In fact, what I m afraid of is that his parents won t agree to go down with him now, what should I d

You're scared, aren't you sure?

His parents didn't understand what you were like, so you decisively wiped out your self-confidence. You worked hard, if his parents still don't agree because of external reasons, and they don't want to, then after all, you've worked hard for this relationship. For the sake of the one you love, you go to get the consent of his parents.

I don't believe it, people's hearts are flesh and blood, if you are good, if you are good to their children, and you are as filial to them as their biological parents, then what reason do they have to refuse?

As a parent communication, what you need is to care for them, be filial to them, and let them recognize your strengths. And what he has to do is to introduce you to your parents deeply, so that parents think that you are a person worthy of being with their children.

If you don't work hard, if you worry too much about these things at the beginning, and you give up now, are you willing? It's better to give it a go.,Even if it's not satisfactory, after all, I've worked hard.。。 But I believe that his parents will like you more because of your persistence and strengths...

Don't have too much negativity about your relationship, be confident, give him a little confidence, give you a little confidence, and you work together to get their consent.

Why don't you agree? What is the reason not to agree? You are the master of your own happiness, even if it happens in the future, it is also your willingness, then you also feel happy.

Parents are not qualified to take care of this in the first place. I hate that kind of parents the most, obviously people love each other but want to separate people. It's not like I'm going to live with them for the rest of my life.

I hope you will persevere for happiness.

Upstairs is right, I'm also in a state of confusion right now, but hopefully we can all stay confident and win the future.

How old are you? It's good if you just propose to get married, you have to do it early, if you don't agree, then you are still young and can have a way back.

The same fate is connected.,But I'm worse than you.,Not only do her parents disagree.,And my parents don't agree either.。。。

The most pitiful parents in the world, the most pitiful children in the world!

He and his parents should take action to make sure they will be good to her in the future.

I really love you, and I won't give up being with you because of someone else's words.

Divide it. It's a choice she made and you should respect it.

Don't want such a woman, you are not true love.

Go and beg her father, don't be afraid of anything, be a man, be brave and resourceful.

It can be seen that there are a lot of problems between you, and from your description, it seems that you are feeling more fear of her now, you are afraid of being with him, and you feel scared and want to run away from the thought of marrying him. In the matter of breaking up, you are afraid that you will hurt him, and you don't know whether you are really afraid of hurting him or afraid of the consequences of the breakup. You do endure too much, maybe you need a breakthrough, in fact, the main thing is to know what your heart really wants.

If you don't want to break up, maybe you should learn how to get along with him better, when dealing with someone like your boyfriend, you are powerless, and even have to suppress yourself. For you, the situation really needs a professional to help you.

First of all, you can have a good chat with him, this problem is also relatively large, you discuss which aspects are the bottom line, in fact, love lies in communication, I was also a more grumpy person before, my girlfriend said bad temper, and then she agreed, and then slowly changed, really love a person can make changes for each other, and bless you, love is not appropriate, and cherish it.

Then don't care, it's good for you to be happy, don't you still have your own parents, if his parents can't invite him, his brother and sister-in-law will communicate more, such people are very selfish, and they will support them when they are older, there is no need to ruin their happiness for their selfishness! Or you'll leave this boy! Because you are not deeply involved in the world and are not very old, you can find a better life, choose for yourself.

Be open and honest, go face to face with your parents on both sides, and make it clear, it's not a big deal. Now don't accuse his parents of doing what they do.

After all, there is a gap in ideas. Seek common ground while respecting differences.

You are all literate people.

Since you love each other, then no matter what, do your best to be happy and be together.

His parents' approach was indeed excessive. But, maybe they have their position. We have to find a way to be considerate and understanding.

empathy", is it sometimes "the speaker has no intention, the listener has the intention"? Could it be some misunderstanding? Try to communicate, change yourself for his sake.

If you can't do it, just be patient. If you don't get along, he'll be sad to be caught in the middle.

Think of it as a thank you for raising the person you love. Also, parents love their children, whether it's protecting their shortcomings or whatever. Prove to them:

You love each other, you treat him sincerely, and you will create happiness with him that belongs to you, not for anything. Also, you really want to get their blessings and really want to get along with them. Also, if they're partial to their two sons or something, don't worry too much.

I can't bear it anymore, so I don't see each other anymore. But no matter what, there must be some politeness, we are quality people.

There is another point I want to ask: who is his sister-in-law? Why is it recognized by them? You might be able to learn a little bit.

Finally, I wish you happiness

Communicate with your sister-in-law a lot, the woman always has to live with the man's parents, read more books on communication with the elders, and it is good for herself.

Wish: happiness and good health.

What do you say? In fact, parents are good for their children, you must first understand this, no matter what, don't hate her parents, because this can only make the woman you love dilemma, caught in the middle, difficult to be a person, such a time is too much, I will definitely choose blood parents and will not choose you. It can't be said that it is useless to meet the requirements of her parents, but it is obvious that if you meet one, they will propose the next one, and this is how the daughter's family marries is like it, and the trouble is to death My suggestions are as follows, and you can consider them as appropriate.

First, don't talk to her face about her parents' badness, the pressure her parents put on you, and the pressure on her is the pressure of you and her parents combined, and talking too much will only disappoint you.

Second, don't think too much about the feelings of her parents After all, you have to understand that although marriage is a matter of two families, but falling in love before marriage is a matter of the two of you, for the sake of things that have not happened yet, it is more than worth the loss to affect the current relationship, so what you have to do is to be good to her, you should endure it, you think, how many sacrifices have you made, can the woman who loves you know? The more you sacrifice, the more she loves you, and if you do get married, then she'll give you back twice as much.

Third, if your girlfriend is the kind of person who listens to her mother very much, or make long-term plans, improve your girlfriend's self-confidence in herself and confidence in your relationship from other angles, you first have to make your girlfriend wake up to a truth, that is, if you don't marry, resistance is also a method, and doing it is the stupidest thing to do slow work Do you want people to and pee for more than 20 years to pull the big baby, you go to meet and get it away? Don't be funny.

Fourth, finally, if you and your girlfriend don't have the confidence and the ability to fight a long game, then there's only one last option, although I don't recommend it... It's to get on the bus first and then make up the ticket, get a baby first, get pregnant and then get married, so that her parents won't object if they're normal, but this one is not recommended after all, and the reason is that you think for yourself.

That's it, I'm in a similar situation to you, I've been in love for 4 years now, but it's still not going to happen for the time being, but it doesn't matter. Live a good life, think about it, people pick the east and the west, if you are up, you are the one who picks the east and the west, to put it bluntly, you still have no ability, right? Be yourself before you think about anything else.

Otherwise, what are you going to do to take care of other people's families and make their parents feel at ease?

Look at me typing so many words, there are still two minutes, the speed is adopted first, and then read slowly, if there are still questions, you can chat privately.

Let's be honest, it's really hard to solve such a problem on your own. In the eyes of your parents, you are all children, and they will not listen to what they say, and most relatives will side with your parents or be silent. If you are considering getting pregnant first and then getting married, the risk is also very high.

Unless you can find an authoritative emotional expert to help you speak, it's really hard to rely on yourself and the people around you.

If your girlfriend is more independent, individual, and assertive, then you are more likely to be together.

But I don't think you're talking about her like that. Even if you can be together, who can guarantee that you will not quarrel or separate in the future, and when the time comes, her parents will say something about what happened at the beginning, which is really boring.

Do you want to regret it? If you don't want to, then hurry up and work hard, asking this useful? It's useless to say how much.

What is your major and what is your monthly salary.

First of all, you have to find out whether his mother is a vexatious person. It's a mean person, if so, forget it!

If you're feeling okay, I suggest you go! Because after a long time, there will be some run-in, it depends on your character and his mother's character If you deal with some small problems well, you can't stand it or not, in fact, women are always selfish, even if your future mother-in-law has high requirements for you, it is nothing more than for his son, it depends on whether your man is sincere to you, even if he listens to his mother, his love for you will not listen to anyone's words, so you can rest assured! If he can get him to break up with you, he'll do this obedient way and persuade you to castrate him!

Save me from disgusting such a man when I think about it! Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is very important for a man not to be soft-eared, and he must be able to endure the anger of his wife and his mother, so that it will be harmonious!

Good luck.

I'm going through a similar experience to you.

But. If you want to have a future with him.

Just let go of your hands and love boldly.

Afraid of what. Later, when I got married, I didn't live with my parents.

He's good to listen to fucking.

You're not on the same front as the.

Don't think so pessimistically.

As long as you feel that he deserves it and that he treats you well, you can manage so many 2 people that it feels important to be together.

Parents are for our good though.

But this kind of thing still has to be done on your own, and if you miss it, it will be a lifetime.

Now it's scared.

Later on, it's regret.

Far from home is not a problem, the question is whether your relationship is strong, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be solved by yourself, there is no contradiction between me and my mother-in-law, because you just listen to what he says, and if you scold and don't reply, he can't do anything about you, in fact, this is not to be wronged but not to embarrass your husband, and your husband knows that he will love you more in the future, so isn't it earned.

Find a mother-in-law's house that you have entered away from your parents!

If you love him, if you are sure that you love him, if you are sure that you are not blindly loving him, if you are sure that he is indeed a boy of good character and a sense of responsibility, if you are sure that you cannot afford to lose him, I don't know what you are afraid of?

I think that all things like education, wealth, and status are appearances, and they can all be made up for by nurture. But whether a boy has a good moral character, whether he has a sense of responsibility and self-motivation is the main factor that determines his future.

If you can confirm your heart, you can confirm him, then when you face your parents, your heart should be free of fear and fear.

A successful man.

Academic qualifications are not the standard.

How many rich men are college graduates?

He doesn't even have much book knowledge.

If he is successful.

Should be successful in social interactions.

How many lovers can't ...... end

But if we think about all this deeply

When we mature, we may understand that small problems at that time can become big problems after marriage, and fate is a wonderful thing

As for your current situation, I think you can settle for the next best thing and be a good friend who talks about everything

I'll talk about it later......After all, everything is changing

No one can predict what will become of you

As your mind matures, you will understand that you need to make your own decisions about your life!

Feelings are two people, and I hope he will think the same way

One person's efforts are too small

Why not Bai agree? I have a friend who has been with his girlfriend for seven or eight years, but he has never gotten married, because his friend's family is against it, and the reason is that he started.

Rong Shi, his friend's family still likes his girlfriend, but then I don't know why, his girlfriend and his friend quarreled, but his girlfriend's personality is the kind that sounds impatient, and he won't please people, so in the end, her mother-in-law hates her, and everyone in the family hates her. As a result, my friend just can't get married now, but he doesn't want to break up, and it's been seven or eight years. Are you like that?