I m in a hurry, and my boyfriend is in a hurry too, can the two of us be together

Although the character is innate, you can also try to change it for the sake of the people you love. Your boyfriend is introverted but has a bad temper, perhaps because he is not able to vent his feelings properly. Maybe he loves you very much in his heart, but sometimes he is too anxious and impulsive.

You talk to your boyfriend and tell him that the two of you will work together to get rid of your bad temper, try not to get angry about some small things, and learn to restrain yourself. Don't be so nervous, you can even use a competition to see who loses more temper after a period of time, so that the atmosphere is more relaxed.

If two people want to be together, they must tolerate each other, otherwise the relationship will not be stable, and they must understand this.

Since you know that you have a bad temper and speak badly, then control yourself not to lose your temper. Tantrums are not good for your body either, and your boyfriend will also be hurt, which is really harmless. Since two people are together, they should cherish, accommodate each other, care for and take care of each other.

Only in this way can we come together. This is what everyone calls fate. You may still be young and uncertain, but you will be better in two years.

Since you don't want to be separated, then live well. Don't torture yourself.

Start with yourself, and whenever you want to "talk badly", take a deep breath and think about how you "cry when you are apart". In fact, all things, as long as it happens to the two of you, can be solved through good communication, and it is reasonable not to be loud, right? Whether it is now or in the future, it is good to pay attention to a heart to heart and empathy when getting along with others.

It's not ripe, it's all like this. Running-in is also required.

Well, who knows, maybe only time will tell

If two people have too many similar personalities, it is best not to be together again, because God created boys and girls to complement each other's advantages, or how good girls are, (in Journey to the West).

Make your own decisions. Think about why we were together in the first place.

If you feel that you love her to the point where you can accept his temper and violence, then you can continue to be together until you don't like him, don't love him anymore, of course, don't joke about your life, protect yourself in order to grow better.

Then your personality and her complement each other perfectly, and you are willing to accept all the bad things about him, you feel that you can change him, take care of him, make him better, and you are more happy with him than unhappy, then you can also consider not breaking up and continuing to be together.

It's best not to be with such people, because usually this kind of temperamental and impatient people do not have high emotional control ability, and other aspects of self-discipline are not very high, and being with such people will reduce your quality of life.

If your boyfriend has a big temper and is particularly impatient, it is recommended that you should still consider whether to be with him, because with such a person, it is likely that there will be violent tendencies.

If you can accept a boyfriend with such a temper, you can choose to be with him, but please think about it and don't hurt yourself.

You can be with him, but you have to help him correct his impatience, because too many shortcomings will affect your relationship.

It is not recommended to be together, you can't control a person with a big temper after being together, the conflict will become more and more intense, such a person is too selfish and will not consider the feelings of others.

I think it's okay, because you can't just look at this, if he can slowly correct this problem when he is with you, and prove that he loves you very much, you can be together.

I think if a guy is impatient with a girl when he is in a relationship, he shouldn't love this girl too much, maybe he will only love himself, if it were me, I wouldn't choose to be with him.

I think it's mainly up to you, if you like someone very much, you won't care so much, you will like to be with him no matter what the other person is.

When you care about a person, that's it.

I hope you can curb your temper and communicate well with your boyfriend.

Sometimes it's better to be coquettish than to lose your temper.

I have classmates who are the same as you, my classmate broke up, the score was divided, and the result was regretted, but the boy's heart couldn't accept it anymore, do you know why, the two breakups were mentioned by the girl, the girl made the boy feel, her feelings for him changed, so although it was reconciled, the rift in it could never be closed, so the relationship needs two people to operate to maintain, you don't always have a temper with your boyfriend, he will not be able to stand you for a long time, and then leave you, you also think about why, Is he not firm enough? Good communication will always pay off.

Why else, the baby is not in hand every day, so it is cautious and special care. Now the so-called baby is in hand, and I found that the original baby also has shortcomings and defects, but you are pursuing perfection, and your temperament is only to this extent (you are immature). So there are those situations you said, you are suspicious of this and that, and the other party also has shortcomings, and you are now in a state of dissatisfaction (not satisfied), so the gap (the previous carefulness and thoughtfulness) is getting bigger and bigger, and you are becoming more and more dissatisfied.

Because your expectations are too high, you are too demanding of people, you don't know how to tolerate and understand, love is not instinctive, but you need to learn the day after tomorrow, you can communicate well if you have any dissatisfaction, don't blame others with emotions, sometimes, you can try to treat him with the same attitude as a friend, two people together will inevitably be dissatisfied, quarrels, this needs to be learned with a lot of painful tears, think about everything for others, ask others to be yourself first, you are not qualified to ask anyone, only the right to make suggestions, It's the same with your boyfriend, just give him advice in a coquettish way, and you have to put your temper a little better, the advice of the people who came over.

A relationship, after a hot-headed and unprincipled love period, will inevitably slowly flatten out and return to normal. Those shortcomings in you that he couldn't accept in the first place will no longer accommodate you because of the hot-headedness during the love period, and how much he tolerated at the time will now double his resentment and return it to you, and even magnify your shortcomings, so that it is not comfortable to look at you anywhere. That's why I've been emphasizing that two people must establish clear principles and bottom lines at the beginning of their relationship, and they must tell each other that "I don't like you like this" and "you make me uncomfortable like this", which is very important.

Otherwise, it will be difficult for you to get through the lull period after the brain cools down. It's not that he's changed, it's that he's always been like this, it's just that for a while you've been carried away by love.

Look at people's strengths, don't always look at people's shortcomings.

Find your own reasons first, and then find others who are willing to analyze.

I'm pretty much the same, just beat him up.