Am I stingy, am I too stingy, too picky?

I don't think it's a stingy thing to encounter this kind of thing.

You must have doubts in your mind right now.

So why hold it in your heart.

Just ask him, it's not a quarrel.

Can I understand it as a third party? Hey... To be honest, don't believe it, what man can guarantee that his current girlfriend is the love of his life? The men were eating from the bowl and looking at the pot.

What you can't get is often the best. Actually, to be honest, I have a girlfriend and have been talking for almost 3 years.

But in fact, it's not her that I really love the most, and I will also find an opportunity to find the girl I have always loved the most. But don't scold me for being a beast, I'm very good to my current girlfriend, I can't say that I don't like it, and I can't say that I am stepping on two boats, she is just the emotional sustenance in my heart, a thought.

So I advise you, as long as your boyfriend still loves you and treats you well, don't dwell too much on this matter, men are all the same...

You're not stingy, you're very angry, because you never doubted him before, and you never posted on his QQ. Now that I have found such a situation, I have to think about it and listen to his explanation. It is important to take a good look at what kind of person your boyfriend is for your future days.

Seriously, to put it mildly, it's self-love, and if we're going to be with you, it's mostly against your body. It is impossible to turn back time, and the future can only have a body that exceeds self-love, not any person who loves you, which will only make others feel that you are very casual. Didn't meet a person who really loves you.

Because you can't talk about it, it's because you've become numb and take for granted that this kind of thing has been lost. What do I suggest to you? Find some friends to chat with and enlighten you.

I think your boyfriend gave you the password, and the girl is also a girl, and the note is like this, there are two possibilities: 1 is just playing with her, 2, and wants to break up with you, and you need to ask clearly.

It's not a matter of being petty, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be frank, it is not allowed for him to like to play ambiguously with others, he should be honest with you.

Hehe, see if they're good friends if not...You're going to even think about it yourself.

Don't think too much about it, you did a good job at least you didn't quarrel with him right away, maybe they just chatted and didn't care too much.

How can this be called stinginess, as long as you have feelings, you will definitely have such a reaction. It's normal to see how to solve this problem. Time is the best antidote you can try.

It's not stingy, and you can't rub sand in your eyes.

Personally, I think the landlord is very normal, the consumption concept values are different, for example, you can ask yourself if your parents are sick and reluctant to spend money, if you are very willing, it is not a deduction, just thrifty. Don't worry too much about the landlord, you will slowly find a like-minded girlfriend.

You are real, others may look picky, but you are a person who lives a life, and it is okay to find a girlfriend who can see your goodness. It's not stingy, you don't think it's necessary to buy such an expensive thing, it's not worth it in your eyes, that's why you pick it. Some things are priceless, so if you think things are worthwhile, you won't pick them, just like if you buy a house, you live in it with your family, and no matter how hard you pick, you have to pay a lot of money to have it.

I don't think it's stingy, it's that you will live, because some things are not expensive to be generous, but to see what suits you, some people have a comparison mentality, always think that others buy expensive and buy good, and they want to buy the same. In fact, rational consumption is suitable for their own needs, and the things on the market are divided into high and low, which are suitable for mass consumption and suitable for people at different levels.

According to your account, I don't see where you have to pick the door.

If you buy apples in installments of 12,000, you will have normal consumption compared to yours. It's easy to make money when you're young, but it's hard to make money when you're old. But there is still a need to live every day, and it costs money. Where does the money come from? It's by saving up when I was young.

So you're doing the right thing, your friend. Spending tomorrow's money today, and it's for consumption, is too unreliable.

Not spending money that is not necessary is called thrift. If you don't spend the money you need to spend, it's called a deduction. Obviously, you are thrifty, and you are a virtue.

Don't care what people say to you, a hundred people have a hundred suggestions, and you can never get everyone to agree with you. Have a great day, thank you!

It's not a pick, it's not a pick. Being a man can't be compared, you can earn money by yourself, and you have to spend it on what you want to do. True friends will not contact you because the clothes, pants, and mobile phones you buy are cheaper than them (compared to them, compared to the average person, the price of the things you buy is higher).

This is not a buckle, but tailor-made, belonging to the people who will live, spend 6400 to buy a new mobile phone, that is a bit too luxurious, not cost-effective, just a tool to play **, and use so much consumption? What a woman.

I don't think you're too stingy and picky, there's nothing wrong with you doing this. I think for example, a mobile phone can be used for thousands of dollars, why buy more than 10,000? Do you hold it to show off to others?

There is no need, the money you save yourself, you can live a better life in the future, you can't compare with them, they look beautiful on the surface, but in fact they have empty pockets.

This is not a stinginess, but diligence and thrift, and this kind of thrift is a good habit. Virtue is not something that everyone has, so you should cherish this good character in this regard.

It's not picking, it's saving! Don't buy what you can't use, try to buy the lowest quality one if you can use it. You're good! We should all learn from you.

Am I being too stingy? Too picky? I feel that your approach is very good, not too stingy, too picky, but not to spend money indiscriminately, although you can take out the money, are reluctant to buy a 6000 yuan mobile phone, your comrades 12000 people are willing to take out a loan to buy, I think you do this is very in line with our Chinese nation's idea of closing the business, I praise, stealing your approach is not stingy, too picky, this style is very good.

You don't have to change it, you're not too stingy, you're not too picky, you buy what you need, you don't need to spend so much money to buy a mobile phone if you don't need it, it's a consumable, and it won't take two or three years to change it if you spend a few thousand dollars. You don't have to compare with others, you live your own life.

If you reflect on yourself like this, you should spend your own money, you should be too cautious, you should be generous, so that you can find a girlfriend.

Hehe, if it is a man, it will not be deducted, most men only need to be useful, and they don't care too much about being expensive and cheap, only those who really deduct it care.

What suits you is the best, don't pursue comparison, spend your money where it should be spent.

You're not stingy, are you? Something for your own use. You can buy as much as you want. It's expensive or not, just use it yourself. Don't have a comparison mentality.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't have any comparison, just do what you can, don't care about other people's eyes, just consume according to your actual economic situation, don't care about other people's eyes.

This matter does not mean that you are too picky, because everyone's living environment is different, and the family conditions are not good since childhood, so it can only be said that you will live and spend your money on the right ground.

It's not that you pick the door, but the habits are not high, the consumption habits are reasonable, the consumption is just right, and it's good not to pick the door, everyone has their own habits and their own consumption concept.

You have the life you want, and others have someone else's. It's not up to anyone to say whether to pick or not, for me, it's someone else who invited you to eat 100 yuan of food. You please go back to 75. I still feel that the other party has earned.

Reluctant to buy too expensive things is not a pick, and not having the ability to consume ahead is not generous! Consumption should be suitable for oneself, and a boss with a net worth of hundreds of millions of dollars drives a car of 200,000 yuan, not because others can't afford to consume, but for himself.

The older you get, the more you will feel that only the growing amount of deposits in your bank card can bring you more security ......

I'm not too stingy and too familiar, okay. After reading the content of your lawsuit, I think you are not stingy, but you are picking on your life, you are too much, and you are not willing to spend more money to buy clothes or things, buy those luxury goods, it may be related to the hard life you lived when you were a child.

Personally, I think it's okay if you're stingy, because it can also show that you're thrifty, but if you have a girlfriend and give things away from others, it won't work if you invite others to dinner.

Am I too stingy and too picky, from the example you said, you are not too picky, but according to your own income appropriate expenditure, this is correct, don't compare with anyone but with yourself.

I didn't feel your stinginess, and I didn't feel your picking! If more than 2,000 mobile phones have met your requirements, why do you have to buy more than 6,000 of them!

Clothes and pants **high and **low, their value seems to make no difference!

In short, you are who you are! Don't change for the sake of anything! Be your best!

I don't think it's stingy, I think about living big, because I don't have money to sell things, it's better to work on my children's studies, I dress plainly, and I'm healthy.