I m conflicted, with my current boyfriend, or go back on a blind date?

This world is realistic, and as we grow older, we have more and more opportunities to contact society, and we feel more deeply that love without material foundation is bitter. It is also under the pressure of this reality that many people choose "ready-made happiness" and marry a man with good material conditions.

But I've always wondered if this happiness is really the happiness that people really seek? It is undeniable that two people who love each other are united, and it happens that the material conditions are also very good, which is indeed an enviable happiness; But there are many couples who are really attracted by each other's non-material advantages when they are first together, this kind of love is simple, but in any case, two people have to face practical problems in the end, buying a house, buying a car, etc., at this time it is normal to feel at a loss and confused when they find that the other party does not have material advantages. And this is also the time to test your feelings.

From a girl's point of view, do you have to think about what happiness you want, is it just material satisfaction? I guess not only that, but you also need spiritual satisfaction. The happiness that your current boyfriend can give you is a kind of spiritual, but this kind of spiritual happiness is difficult to stand the test of time, so I think you should let him know about your current pain, but it is better to take a way that can make him accept, after all, men are good-looking.

In this way, it is not that you are alone in the face of the problem and confused, but that two people work together to try to solve the problem. If he really loves you, he should be brave to face problems like a man at this time, and create good material conditions through his own efforts, and only such a man is worth waiting for him.

A woman's youth is fleeting, and many people choose money in front of love and money, because it takes time to choose love and have good material conditions at the same time, and some people feel that it is not worth it. But I personally think that these waits are worth it for the sake of your lifelong happiness, but only if the man is worth your wait.

Having said a lot, I hope it helps you!

This is a question to ask yourself. We're just giving you advice. Nowadays, most women marry for money.

But it's also normal. But how can you live a happy life without the foundation of feelings. If you love your boyfriend very, very much, what are you afraid of?

Money itself is something outside the body. And why bother to fill your true love for it. Money can be earned anytime.

How much you love him. Let's talk to him. Everything is communicating.

What I'm afraid of is that I don't communicate and then make misunderstandings. Good luck.

I think your current boyfriend will definitely take care of you for the rest of your life.

You're not thinking about whether he has a car or a house now. It's about whether he is self-motivated and whether he has the determination to work hard to get these things. If there is, then why not give him a little time?

I think you should be very young too, and if you get married so early, it may not be a good thing for you. I suggest you think about it.

Go and meet, if you have a good feeling, be with the person who went on a blind date, you and your boyfriend will not end well in the future, unless you are really not impulsive, generally you abandon everything for him, but he quickly hurts your new.

In any case, you must remember not to give too much to love, and to be kind to yourself.

Looking at your family, it means that you have to marry that civil servant. Do you know why the divorce rate is so high now? Marriages without affection don't last long.

Suppose you go back to the civil servant. He feels good about you when you meet. You feel like he's capable.

The days will be a little easier. Then after a few days of getting along, I got married in a daze. After getting married, all kinds of vices were manifested.

Until then. Hey, it's you who regret it. Cherish the people in front of you.

As long as your current boyfriend still loves you. It won't make you miserable. As the old saying goes.

Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi. Makes sense. hoho

Quite simply, if you feel that you love your boyfriend more, stay with him, and if it's not your most important person, go find your happiness as soon as possible!

You go and ask your bf to see if he has the confidence to buy you a house? If he thinks he loves you, he'll work hard and make money. Then you can choose him, and you can meet the man, and maybe you love him, too.

Oh, "It is recommended that you do not buy a house for 2 years in the past 1 year, because it will drop >."

It doesn't matter if people don't have money, the most important thing is to be happy every day! Can true love be bought with money? With money, without love and happiness, is it worth it? I believe that as long as you and your boyfriend work together, anything will be there! I wish you all happiness!

It's too simple, whoever you love, stay by whom's side, please remember a sentence, it's your own marriage, not your parents getting married, your parents gave you body and mind, love is still good for yourself.

Let's work hard outside with your boyfriend! Love that shares weal and woe will be more beautiful! Wishing you happiness!

If you really like your boyfriend, then choose him, because the most feared thing about marriage is that there are two people who have no feelings, and it is better to have a happy and poor life than a rich and noble life with a sad face.

How old are you? If you are still young, what are you afraid of, work hard with your boyfriend, it will be good in a few years, and it is not a problem to buy a house and a car when you have money.

If you can "float" to happiness on the outside, you should be outside; If you're out there just for "him" and you don't get anything, I think you'd better go back. When "love" is not married, there are more fantasy things, but when this one is married, there are more realistic things. In fact, there is no mystery, the main thing is that two people can be happy together.

Do you think you will be happy in the future with your current boyfriend? Unaccurate love is dangerous. And also:

Most marriages without congratulations from family and friends are unhappy. "Please think about it carefully, and don't delay your future. Your happiness is the true joy and happiness of your parents.

Parents will never harm their children, you have to understand that.

Love. It's really hard. Find someone you love, it's better to find someone who loves you. You tell me??.

If your current boyfriend is capable, and you have a good relationship, then you should choose him! The house will be there as long as you work together. If your boyfriend is not very capable. You can choose to go home.

Find a way to test your boyfriend to see if he loves you, and if he really loves you, stay with him, and don't delay your life because of money and a word from your parents.

If you meet on a blind date, you must know a lot of things about each other, but no relationship will be very suitable, and they are all slowly running in together in the relationship!

But what are you quarreling every day, and because of what do you quarrel every day? If it's normal to make a little noise because of some trivial things, it can also add some fun! However, if you make a lot of noise every day, it won't be fun!

Because of the quarrel for a long time, both sides will look at each other wrongly, they will complain about each other, they will not like each other, and the other party will not like what they do, they will say a few words, if one party can't stand it, they will talk back, which will also lead to quarrels!

If two people live together, they should quarrel and make trouble alone, so they must be tolerated, tolerated, and backed down by themselves, otherwise, how can life go on.

The two sides quarreled, no matter whose fault it was, the most feared thing was to fight a cold war, and no one on either side would pay attention to anyone, and such a relationship would last for a long time!

As a man, you should be generous and more tolerant, if you quarrel, even if it is the woman's fault, you should admit your mistake first, coax the girl, the man, it's okay to suffer more. If you are not looking for a girlfriend and love it, then what should you do with a girlfriend, it is better to be chic and comfortable by yourself!

If two people live, there will definitely be a little contradiction and friction, they will tolerate each other, and they will take a step back from each other, after all, bowls and bowls will touch, teeth and tongues will sometimes be bitten, not to mention living together every day?

The relationship between two people requires two people to work together with each other, understand each other, trust each other, tolerate each other, and love each other. Otherwise, how can this relationship last long!

Even if you break up, if it's like this, what's the difference, if this man is responsible and responsible, and is honest and good to you, then you can consider not breaking up, if it's not self-motivated, and it's not good for you, then it's not married, it's time to break up, or if you get married in the future, you have to get it!

Are you married? If two people have to quarrel over a little thing, this kind of life will not be able to go on, so it is better to disperse early. If the status quo is maintained now, and then separated after having children, it will also be a harm to the children.

If you don't get married, break up, if you get married, divorce, you can't bear it for a while!

If you quarrel every day before you get married, will you fight every day after you get married, so every day you don't let anyone do you think you can accept it, if you can, you can continue, if you can't, you have to plan early.

Falling in love is based on love, it is normal for lovers to quarrel with each other, the important thing is to see if they still love each other, whether it hurts the feelings, if you feel that the feelings have been hurt, then there is no need to continue.

Quarrel now, many practical problems after marriage will make you more conflicted, if you really feel inappropriate, it is better to separate, lest you get married and have children, and the guard has no choice.

It's not okay to quarrel every day, in that case, the feelings will become weaker and weaker, and they will hurt each other, so if you want to continue, you have to change this state, live in harmony, and if you feel that you don't feel the need to continue, then break up, so as not to suffer each other.

Obey your own heart. Do you think he will change because of you? If you can't change, can you endure it after you get married? Or will you take the initiative to change? Think it all over and you'll know how to deal with it.

If the start is not very long, it is better to separate as soon as possible, no one wants to live with the other half all their lives, and there are too few young people who marry simply for the sake of marriage, or for the sake of their own happiness.

The quarrel has nothing to do with whether they met on a blind date or not. The point is why quarrel?

If the emotional foundation is not stable, and you have not yet started a family, you are quarreling every day, you should really think about it, whether it is worth continuing to continue, so as not to waste feelings and waste time with each other, and I hope that a lover will eventually become a family!

Let's analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis, if it's not suitable for the personality, it's better to divide it early.

If you feel happy, you can continue to walk, and if you are unhappy, you can separate.

If you don't get married, think about splitting it, the feelings that quarrel every day will slowly disappear, and if you get married but don't have children, then divorce! (There's a reason for the quarrel!) If there is, think about it more, after all, it is not easy to be together. ）