If you weren t yourself, you wouldn t be happy

I don't know why you ask such a question and discuss it with everyone. But I've thought about this question for myself.

I wouldn't be happy if I weren't myself! The meaning of happiness is so broad that it may be a slight smile. But it is what people are desperate to seek.

When everyone starts to come to the world, they start to learn everything, learn from one aspect, do it, talk about it, find themselves, it's a very long process, many, many people lose themselves in the journey, lose themselves, and what they finally get is the result of being so dull that they let themselves down.

I'll just talk about the emotional aspect.

If I weren't me, I wouldn't be happy even if I met the right person at the right time. Because he loves – not me. The relationship is delicate, focusing on both parties, each other.

Even if it starts to be sweet, it will gradually magnify the shortcomings infinitely, and after magnification, the small shortcomings, because of love, choose to accept. But if it is a situation where one party has no ego, the so-called happiness is actually a kind of suffering.

And happiness is not temporary, but permanent, and true happiness does not stay on the surface, usually in the heart.

Think about it, if I wasn't me anymore, would I still laugh and still have emotions...

Will I ever know how my life should be ...

I'm not me anymore, in such a situation, will I be happy when I meet him?

No, even if it is a yes, it will become a negation because I am not me.

So my answer is.

I wouldn't be happy if I wasn't myself. What about you, have you thought about it, will you?

Not necessarily, some people will not be happy if they are not themselves, but some people will live for others even if they are not themselves, but they have their own happiness, because this is a kind of person who has no goal in life, and he must find something that can be spiritual, such as his spouse, living for others, if others are happy, he will also have a feeling of happiness.

From a philosophical point of view, this question is at a loss for ordinary people. But theoretically it makes sense, such as whether it is a physiological problem (such as transplanting an organ of the body, etc.), an ethical problem. But I think that as long as we have a healthy heart to live and work, I am still me!

If it's not me, what does it matter to me whether I'm happy or not.

A once-popular street interview: "Are you happy?" "Hehe, this question is really a general question, and it is difficult to get a good answer.

Someone complained directly: "I don't have the surname Fu, my surname is 'Liu', and my name is 'Liu Lang'." "Honestly, what is happiness? It doesn't need people to come, because it's written on people's faces, and the answer is between words and deeds.

Everyone's mentality is different, everyone's situation is different, and the definition of happiness is naturally different. Just like a beggar, if he can eat a full meal, he can also say that this is happiness; Farmers are happy when they have land to plant; Happiness is the recovery of the sick; Students also feel happy ...... after passing the exam

However, some people in the world may not feel that they are happy when they drive luxury cars and live in villas. Don't you see those resentful women carrying brand-name bags? Where do they get their sense of happiness?

Because there is resentment and hatred in the heart, the heart is uncomfortable, the heart has a desire but it is not satisfied, and the heart is not satisfied.

Actually, happiness is common because it's simple. When you are thirsty, you have water to drink, and when you are hungry, you have food to eat; When you were poor, someone followed you; When you are tired, someone feels sorry for you; When you are wrong, someone tolerates you; When you are sick, someone takes care of you; When you are old, there is a ...... with you

Happiness is such a little bit bit, seemingly insignificant, seemingly plain and simple, but so warm people's hearts, happiness is felt in their hearts, warm.

Feeling happiness is a state of mind and an ability.

When you have a positive and optimistic state of mind, you can produce an easy-to-accept and comfortable response even if the various events that occur are unfavorable. When your mood is too low, there are some happy things, but there are still many negative emotions.

It is difficult for people with too many thoughts to be happy, especially those who think of ways to torture others, and they may not be happy; What you get by hollowing out your mind may be the root of unhappiness.

Therefore, with a safe heart, live in your own world, this quiet corner is your own paradise, watch the flowers bloom, watch the clouds and clouds. To be content and happy is a happy state of mind.

It can be said that there is no lack of happiness in life, what is lacking is the state of mind that experiences happiness; There is no lack of happiness in life, what is lacking is wisdom not to compare with others; There is no lack of happiness in life, what is lacking is a lack of contentment.

Having said so much, I just want to get to you, my friend! There are many troubles in the world, and you are not worried or worried, but it is better to relax your mind, have a peaceful heart, do not compare with others, and build your own inner world, where you are the unique owner.

May you always be in a good mood, no worries and no worries, eliminate interference by yourself, always smile, be content and happy, calm and relaxed, happy and simple, and there is no shortage of happiness on the road of life.

A: Recently, the results of a survey report showed that we are the country with the highest happiness index. The results of this survey are in line with the views of the vast majority of us.

We say this because our living conditions are in the best of our history, we are constantly evolving, our industries are thriving, and we are hopeful for the future.

1. Our living conditions are in the best period in history, and we are certainly happy.

It is the blessing of life to be in the prosperous era. We are in the midst of a prosperous age. ......At present, our living conditions are the best in history, with stability, harmony and abundance, and we are all very satisfied with our lives.

In terms of career, each of us is in the process of development and progress, and the future development is bright. All this makes us feel happy and satisfied, with a very high sense of well-being.

2. We are in the process of continuous development, and all walks of life are thriving.

We are now in an era of continuous development and progress, and all walks of life are thriving. ......In such an environment, we are very satisfied with our lives and full of confidence in our career development. As a result, we now feel very fulfilled and fulfilled in our hearts, with a sense of happiness that is not always high.

3. We are full of hope for the future and a sense of happiness for a better life.

We are now living in an era of continuous economic development and continuous improvement of quality of life. Living in such an era, every one of us is full of hope for the future. ......This kind of self-confidence that tomorrow will be better makes us full of happiness for our career and life, and this happiness exists in the hearts of each of us, which is why we have become the happiest country.

What is happiness? Everyone's understanding of it is different? Maybe you say that if you have money, you will be happy; Maybe you say that you are happy when you have children; Maybe you say that if you have a good lover, you will be happy... In fact, there is no definition of happiness itself, the most basic is what you desperately want now, and you think it is:

If you meet your needs, you feel happy.

I remember when I was a child, I wanted to be admitted to a good school, but I couldn't do it quickly, but the more I wanted to get in, the more I couldn't get in, and I finally went to a junior college. I felt as if fate had played a trick on me, and I didn't feel happy or happy at all. But as the years passed, I realized that life is not only about going to school.

When it came to my own children's generation, I was in a mood to go with the flow, and as a result, they were all quite competitive, and they all successfully completed their studies, and then I felt very happy, because my unfulfilled wishes were fulfilled in them, and they could take a different path in life. That's how happiness defines me.

Happiness is a touching time and again in life; Happiness is a happy smile; Happiness is a simple life... In fact, happiness is around everyone, it never goes far, it is around.

Of course, you are happier than people who are not as good as you.

The definition of happiness is different for everyone, let me say that contentment is always happy!

What a broad question

I'm very satisfied with what I am looking for, and I don't have as much pressure as you say.