him. Does he love you too.

    If you love each other, you can be together.

    What about the countryside, hehe.

    Let's move forward.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You must beat it out, since you broke up, why do you still want to do it?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    faint, unmarried and depressed

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you can't restore the relationship, of course you don't want it, because a single mother with a child may not be easy to find a new partner, the key is whether the man can accept the child, if he can accept it, it is still good. But it is not excluded that it is unacceptable. If you look for it again, there may be those who find a second marriage with children, and it depends on whether you want to have children or not.

    My elementary school classmates, they are a reorganized family, the father brought a child, the mother brought a child, he was born after the reorganization, the relationship between their family is very delicate, in short, it is different from a normal family, there is a gap between the children. If you can't restore the relationship, it's recommended not to.

    Miscarriage is also considered a miscarriage, and you have to pay attention to self-cultivation. It is still necessary to pay attention to protect yourself, and when you are not sure whether to have children, you should try not to let such things happen, which is not a good thing for adults or children who have not come to the world. Now there are still a lot of protective measures, since you have broken up, you should have no reason to go on, but there is no possibility of small contradictions, if this is the case, you can try to restore the relationship, which leads to the handling of follow-up problems.

    If the relationship can be restored, it becomes your unilateral responsibility if you don't want it, you need to communicate with your boyfriend, and everyone comes to discuss it together, feeling that if you make a rash decision instead of the result that the other person wants, it may push your relationship in the opposite direction. Besides, both parties have the right to decide on the rights of small lives.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you still want to get him back, you can tell him about it and see if it's possible for both parties. If you tell him and he doesn't mean to get back together, then this child may have some impact on your future life, so you must choose carefully.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In general, in this case, you should tell your boyfriend, your boyfriend is also the biological father of the child, of course he has the right to know, maybe you will also rekindle the old love, or figure out a way together, whether the baby will stay or not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He should be told that although the two of you have broken up now, the pregnancy is the result of what the two of you have experienced together. As the father of the child, it is necessary for him to know this fact, and to solve this problem on his own, it is also up to the two of you to do it together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After you break up with your boyfriend and find out that you are pregnant, you should tell him about it and don't involve the child because of the fault of the two of you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can see if you have deep feelings for him, if you still have feelings, tell him, see his reaction, if there is no feelings, make your own decision, or you can also discuss it with your parents, it will be better.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you break up with your boyfriend, but find out that you are pregnant after the breakup, you must tell your ex-boyfriend in this situation. And make this man accountable to you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, he should tell the man that he is pregnant with his child, and he should fulfill his obligations and responsibilities, and if he wants to keep it, he must get back together, and if he doesn't want to keep it, he must pay to deal with it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You definitely need to tell your boyfriend, mainly because he has a right to know, and then you decide together whether to stay or get rid of it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think you need to tell him anymore because the two of you have broken up, and after telling him, he thinks you don't want to leave him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, you should tell your boyfriend, after all, he is the father of this child, and he has to take responsibility for this child with you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course he should be told. Because this matter is a matter for the two of you, the other party also has the right to know and should tell the other party.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be sure to tell your boyfriend that although he broke up, he must bear the responsibility and the money he should pay.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, I think that after encountering such a thing, as a woman, you should first know how to calm down, don't panic, don't be too anxious, so as not to move the fetus, so only after you calm down and then calmly think about what to do, so that it is possible for you to calmly come up with a more suitable way to face it better, otherwise it will be easy to mess up.

    In fact, we all know that since you are pregnant, and if the child is your boyfriend's, then you should really know how to tell him and see what he should do? See if he is willing to be responsible for you, see if he is willing to take corresponding measures for you, or whether you yourself still have certain illusions about this age, if you want to start over with him, want to get back together, you might as well use this opportunity to go on with the other person. Of course, it also depends on your boyfriend's performance, if he is a responsible person, if he wants to go with you, if he also cherishes the child in your belly, then he will not make you angry, and will naturally treat you well.

    In fact, we all know that after pregnancy, you will indeed face this belly getting bigger and bigger, and you will face the next morning sickness and this inconvenient problem, so in this case you must think clearly, if you want a child then you should do a good job of protective measures, if you don't want a child then you should beat him off, otherwise it will be a drag on you, and you will regret it yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In this case, if you can't get back together with your boyfriend and can't afford to support the child, my personal advice is to get rid of him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Nurturing life is a sacred and solemn thing, and it is advisable not to make decisions lightly. First of all, consider whether the relationship between you and your ex-boyfriend can be saved, if not, it is recommended to go to a regular hospital for surgery accompanied by relatives or friends; If it can be recovered, it is best to discuss the marriage after the two people have reached an agreement.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At this time, you should take the initiative to contact your boyfriend and ask him if he wants this child, whether he wants it or not, and first take out money to represent her sincerity.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think if you are sure that there will be no results with this boy in the future, then quickly find a way not to have this child, because it will be painful to be born.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Calm down and tell your boyfriend that he will accompany you to **, buy you a lot of nutritional supplements, and will take care of you during this time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After breaking up with your boyfriend and finding out that you are pregnant, you should tell your boyfriend at this time to see what kind of attitude he has, and if he doesn't want to be responsible, you are going to kill the baby.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, we must figure out why the two people broke up, whether there is a possibility of getting back together, if it is not in love, it is recommended not to get back together, it is recommended not to have this child, the child is born without a father, the child has no father's love, and it is not good for the child.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It depends on the relationship between the two, if there is no emotion, then there is no need to give birth to the child. If you have feelings for your boyfriend, then you can inform him and see what your boyfriend is going to do.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First of all, what is the reason for you to break up, if it is a misunderstanding, there is still room for maneuver, then make it clear and jointly decide whether the baby will stay or not; If there is no possibility for the two of you to get back together, then it is better to choose to give up, after all, it is not easy to be a single mother.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think we should be decisive in getting rid of the child. If you go back to make peace, the other party will look down on you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you still have hope in your heart and feel that you will spend your life with him, then you tell him the news. Then let him choose, so you won't regret it either.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you really don't like him, there is no need to have this child at all, otherwise your road will be very difficult in the future.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In such a situation, you should tell the other party that the child is alive and innocent, and the boyfriend has the right to know the situation, and the two should discuss it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    That's just going to be done, fainting to death, so what do you want to do? Giving birth to a child without a father, are you an unwed mother? How will you continue in your life in the future?

    Unrealistic, okay? Even if you don't care about this, but the child doesn't have a father when he comes down, how innocent he is. Having a child is easy, but what about raising the future?

    Do you have what it takes to solve these problems on your own?

    I think you should go to a bigger hospital and ask the doctor about it, and ask if you can get pregnant this time, what should you pay attention to, now that medicine is developed, you may not be able to get pregnant. Those female stars are . .When they are old, they can get pregnant as if their private lives are so chaotic, and with the development of medicine, there are many ways to get people pregnant, so I don't think you need to worry too much.

    Now it's better for you to sort out your feelings and life. Shen Ku also mentioned that it is better for girls to cherish and protect their bodies at all times. If a man really loves you and feels sorry for you, he won't let you go to Jingdong so many times, and you don't know how to protect yourself, it's really distressing.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This question ......Personally, I think it's right to fall in love, but it's wrong to live together without considering what will happen in the future. At this time, you go to your boyfriend and see what his opinion is?

    If you go to him and explain your intentions, there should be two outcomes; That.

    1. The other party ignores you and does not admit that the child belongs to the other party, because you have broken up and left you to fend for yourself. That.

    Second, if the other party still has feelings for you, they may change their minds.

    But I guess the second scenario is impossible, because the other party has already got what Yu Nai wants, and since they broke up, then what happens later has nothing to do with him. Then, only the first outcome remains, and you have two solutions; Clause.

    1. Take the child away, don't want the child, and remember the lesson of this time, don't give your body to anyone easily; The second method is that you want to get any body tissue of the other party, such as hair, skin, skin, vertical spring or blood, etc., you give birth to the child, take it for DNA testing, and identify that the child is indeed his, and then when he gets married, you break into the other party's wedding scene with the child in your arms, and show the results to everyone present; At this time, in order to clarify the facts, the other party's family will definitely go to do a paternity test again; Because you've already done an appraisal, it's the same with another appraisal; That's it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then you can only knock the child out. Otherwise, if you go back to Cha Yingtou to find your boyfriend, your Hui Cong man will think that you lied to him if he didn't shoot his friend. Or you just find a partner. Even a baby with a belly can accept it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you can beat it, kill it!

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