After breaking up with his boyfriend, he said that he was living comfortably, so I was so redundant?

It's not that you're superfluous ... It's obvious that he's tired.,Men are tired of feelings.。。。

It just so happens that you care about this feeling, so the more you go on, the more afraid you are of losing, and the more strict you are...

He is the opposite, the further back he goes, the more he wants to be free ... Plus you are strict, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of conflicts... Break up, of course, it's easy.。。。

But after a while, he won't feel it.,Even if it's just an ordinary friend at that time.,He won't think you're superfluous.。。。

The question is whether you can become friends, don't bother him, he will think about the bits and pieces between you in life after a while, after all, this relationship has been around for a long time...

In fact, what a man cares about most is face, do you say him in front of his friends, so that he feels very faceless, my girlfriend used to be like this, but after we communicate well, it will be fine! Men need freedom too! I think your boyfriend doesn't love you enough!

Otherwise, he won't say "do what you don't want to do", if he loves you, it's worth doing anything for you! It's not easy to fall in love for 8 years! But since you are separated, you choose to look forward, pay attention to your own faults, and try to correct them in your future love! Over....

Two people have to give each other space, no space will be very tiring, my friend nagged me every day about this pain and that pain, I was about to get sick, she said, "If I bother her like this, she can't stand it anymore." So, you need to understand each other, you must have done too much to your friend, if not too much, you will put up with it, and as a boy's psychology, if you really care about your girlfriend, it should be like this. See if you still have a chance to redeem If you really love her, he really loves you, you are fighting for it, I wish you happiness.

Hehe, since you broke up, why can't you let go If he was sincere to you before, your absence will definitely affect his life After all, eight years is not a short time! Maybe he's deceiving himself Maybe he does have some shortcomings in himself Come on, come on There are a lot of good men in front of you

It's all broken up, it's not important whether it's redundant or not, it's better to reflect on yourself in the future, maybe it's true that you're not good enough, love to leave some space for each other!

The two of them are separated for a while.

It's good that everybody has enough time to think about who was better for whom.

My boyfriend and I also get into a lot of fights and stuff like that.

I was with him, and both of them were tired.

But I don't dare to break up, and I don't want to break up.

Because once you've broken up, it's really hard to get back together.

No one knows what will happen in the future.

Now that you have chosen to break up.

Then everyone is quiet.

If he really loves you.

You'll still be together.

Wishing you the best of luck finding yourself!

Maybe he's telling a lie, just trying to reassure you about his days without you?

Maybe, why don't you talk to me.

Because you haven't completely let go, adjust your mentality!

You may be too possessive.

He is dying to save face and suffer sin, and if he is not having a good life, he must say that he is good

It's all divided, so why do you care so much.

Lie to you. If you don't have a good time, you have to say that it's good.

A man's face problem.

Reflect on yourself.

I don't speak. I'm just looking.

What else can you say if you don't say that? You also calmly analyzed, did you give him too much pressure? Everyone has to have their own space, even couples.

This is especially true for men. If you really care about your relationship with him, don't put too much pressure on him, and don't try to change him by focusing on your own thoughts. Men prefer a gentle and lovely wife to an extra nagging sister or mother.

If he thinks you're cute, he'll change it for you himself, and it's definitely not you who want him to change.

He lied to you and gambled with you.

Calm down for a while.

Then look for an opportunity to get together.

I advise you to divide it. No matter how much reluctance there is, it can only be like this.

He doesn't love you anymore.

Hello! He means that since we can't be lovers, we can be friends, I know you, if you have anything on your mind in the future, just tell me about me, and I can analyze it for you.

If you don't feel it anymore, pull it down.

It's not going to work.

Unless they look at you twice when they have desires for your body.

If even your body can't arouse his desires.

Then quickly pull it down and call yourself young.

Find another suitable one.

Be realistic to be alive.

Be kind to yourself.

What kind of psychology does TM have, a man who has been talking for 8 years, since he can break up?! Are you too bad? Or is he tired of it?

Still here to speak out. 8 years, raising a dog has feelings, that man... Ay...

It's good to break up, it's definitely right for you to break up!

Your happiness is much more important than his retention, you don't like him before you break up, he doesn't want you to stay by his side and make you unhappy The man is bitter