I m a girl who doesn t talk much, how do I get along with my boyfriend?

Simple. If you like your boyfriend, when he chats with you, you make some attractive gestures to make him feel that you are his most loyal audience, if you feel that you are talking for too long and you don't want to listen anymore, you might interject a few digressions and go out for a walk with him, how about it?

Communication is very important between lovers, you can't always be a listener and not share, for a long time he will think that you have not opened your heart and have no opinion because you do not express yourself.

The advice is to try to develop this ability of yourself, for example, you can tell your pet or rag doll what is on your mind, and slowly you will find that you actually have a lot to say, and slowly you will be fine, believe in yourself.

Love is a feeling.

What do you want to talk about so much?

I just like to hold the hand of someone I like and say nothing.

Then go silently.

Listening is good, but sometimes he also needs to listen to you, find a quiet night, sit on a bench and let him listen quietly to you about the things you care about, hehe, I believe he will find another you.

Don't think about it, as long as he loves you. He likes it no matter what you do, even if it's your shortcomings, he thinks it's the most beautiful!

Find a boy who doesn't talk much, and everything is in plain sight.

Some boys say that they usually talk less, but their girlfriend is a chatter and don't know how to get along with their girlfriend, which is a very strange thing. Because you can't meet your girlfriend and be together, a person's chatter will be reflected in every moment. At the beginning, you knew that your girlfriend was a chatter, but you still chose to be with this girl, so why did you dislike her at the end?

may be more extreme about feelings, and when I see this topic, I will feel very angry. Because when a boy first chooses a girl, he must also know his girlfriend's personality and his girlfriend, usually talking more or less. At the beginning, I didn't choose not to be with this girl because of this incident, but after being together for a while, I reconsidered this relationship because of this problem, so I think everyone is deliberate.

You can find some common language with your girlfriend, so that the two of you will become more harmonious and there will be fewer quarrels. If we always ignore some of the things we say to your girlfriend when we get along with your girlfriend, then it will also make your girlfriend choose to break up with you. When we know the other party's personality and choose to be with the other party, then we shouldn't go, because of this incident, the other party breaks up, otherwise, it will also have a very serious impact on the other party.

I hope that everyone can think about it clearly, and when you start a relationship again, you can think about it clearly, so that you can reduce the occurrence of some quarrels in the future. Because a person's personality may not be discovered at the beginning, but a person's words are more or less, and at the beginning, they may be reflected.

You should communicate more with each other and establish common topics with each other, so that you can make each other's relationship go further.

You feel like you can find something to talk to her about so you can get along better.

I feel like you can listen to her, two people together, there is always one person to be the listener.

Oh, it's nothing, it's normal, love will always go through this period, why is this happening? Because you don't know her well enough, although you've known her for a long time, have you ever had a deep friendship?

When the two of you chat, you basically talk about what you did today, what you thought, and how much you miss her, don't you, but don't you have nothing to say when you're done with that?

In fact, don't worry, there is no right or wrong to really like a person and really love someone, so it's okay to say anything, you now belong to the very beginning of the period, now you should have a deep relationship, talk about inner negotiations, to two people understand each other, when you understand, naturally there will be words.

My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, at first I played ** all night, and then until now (now I am in a long-distance relationship like you) is still talking for two hours a day, in fact, even we are surprised why there are so many words, and I believe you can too.

Don't have nothing to say, at the very beginning, you can prepare in advance, such as the weather where she is, these can be, you have to be careful to think about nothing, to be careful to eat and sleep, to know more about her, don't remember.

Your problem should have ended, but I still have to remind you of another thing, when you know her well enough, you will enter another stage, much more painful than you are now, and there will be personality conflicts when you understand more, which has led to a quarrel between two people, remember, quarrels can not enhance feelings, you have to master a degree, stop immediately when the quarrel is halfway, spread things out and say, discuss solutions, and ask me again if you have questions.

There's less to talk about being with your girlfriend! What to do?

That's all I can say.

The wheel of time makes every couple numb to the feeling of being with each other, not that we will break up, but we all feel that there is only each other in life, this life is too monotonous and boring, in love we experience fun, but in friendship, family is defeated, we all need to communicate and communicate with others, we not only need love, but also need family and friends, so, when you have time, talk to these people more, play, you will not feel that two people are boring together, you can go together, It's also possible to go separately because everyone needs to have their own space, even if you're a couple!

Because you don't understand her thoughts, you don't dare to say or do anything rashly, because you care about her, so you don't dare, what you have to do now is to understand her thoughts, what her needs are, and you can play normally after understanding!

Find more common topics, women should take the initiative, communicate with their friends, but not too close; -)

Girlfriend talks a lot. Try not to make the scene feel cold, or the atmosphere will become weird.

I talk a lot, let's be friends.

If two people are introverts and have few words, emotionally speaking, they are suitable to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

Personality-wise, you are both more introverted and less talkative.

Then you don't like to socialize very much, and you don't like to go to parties, do you?

In this way, there will be less arguments about interpersonal communication.

Moreover, neither of them has to worry about the other person snubbing themselves because of the party.

But from a family development point of view, this is not very suitable.

First, you are both introverts, so you will have a higher degree of similarity in the way you think about problems.

It's relatively easy to see only one side of things.

The decisions that result from this are often error-prone.

Second, you don't like to socialize, and in terms of information interaction, you may become a family island in information interaction.

For example, everyone around you knows that the supermarket across the street from your neighborhood gets a 50% discount on beef on Fridays.

If your family doesn't know it, will they spend more money on household expenses? This is just to illustrate a simple analogy if such a thing does not happen in family financial problems.

But when it happens to family education, medical care and other issues, this may have more serious consequences!

It is not easy for your family to find better and better social resources for your use.

To say this, it is not alarmist.

I'm an introvert myself, and I point this out to tell readers.

If the person you like so much is someone who is as introverted as you are, that's fine.

As long as you are aware of the problems I mentioned above, and deliberately avoid them, then even if the two of you are together, it won't matter much!

Generally, couples who are more harmonious should have complementary personalities. If you are already very introverted, find another person who has the same few words as yourself, and the two of you usually get along, do you look at me and I look at you, and communicate with brain waves?

I've seen a lot of introverted guys, usually next to more lively girls. Including myself, my husband doesn't talk much, and he can barely say a few words when he meets an acquaintance. If you are not familiar with it, you basically can't open your mouth.

As a teacher myself, I have strong verbal skills and like to speak. Usually when I get together with friends, including with his friends, I am responsible for adjusting the atmosphere, otherwise it will be too cold, so he is willing to take me out.

When the two of us are alone, I am mainly responsible for speaking. Generally speaking, language is the weakness of boys, especially for introverted boys, it is a fire in their hearts, but they can't say anything. From the beginning of dating, when I went out on a date, I was in charge of finding topics and chatting with them.

I know that my husband also wants to express himself more, but his words are relatively short. So I would often ask questions that he could and say yes after him. This not only alleviates the embarrassment, but also gives him a chance to perform.

I have very introverted female friends who go out on blind dates and meet boys who don't talk much like me. As a result, neither of them knew how to speak, so they could only eat with their heads bored. It was obviously a good opportunity to get to know each other, but it turned into an embarrassing cold field, and in the end, it was gone.

Therefore, it is better for both men and women to have one party who can adjust the atmosphere.

In addition to getting along with each other normally, in extraordinary times such as quarrels, it is even more necessary for a more extroverted person to ease the atmosphere. If both of them sulk on their own, it is easy to fall into a long-term cold war state, which is very emotionally hurtful. Only when one party is more heartless, first figure it out by himself, and then give the other party a step down, can solve the problem as soon as possible.

Therefore, it is better to find complementary ones