After 3 months of love, it became cold, and it should not continue

Judging from your situation, it's clear that the man doesn't want to talk about it

To be exact, from the perspective of a man, this man may use you as a bargaining chip, and it is the lowest bargaining chip, how to say. It means that he still wants to find someone else, but he is afraid that he will not find it, and finally chooses you

Look clearly, in fact, after 4 months, you also understand what kind of person this is, and you should be clearer about what kind of character you are

Marriage is a major event in life, don't compromise on everything...

Sister Beauty can see that you are very distressed, and I don't have much experience in this, so I can only briefly say my advice.

Didn't he say he wanted to find something better? You're still young and pretty, he thinks you're not good enough, and when you're old, it's strange that he doesn't mess around, and you'll definitely be miserable at that time.

It seems that it is a matter of time before you break up, he may feel that he has wasted months on you and has not received anything, so he is unwilling to break up like this, and he knows from his attitude that he doesn't take you seriously at all, let alone marriage.

I may think of him badly, but since the moderator is a person who attaches great importance to marriage, he should be strict before marriage and don't be deceived by villains.

Maybe your individual habits or something, let him have a rejection psychology in his heart, let him rush to be very entangled, pay attention to whether he has any behavior, make the other party feel uncomfortable, have you been too strong or arrogant in front of him? Your conditions are very good, yes, but people have self-esteem, especially for men, who can't stand being "humiliated" by their girlfriends all day long.

If the moderator doesn't want to test his boyfriend's endurance, don't say how good he is, marrying him is marrying something like that.

We can only provide one-sided opinions, and in the end, it is up to the moderators to judge themselves.

In addition, moderators should participate in more social occasions, contact more people, and naturally meet the right people, many couples meet at parties.

No, don't let yourself be sad.

Because the novelty has been lost, because what can be explored has been explored.

You give too much, and there is no sense of mystery, so he will naturally lose interest in you. Many boys are like this, after completely getting a person, the mountain alliance and sea oath are forgotten.

You can have appropriate reservations, but you can't stick to it, and you can relax it in moderation, so that it can last for a long time, otherwise, he just uses you as a tool.

Generally, couples are in the third month of love, the relationship between the two becomes weaker, and they begin to get tired of each other, and even some couples will regard the cold period as a manifestation of the other party's lack of love, which is actually wrong, the two are very different, and the following will take you to understand the difference between the cold period and not love, and how to save the feelings of the cold period. Men and women are in love.

It is generally three to twenty-four months, and after this period, two people begin to become cold between them, so how do two people continue to be in love in life?

Be curious.

Every day is a new challenge, and of course your significant other is not. Try to discover all kinds of different him, he at work, when he plays, when he is with friends, when he is dependent on you, and when he is doing all the leisure activities he loves, everyone will have different faces in different or trembling occasions and behaviors, and the same is true for you, in addition to discovering each other's faces, but also let the other party know that you are not just you, everyone is changeable, and it is because of these changes that you create a unique self!

There is no clear time limit for couples' cold periods, some appear early, others later, and are affected by both subjective and objective factors. The subjective factors that occur during the couple's cold period are generally based on the person's own feelings.

QuestionNow that I've been in love for three months, I'm scared....

There's nothing wrong with asking questions, and after five minutes of arguing, they apologize to each other and reconcile Sasa heard that three months is a period of indifference, so I was scared and asked.

Ask a question, okay, thank you.

A mature love relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, and that is: coexistence and anti-dependence, and the time required to transition between independent stages is not necessarily from person to person. The first stage:

Coexistence. This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

Answering pro, most of the cold period of the average couple is in the third month, and the third month is the most right, and the freshness will pass, and it will slowly become no topic, and there is no feeling of wanting to stick together. If two people want to get through this period and want to keep going, then both of them have to put in the effort and take the initiative to maintain this love!

Alas. lz

It's MN. If I were your boyfriend, it would be like this, 、..It's because you're so willful. That's why it's like this. Do you know? Every time you break up with him, he's miserable.

He thinks you don't care about him、。。 Maybe we will break up because of some small things.

This is the main one

However, it's not impossible for girls to be willful. Be measured, what willfulness will be so cute, and when willfulness will make others think that you are so ignorant. These are two different things!

You said that every time you mention "break up" in the cerebellum...What do you think he's going to think? I think you can think about it and you should be able to know 、。.

Now you have become like this. Not cold. It's you who put him under pressure.

He may be thinking, "Maybe you're going to break up with him for no reason," but he knows that you are willful, and he loves you, so he won't ask you to remove the word "willful" from you.

So he had to be silent by himself

I can't do anything but silence, and I don't want to say it every time."

Love you so much" even if you're not.

Everyone is tolerant, let alone their own girlfriend, but tolerance is limited. After a long time, it manifested.

That's because he's tired!

Think for yourself! The question is with whom. If you don't understand, you can also talk to Q.

Hope it helps!

Finally, I wish you all happiness! Happy

Love will be more beautiful if two people cultivate it with their hearts!

Many couples lose to the cold period, because they can't communicate together, to put it bluntly, they are emotionally indifferent, and they lack more opportunities to communicate and interact together. In the end, the two broke up during the cold period. In fact, it is a pity that this way is a pity, when you encounter this stage, you should learn to communicate positively, face it positively, and learn to tolerate, so that the relationship will go on better.

Couples have been together for a long time, and the relationship gradually loses its freshness and enters a cold period, and the cold period is generally in the third month of love, which will last for a period of time, during which couples will be very difficult and easy to break up.

The distance between the two sides can be appropriately widened.

Couples who have entered the cold period have no freshness to each other and are beginning to get tired of each other, so don't rush to get close to each other at this time, you might as well be separated for a period of time, and you will miss each other if you don't see each other for a while, and you will start to miss each other when you miss each other, so that the other party's boredom will be reduced, and it will promote the relationship.

Communicate more.

If a couple wants to get through the cold period, they must communicate more, talk about their hearts, and it must be mutual, otherwise they will always be led by one person, and over time the other party will feel tired, and he will not take the initiative to communicate with you or communicate with him, so the result of the cold relationship will be very bad.

Adjust your status.

If the couple who has entered the cold period feels that their mood is relatively low, and the other party can't be interested in anything, then you must adjust this state in time, otherwise in the end the other party will wonder if you don't love her anymore, whether there is any problem, etc., many people will experience the emotional downturn, but you must find a suitable way to adjust, so as to make the relationship longer.

Create a small mood in life.

Couples in the cold period will have a certain amount of pressure, anxiety, and even depression, which will make both parties become more and more silent, so both parties must create some small moods in life, such as occasionally giving each other surprise gifts, taking lovers out on dates, etc., to change the boring life, otherwise the relationship is likely to come to an end.