I m worried about my future life with my boyfriend

Do you think you are really happy with him, does he have something to attract you, you seem to be very bad with him, then why do you want to be with him, sometimes you have to give up when you should give up, since he gave you the life you want, why are you still together? Sometimes love doesn't mean everything!! If you don't have the most basic, your love can't withstand any wind and rain!!

Everyone has turmoil in their youth, but if a man is not motivated and does not want to make progress, there will be no girl who can love him for a long time.

You have to sit down and have a good talk, if there is a skill, then 2 people can hold up a piece of the sky, give him trust for the time being, listen to his plan, and give him time to implement it.

If there is no progress, I guess it's better to be selfish! After all, the pursuit of happiness is a lifelong thing1

Divide it, my own conditions are not good, and I am not self-motivated! I don't know how to take care of people yet!

Here's why!

Leave him, be resolute!

You're so hard, but your boyfriend is really, he won't be considerate, and you'll let you work if you have it. And it won't even help you get nutrition. I don't think this kind of man can be. If I were you, we would have broken up. I don't like unmotivated men who don't pity their lovers

Have a good talk with him, the last time, if he can change, continue, if he can't, break up, of course, if you continue to talk, you should tell him that it's time to get married, you are a girl, you can't afford to delay.

Your boyfriend is so tough, there's nothing to say, I'm a woman, I will never marry such a man, I can't have money, but I don't have a sense of responsibility and no love, such a man is useless, leave quickly, otherwise you will be hurt in the end.

Such a man is not worthy of your love, don't do it, he will still rely on you if this continues, and in the end, it is not good for anyone, let go, it is also a relief for you, maybe the way to love him the most is to let go.

An irresponsible person has no future for men and women.

You have to die to see his hope, and you can live with him

But if he is still blindly messing around, is it worth waiting for such a person for him? (Because he hasn't really thought about you, and if he really thinks about you, he won't waste his life playing every day) Sometimes everyone will do what they say sweetly. But this is not really a sacrifice

The real sacrifice is to sacrifice oneself for the happiness of others.

If you really love him very much, then persevere, and try to make your life better, Of course, this is not a simple ......Since you have already asked that, it means that he has been shaken in your heart...Try them separately first, maybe you will have something new to discover......

Then give up, completely. You can't go on like this, and how much youth do you have to waste? For him, you have already given a lot.

Since that's the case. Let's break up. Better a finger off than always aching. It's hard to be with such a man. Men are not afraid of poverty, they are afraid of lack of ambition.

You can discuss with him not to bring so many relatives here, you can secretly collect more negative ones, that is, there are similar situations after the stove and the husband and wife are divorced, there are a lot of this, I know a lot. Pei Ying showed him, analyzed and analyzed with him to think of a way, such a situation is not good without communication, after all, you are living a life, if this relative comes to play today and has to take care of it, tomorrow that relative comes to play and has to ask for leave to take care of it, then do you still want to live?

The threshold of your home is high enough. Buy a second-hand house in Dalian to about 500,000, of course, the location is better, hundreds of square meters of suburbs are also 80-100w, it is really difficult for us ordinary people, the goal of your family is not our small salary, the goal is high salary or the boss...

I don't know if you have that competitiveness and luck, whether you have money is a very realistic question, but whether you love each other is also a problem, whether you have fate is even more of a problem, how to choose or depends on yourself. If you feel that you can't afford to create that sin, you will have to endure hardships if you feel that you can share the joys and sorrows, and you have to choose for yourself how to go. Your parents are demanding, for you and for their good, but after all, you are in love by yourself and choose your own spouse...

- -You don't have confidence in yourself or your boyfriend, you're so frustrated. Your mom is good for you, yes, but when are you going to grow up? Have a mind of their own.

As long as your boyfriend is good enough, you and him will be happy. What's more, if you have a job, a hand, a foot, and a mind, you will be very poor in the future?

It depends on you to marry more in order to marry more houses.

A house is the bare minimum requirement! Loan, 20 years? That's some of it back!

I don't know what the conditions of his family are? If he bought the house, his mother was unwilling to pay, and it was probably his mother who did not agree. If you can't help it.

Then buy a smaller one for now. It's hard to say! Make up your own mind.

Love doesn't need capital, marriage does.

Well, he should have chosen one person to carry it all. I don't want to bring you sadness or negative emotions. That's what should be said. This is his extra-verbal learning and learning of foreign affairs.

Because at this time, he was worried, either tight on money or unwell.

Be kind to others, be honest and trustworthy. There's no need to be too nitpicky. Your boyfriend's attitude is important, but it doesn't have to be taken to heart. No one is perfect. Be yourself, don't feel inferior, don't be cowardly.

When making friends, you have to be sincere to others, and others will treat you sincerely, but you have to be cautious when making friends and have some confidence in yourself.

It's good to be yourself, now that there is so much pressure from society, why bother with yourself. You are not RMB, and it is impossible for everyone to like you.

You don't have to deliberately do a good job in interpersonal relationships, desperately squeeze into other people's circles, and in the end find yourself out of place and can't find a bosom friend

Relationships are to be perfected by yourself, by your strong heart.

Treat people sincerely, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people for a long time.

If the two of you don't have that relationship, don't go to Wumeng, otherwise don't think too much.

He shows you that he thinks of you by showing you to his family and friends.

There is no boy at home whose parents will not feel that I am worthless, and it is a big deal that you sleep with his mother.

Live with his sister or sister! There is also a living with his mother to call his father to live with him, in the guest house!

Ask him how he's doing, how he's unhappy, and if there's anything unhappy to tell you, you can solve it together! When the male ticket hears that you solve it with him, he will feel very moved, and he will not give up and support each other when encountering difficulties. You want him not to hold it in his heart, he will feel something when he says it, his business is equal to your business, let him tell you, she shouldn't say it.

You comfort him first, saying, nothing has passed, only the heart can't get over, people have troubles, as long as you treat him with an optimistic attitude, it will be better!

What's wrong? You don't seem to be happy? Don't treat me as an outsider, just talk to me!

If it weren't for the machismo of good talk, the relaxed environment and atmosphere were a crucial step in communication.

Just ask him if something has happened.

You just ask him what's wrong, what are you afraid of as his girlfriend.

In fact, the man's silence is a kind of healing, perhaps his career outside has been tormented. When men are silent, most of them are for their careers and families.

The best communication with him is to care more about him

The more anxious you are, the more you can't find anything good. And his work, don't interfere.

If you can't find it, why bother? It's okay to comfort and comfort him, let him feel at ease, and what you find first in your job is not necessarily good. In the end, finding it is not necessarily bad, it depends on fate.

First of all, don't be anxious yourself, and you can't be impatient with him.

Be patient with him, give him confidence, and try to make him feel good. A pleasant mood will make a person look radiant.

The second is him, telling him that everything must be as it is, and that he will not be able to ask for it. Also, what is the concept of what he calls suitable? Just graduated, or not yet graduated, there is no suitable or unsuitable, only whether you can make a grade!

Tell him four words: Rather lack and misuse.

PS: Just graduated and looking for a job, it's best to put your mindset right. Everything starts from the bottom, and you have to ask yourself what you can do. What will you actually do? Let go of your arrogant self-esteem and study steadily. Because you're a 0

1. Illness is not terrible, as long as the belief exists, it is not a dream, and the future will be ambitious. Take the disease as a challenge, and the belief as a **, you can win!

2. I only hope that I can add a little encouragement to your ideals and hopes, and give you a little strength and hope when you are disappointed and tired in life.

3. Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if you are wrong, don't be upset, life is right and wrong, not to mention that there are many things, looking back, right or wrong no longer matters.

4. Desire to enhance enthusiasm, perseverance to smooth the mountains.

5. When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and can get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together.

6. The person I often meet suddenly disappeared, and it seems a little uncomfortable! It is true that the moment of getting together means parting, but only after leaving does I know that he is also very cute, and there are not many opportunities to reunite with him and her! So cherish everyone you love!

7. People will always encounter setbacks, as long as you are not afraid of falling, you will definitely create your own world, remember that I am by your side to encourage you!

8. Any restriction starts from one's own heart.

Sentences to encourage your boyfriend not to worry about money In my world, you are still pure, and it is only this world that is dirty.

2.A person who can make you cry and make you laugh may be the person you can rely on for the rest of your life.

3.Even if you are mediocre and hurried to live a lifetime, you must protect you wholeheartedly every minute and every second every day4Troubles are like floating clouds, between gains and losses, and the true meaning of life can only be tasted in real life, so you need an optimistic attitude to face the opposition of all troubles in life, to know the illusion of troubles, to come with it, to go with it, to understand, to forget, and there is no need to fight around.

5.You promised the oath you once made, but you failed to fulfill it with me.

6.It doesn't matter if you win or lose on the field, what matters is experience, experience and self-cultivation7I heard that you are doing well, people around you come and go, don't tell me about it, let me forget it.

8.If you want not to get hurt, unless you can endure all the deception, frustration, sarcasm, parting, betrayal, 9If you fail someone who loves you deeply, you will meet someone who hurts you the most.

10.Don't say you love me when you're lonely.

11.When you can't free yourself, life begins to use its methods to liberate you by any means.

12.Sometimes there are things that we hide too much and yet expect to be so obvious.

13.When I was most wronged, I was most afraid that others would ask you what was wrong, I didn't dare to open my mouth, and my mouth was full of tears.

14.Some people are happy but look troubled, and some people are happy but look happy. People who live confused, people who are easy to live happily and soberly, are easy to be troubled.

Because sober people see too seriously, when they compare the truth, they will be troubled everywhere and confused, and they will care less, although they live a simple and rough life, but they have found the great taste of life. Therefore, the troubles of life are self-inflicted, not that the troubles cannot be separated from you, but that you can't leave it behind.

15.Don't think you can drive a tractor and play Mercedes on the street16Tell yourself not to cry, I'm the only one left in my world, and you're gradually gone.17Before I knew it, it turned out that Russia was already in tears

Instead of sitting there worrying and worrying, it is better to get up and do more practical things to reduce your sorrow, because no matter how much sorrow you have, it will not help, and things must be done step by step; Instead of spending time chasing fame and fortune, it is better to calm down and read more books to enrich yourself and wait for the opportunity to move!

The coming day is long, and there is no hurry.