If the girlfriend wants to break up, there may be a third party

Even if it's separated, it's still reluctant, and besides, she told me that she would greet me with her boyfriend and still think about it, 88.

Find the problem from yourself. Don't just ask for something.

First of all, the premise of all the following descriptions is that you make sure that your girlfriend still has a chance to change her mind.

The involvement of a third party has always been a heavy topic in relationships. If your other half has always had a good relationship with you, and suddenly you resolutely want to break up, then you can actually consider whether it is the other party who has suffered and said that you have thought too much. And not a third party intervening.

In this case, it is to directly or indirectly tap to the side, understand the specific reason, and tell the other party to face it together.

If the other half is suddenly going to break up in the middle of a quarrel, then consider the following scenarios:

1: A third party takes the opportunity to step in. If this is the case, then the more you behave less calmly and composedly than the third person, the more the other half will be deceived by the third person's demagogy.

Only treat it calmly and ask your other half if you really think about it, the relationship between each other for so long has gone through so many tribulations. At the end of the day, he and she have to choose the sugar-coated cannonball of a third party.

2: Repeated arguments cause the other party to be disheartened. In this case, don't think about how to recover it in the first place.

Instead, they are thinking about where the contradictions between each other are. Whether they are willing to change for the sake of each other, and whether the other party is willing to give each other another chance, even if it is not now. You can give each other a period of calm time, for example, a week later, and then give a calm reply that you have thought clearly.

Many times people are carried away by emotions and say things that they regret. So when the other party says this, it doesn't necessarily mean that.

The last one, as guessed, is the intervention of a third party. The other half began to pay unusual attention to their appearance, demeanor, and disregard for each other's feelings. If so, don't run away from it.

Because running away will only give the third party more time to take the other half away from them. You can spread it out and ask if the other half has thought about it. I also ask clearly that I am inferior to the third party, whether I don't understand the other half enough, or I don't understand the other half's mind, or I don't understand romance, or what.

Hysteria does have the potential to salvage feelings, but that's a rare case. If the other half has been attracted to a third party, then this behavior of the other party may cause the other party to resent it. To show yourself mature and calm.

You should also express your love for your other half in the past, and your past naivety and immaturity are due to loving each other too much. If the other party is leaving, then it is time for him to wake up. Often, this kind of indirect speech will make the other person feel more guilty than a positive stalker.

Here are some of my insights that I hope will help those in need.

Friends suddenly and resolutely want to break up to prove that your girlfriend has complained about you in her heart, and now you feel that a third party has intervened, so there is no need to keep such a girlfriend, and it is better to break up as soon as possible.

There's no good way to do this, the twisted melon is not sweet, so forget it.

There's no way, I can't keep those who want to leave.

What is yours will always be yours, and what is not yours is not yours.

This problem has probably been encountered by many friends, when falling in love, there are other people of the opposite sex pursuing themselves, at this time, do you want to talk to the object at the end of Xuntong?

No, Shan Changsun said, it seems that he is not honest enough; Speaking of which, I am worried about becoming a thorn in my relationship.

**。At this time, concealing the object and dealing with it silently by himself is considered a white lie?

When a third party calls himself, avoid the object like **, solve it by himself, and directly tell the other party that he has a boyfriend or girlfriend, but when the subject asks, is it an understatement of "nothing", or is it a confession?

There are other suitors in love, and I think it is necessary to tell your other half, because for both parties who love each other, there should be no hiding in this regard, and they should be honest with each other.

Don't talk about this, right? said that there was no face for the other party. It's true that it's time for you to leave him.

First of all, you have to understand that this is not a shame, it is just a matter of liking and disliking the right and inappropriate, liking will naturally be together, and it is common sense not to like to separate, and no one will deny you because of this.

Secondly, judging by what you said, you just don't want to lose to a man who is younger than you. You don't understand that the man who is younger than you has optimized you, and you can't figure out why your girlfriend doesn't choose you uniquely.

Again, you didn't think about it from a neutral position, you have only been officially dating for two months, and the two places are separated, and you can't be by each other's side at the moment when both parties need to understand and care the most, I think this is the fatal point of the breakup, although the Internet and ** are very convenient, but these are cold after all, there is no warmth of a lover, and there is no breath of a lover. If it is a love that is based on a state of separation at the beginning, it is the most insecure love, and you must be mentally prepared for the coming of that day at the beginning.

In the end, you are excellent and must believe that you can find the right one and optimize her girlfriend. I think that if a person hurts you, you have to live better than her, this is revenge on her and kindness to yourself.

A girl will want the man who loves him to care more about her, and a mature man can give that. Girls sometimes play with their temper, just to get you to pay more attention to her. She told you to break up, in fact, a large part of it is because she wants you to keep it.

And you chose to let go. In your eyes, you respect her choice, but in the eyes of girls, you don't like her enough, so you don't keep her.

Focusing on a guy who is younger than you may be because that guy cares more about her. In fact, many times a girl is chased by a boy who often peesters her, and that's why.

Maybe she, he regarded him as her relative, and there was nothing else, did she admit it herself, you and her have gone too far Long-distance relationship is not a good way Long-distance love is talking about being together Maybe you can also ask her If you really like you, you won't mind Spend more time with him Wait for your good results Come on.

It is understandable that the emotional thing is the most hurtful, presumably the reason for the breakup is an excuse, since he has worked but does not know how to cherish and prepare for marriage, such a person should not take care of the family much, you have to believe that you will find a better one, work hard, and so on there is no good achievement, you will soon forget, you are uncomfortable now and useless, she doesn't care, it is good to get together and disperse, maybe one day she will regret it, but you must not look back.

Such a person, what do you suffer for? It is your blessing to be separated early. Do you want him to drag you for a year and a half and then play ambiguous with others? You're lucky, you can't ......

If you really love him, he leaves you, it will definitely be a fortune for you in the future, there is no grass at the end of the world, maybe he is not suitable for you at all, you are just temporarily carried away by love.

What she means is that if you want to find someone with a high degree and tie up an intellectual, most of them are gambling with you.

Personally, I think you should reflect on your usual behavior. I guess your girlfriend probably doesn't like your behavior.

Since she chose to break up, she doesn't cherish the relationship between you, so why should you be nostalgic.

Look at the downplay Maybe time is a good medicine, let the time slowly dilute.

Life won't always be smooth sailing.

Maybe she likes that boy more, in fact, everyone will have someone in their hearts who likes but can't get it.

Since she doesn't like you, there's no need to feel ashamed or feel at a loss, after all, breaking up is a matter for both parties.

Start over, you're free again.

Everyone is like this, what are you doing with a dead face? Not like a man. It's not okay to be free and easy.

It's okay if you break up like this in a long-distance relationship, at least you won't see her You've only been in a long-distance relationship for two months, and the relationship is not so deep, and it will be fine after a while, as for her saying that finding someone who is more mature than you may be comforting you Euphemism It's still not convenient to find a long-distance relationship after all, it's better to find a local.

She means find someone who is mentally older than you.

Judging by your performance, you're still a kid.

Forget it, you haven't met someone who really loves you.

Teach you a trick to learn to give up and don't force it.

There is no good unraveling, and the knot needs to be untied by itself. After reading your description, I think men should be generous and should not change to speak ill of other people in front of their friends, so that friends will look down on you. Don't speak ill of your ex-boyfriend or male colleague in front of your girlfriend, she will think you mean something else.

The woman would not look back if she changed her mind, and she was not persuaded at that time. You can try to redeem it later, at least show your heart. Be generous if it is irretrievable, and wish her happiness.

I also hope that you can find your flowers in the herbs.

Men have to pick it up and put it down. People who don't value you are not worthy of your love. I see that you have been dating her for a short time, but it is not as good as half a month of that person.

Even if she doesn't meet this person, she will meet someone else in the future, and at that time, maybe she will become your wife, and at that time she will go with someone else, wouldn't you be even more sad. It's a man who has to pick it up and put it down.

I believe that you will come out of the pain, remember brother, only true people deserve true love.

Men have to make themselves stronger, really, don't plead in front of your people, that will have an impact on your future development, in fact, men, you have to be ruthless, you should slap him and clean up the man, and then ignore her.

Landlord, believe me, it'll be fine if you endure it for a few more months, don't think about that kind of woman anymore, she is not L'Oréal Paris, she is not worth it! Don't want this kind of woman, water-based poplar!

Since you love her, respect her choice! Keep your feelings for her in your heart forever!

Everything in the world is gathered by fate, fate is scattered and a better fate is ahead.

Personally, I think you are too weak in your relationship with her, or you feel too humble.

Love is a two-sided thing, and it is actually wrong for one party to pay and one to ignore it.

Now that she has chosen to leave, if you tell her that the man is not good, she will not listen to it, and her advice is good for her ears, but how many people will really listen to what she says? No, they don't know until they're personally hurt.

It's okay, look away, you gave love, now he doesn't accept it, you just take back the love you gave her, there is no loss, it is her who loses, because he lost your love.

Calm, the earth will turn without anyone, and you are as wonderful as you are without her.

You have to find out why you failed and why you failed. Don't just think about how to be nice to people. That's useless.

You have to do useful work. If you do it all in vain. You're going to annoy that person.

A woman hates others for interfering in his private affairs the most.

Haha, sooner or later, your girlfriend will remember you well, and if she chooses to come back, you must not look back. That's what I want to say, women always don't cherish it, but if they miss it, they want to go back, don't worry, time can change everything, she will definitely come back to you.

There's nothing to say, it's a man who should be able to stretch and bend, I'm not the same as you, my girlfriend ran away, since you don't choose me, okay, it's fair and I don't choose you anymore, everyone forgets each other!

Men have to be strong, since she is leaving, let's go. Those who should come will come, and those who should go can't stay! Brother, I'll top you! Stay strong!! I'm in the same situation as you!! Add me as a friend and we'll talk slowly!! Give me a !!

If it's your own, others can't snatch it away, and if it's not your own, why bother to keep it, if such an inattentive girl really marries you, you can rest assured?

I think the third party is very strong, and he can take true love away from you, a good man, but I think his methods can be seen! But a playboy like him can only win with rhetoric, and he can't pay true feelings, believe my brother, time can prove everything, can prove your sincerity; Yours are good. I hope it won't be long before he'll show a fox's tail.

That's when your girlfriend will remember you as good. It's a pity that everything is over the corner. But now you have to learn to be strong and face everything calmly.

Finally, I hope you will become more and more courageous.

The best way to quickly forget one relationship is to start another.

You know in your heart that maybe she'll never come back. Strong!