Have you ever doubted yourself and others? Why are you so suspicious?

It's human beings who are curious.

And with a good concerted mind, it is inevitable to think more.

If you think about it, you will definitely doubt this suspicion of Nala.

Who made God man so thoughtful and so intelligent?

Hehe, most of you have thought about this question.

People are more or less a little ...

I used to be very suspicious, I was about to collapse, I didn't know about it, my family said that I was a little sick, I doubted everything, but now I think about it, I was really a little suspicious, I didn't think it was at the time, it was more naïve before, and it was a little vain. Now it's a curiosity. Ha ha.

Don't use suspicious people, don't doubt people. Think about it slowly! Don't doubt yourself.

It's that you're too suspicious. But it's also a necessary lesson for growing up.

From a psychological point of view, suspicion is one of the common psychology. Suspicion is one of the weaknesses of human nature. People who are suspicious think too much, think about the bad in everything, the speaker has no intention, the listener has intention, chasing after the wind and shadows, and creating something out of nothing.

As Bacon said, "The heart of suspicion is like a bat, it always takes off in the twilight." This mood is confusing, confusing and confusing, and it can lead you to confusion, confuse friend and foe, and thus destroy people's careers.

Suspicion is manifested in the process of communication, self-implication tendency is too heavy, what is self-implication too heavy, that is, always feel that everything else will be related to oneself, and be overly sensitive and suspicious of others' words and deeds.

Lack of trust in the environment, in others, in oneself The ancients said: "You know each other, but you don't doubt each other." "On the contrary, if you don't know each other, you will definitely look suspicious.

However, the lack of "Thaksin" is often linked to the lack of "self-confidence." Suspicious people seem to be suspicious of others, but in fact they are also suspicious of themselves, or at least lack of confidence. Some people think that they are inferior to others in some aspects, so they always think that others are talking about themselves, looking down on themselves, and calculating themselves.

The more confident a person is, the easier it is to trust others, and the less likely it is to be suspicious. Self-defense against frustration in relationships.

Some people have been deceived in their relationships in the past because they are gullible and have suffered huge mental losses and emotional setbacks, and as a result, they have lost all their minds and no longer trust anyone. From a psychological point of view, the main reasons for the emergence of suspicion are as follows:

First, there is a lack of understanding and trust between each other, and the psychology is not healthy enough. Psychologically, there is always a sense of unease about others, and often distorted understanding of others' well-intentioned and normal words and deeds. For example, when others praise him, he will suspect that he is sarcastic and ridiculed

Others criticized him. He will suspect that he is attacking him; Others ignored him, and he suspected that others were isolating him. His narrow-mindedness makes it impossible for him to accommodate the correct evaluation of him by others.

The second is the closed line of thought of being cocooned and self-bound, that is, subjective thinking methods. Suspicion is generally always based on a hypothetical goal and closed-mindedness. It's like a circle, the more you draw it, the thicker it gets, the more you draw it, the more round it gets.

At the same time, he often wears "colored glasses" to observe people, and uses other people's actions to verify rather than correct his own opinions, so he often distorts the facts and doubts others.

The third is a one-sided understanding of love and a lack of self-confidence. Love is exclusive by its very nature, however, love does not exclude friendship, friendship does not have exclusivity, you have to believe in yourself and your lover, and have enough confidence in yourself and your lover. Without these, suspicion will naturally arise.

Fourth, listen to rumors. They not only have to use other people's evaluations as the standard for judging the rights and wrongs of their words and deeds, but also care a lot about what others say. And when the attitude of others is unclear, they often have to be suspicious and suspicious from the aspects that are not conducive to themselves, and seek trouble for themselves.

Too much suspicion is to judge others with their own subjective consciousness, in fact, the other party's character or character is originally good, you should fully believe in the other party and trust the other party!

In fact, it is a suspicion, too serious, it will lead to something out of nothing, the key lies here. I think it's normal to keep a little bit of it, but if you are too suspicious, then it will make everyone uncomfortable.

Employing people without suspicion, suspects do not use, under normal circumstances, dealing with others, since the choice is good, you should trust others, if something goes wrong, when there is not enough evidence, do not easily doubt others.

Being too suspicious means being skeptical of anything others say, especially about oneself.