The boy said to be friends, can I still redeem it?

Maybe he wants to see you, and you refuse, he thinks you don't understand him, don't know his mind, in fact, it's good to explain this kind of thing, if he still insists, then forget it.

Did you go to see him when he was in the hospital?

Did you pick him up when he was discharged from the hospital yesterday?

He must have wanted to see you, but when you don't see him, he thinks you don't want him and don't care about him.

You tell him just because he has just been discharged from the hospital and you want him to rest well so that he will be fine.

If two people get along and care more about each other, and think more about problems from the perspective of others, it will not be difficult to get along.

Aren't you rejecting people?! I don't like such girls, don't use your little cleverness on men, men with personality don't eat you, do you think your little tricks can control him, be sincere, what to let him rest, I don't believe it, don't play tricks if you want to be good, you haven't reached that level yet! No man is not a fool, he is a fool and he is pretending!

If he likes you, it's not a big problem, let him feel your sincerity!

You were contacted at the hospital? It's only been 2 weeks since we met. How many days was he hospitalized?

Maybe he's a bit machismo, and seeing that you're not particularly obedient to him, he wants to find someone more obedient.

The suggestion on the first floor, you can try it, netizens help you guess, it is best for you to communicate by yourself.

I feel like he just contacted you first, maybe your character, maybe what you've done in the past two weeks that he doesn't think is suitable!

Either that, it's possible to find it for another reason, it's not a big deal!

You have to tell the other person what you really think in your heart, and you don't know the other person when you first contact them

For your lust, if you don't give it to him, he won't like you anymore, do you think this person can have it?

This is to retreat into advance, he actually wants to have further development with you (referring to the physiological aspect!!

It's only been a few times since we met, and it's impossible to have an emotional aspect.

You have to keep your bottom line.

If you like him and don't give up, go to him and explain it to him!

Hello, I'm Mo Yu, a personal emotional counselor!

Boyfriend said: Be an ordinary friend. Is there still a chance to redeem it?

People often ask me, Mr. Moyu, my boyfriend said that we can only be ordinary friends, and it is very ruthless, do I still have a chance to redeem it? In fact, the probability of reversing this situation is quite high, but it must not be rushed.

Why? First, you have to analyze his current mentality first, he really doesn't want to continue to fall in love with you now, so if you want to continue to fall in love with him at this time, you force her to get back together and entangle him, which will only lead him to block you. Once he blocks you, then the probability of you getting back will be very low, and the difficulty will increase.

So you can't push him to a point where he's going to block you.

Second, he is willing to continue to be friends with you, which means that he does not want you to disappear completely from his life, and as long as you keep in touch as friends, there is still a chance to get back together. Think about it, before you fell in love, you got along in the way of ordinary friends, and as long as you were in the stage of ordinary friends, you had the opportunity to become lovers again. It's like you were ordinary friends at the beginning, and you ended up being lovers.

At this point, what are you going to do?

What you have to do is not to talk to him about getting back together, what you have to do is to follow his mind, okay, let's be ordinary friends. Then he retreated to the status of an ordinary friend, and maintained a moderate amount of contact in the manner of an ordinary friend. Remember that "moderately" is not "frequent".

If you just say that you are ordinary friends with him, but you have a close connection with him, your ex-boyfriend will immediately know that you want to get back together and you want to redeem it, and he will have a strong defensive psychology against you in his heart. As long as he has this defensive mentality, many of the efforts you make will not work. So if you want to let go of this defensive mentality, you can't contact him frequently, it has to be a moderate contact.

Behave, really like a friend, maintain a moderate frequency. This is the first, first back to the state of a friend.

Then you have to reflect, what was the reason for your breakup? Since your boyfriend chooses to break up with you, it means that there is a problem in the relationship between the two of you, otherwise it is impossible to break up. You have to recall what grievances your boyfriend raised in the process of getting along, some of his very uncomfortable feelings, and once told you very seriously, but you didn't care, this is what you have to recall.

The next thing you have to do is improve these. You can't just tell him that I've changed it, I've noticed what you said before, then he won't believe it. First, he doesn't believe you've really changed.

You will find a lot of guys who say when they break up with their girlfriends: I don't believe you will change. So when you tell him this, he doesn't believe it.

Second, if you tell him directly that you have changed, he will think that it is not really changed, and it is just a strategy for you to redeem it. When you're really back together, you'll be back to what you used to be.

The correct way is not to mention it directly, but to use some clever methods to make him realize that you are no longer the original you.

I'm Mo Yu, a personal emotional counselor, see you next time!

Recently, a lot of people have been paying attention to one thing, that is, my boyfriend said that he only wants to be friends with me, but I still hope to be able to redeem our relationship. Such situations are not uncommon, and many people have experienced them. However, the key to success in saving love lies in your attitude and actions.

First of all, you need to think calmly. Don't blindly believe your boyfriend's words, and don't be too pessimistic and disappointed. Rationally analyzed, what made my boyfriend doubt our relationship?

If we can seriously reflect on what we say and do, find the reasons and work to improve, the chances of success will become greater.

Second, we need to be proactive and actively improve our relationship. Communicate fully with your boyfriend, exchange long-standing feelings and thoughts, gain insight into the other person's inner world, and find common values and hobbies. When our way of interacting is more appropriate and natural, and we know and trust each other better, on this basis, the redemption of the relationship will not be far away.

In the end, we need to give some time and space to Yu Lianbi's boyfriend. Don't contact the other person casually, and don't force the other person to respond. Let him feel the natural state of stress-free when we are around him, and also give him enough time to consider his options.

Don't give up your efforts easily, because recovering love is not an overnight thing, and we need to always adhere to it and take care of it.

In short, if we can face our boyfriend's statement with a peaceful mind, start from ourselves, actively promote our relationship, and give each other enough time and space, then it is not impossible to save love. However, no matter what the final outcome is, we should also face it calmly and be fully prepared for the future of ourselves and each other.

Boyfriends say they want to be friends, which often makes girls feel disheartened and don't know what to do. However, we need to rationally analyze the reasons behind this situation. Men tend to be more direct when it comes to relationship issues, and being friends may only indicate that he does not want to be in a relationship for the time being, but it does not mean that he no longer has a crush on you or loves you.

If you also want to save the relationship, the first step is to stay calm and sane. Don't reply to him emotionally, and don't blindly agree with him. At this point, what you need to do is talk to him about the reason and figure out what is really going on and expecting from each other.

At the same time, show your charm and judgment points appropriately, so that he can feel your charm again.

In addition to this, you can also start from other aspects and try to get him to refocus on your life. This includes re-examining one's circle of friends, appearance, hobbies, etc., to show a more positive side. What you need to do is to dress yourself up more attractively and let him rediscover your charm.

When he feels that you are aggressive and independent in life, he may regain affection and interest in you.

The most important thing is to maintain good communication and get along with him, and try to change the distance and relationship between each other. You can invite him to an event or share your life experiences with him. In this way, you can make him realize your love and importance for him, and also increase the tacit understanding and understanding between them.

Therefore, although the boyfriend's offer to be friends may be disappointing and sad for the girl, we need to stay calm and try to regain the relationship in many ways. If you can strengthen your beliefs, be aggressive, and moderately control the relationship with him, I believe that this relationship may still heat up again.

Recently, a lot of people are facing problems with their romantic relationships. Some people find that their boyfriend in front of them is not in line with their expectations, and some are threatened with a breakup. A common situation is that the boyfriend proposes to be friends in the future, and the girl does not know how to save the relationship.

First of all, girls need to calmly analyze the reasons. There are many reasons why the boyfriend proposes to be friends, it may be that he feels that the problems between the two cannot be solved, or he has lost confidence in the relationship. It is also possible that the boyfriend is dissatisfied with his girlfriend's behavior or personality, or it may be that he has been in contact with other girls.

Therefore, girls need to examine their performance in the relationship and see if they have done anything wrong.

Next, the girl needs to communicate with her boyfriend. If the girl really wants to save the relationship, then she needs to find a solution to the problem and talk to her boyfriend about it. Girls should first understand the reason for the chaos in the original shed where their boyfriend proposed to be friends, and listen to his thoughts and opinions.

At the same time, girls need to express their thoughts and serious boyfriend problems. In this process, girls need to stay calm, not to argue or blame, but to seek solutions to problems.

Finally, girls need to take positive action. If the girl can understand her boyfriend's thoughts and is willing to cooperate with him to solve the problem of asking the chain of jokes, then he may reconsider the possibility of rebuilding a relationship with his girlfriend. Therefore, girls need to take some positive actions, such as correcting their mistakes, strengthening their determination, improving their attractiveness, and so on.

As long as the girl is willing to put in the effort, there is still a great chance of saving the relationship.

In short, if a girl wants to save the relationship, she needs to calmly analyze the reasons, communicate well with her boyfriend, and take positive actions. Of course, if the boyfriend has basically decided that he no longer wants to have a relationship with his girlfriend, then the girl should accept this fact and learn how to move on with her life. After all, only you will be the most reliable person in the future.