What to do if the child has no sense of time, no sense of urgency

Have you often ignored your children's opinions in the past?

The child is likely to be soft resisting by doing so.

What does he care? I don't think I can look at the surface. Only by observing your child can you know what he cares about. What can affect his behavior, so as to prescribe the right medicine to urge and encourage him.

To be patient with the child to reason, can not scold or corporal punishment, slowly cultivate the concept of time, for example: take the child out to travel to the place where the child especially wants to go, go late, the plane has already taken off, tell the child that the plane will not wait for you, in fact, you are the next day's ticket, this arrangement is just to educate the child.

Think of a way to change his concept of time, find something to make him wait, and make him anxious, and then tell him the importance of time concept in a timely manner.

How old is the child, what grade is there, does he have the same attitude when he does other things, if not, then it depends on whether he is not interested in reading. If this is the case with other things, I think it may be a matter of personal personality. Listen more to your child's thoughts and strengthen psychological communication, maybe your child is in a rebellious period.

Communicate well with your child, tell him that this is not true, watch some TV about honor and disgrace with him, and give him a game with clear rewards and punishments, such as when he gets up early and you make him something delicious or sell some delicious food, when he gets up late and doesn't give him some of the things he wants, etc

For example, baby, you need five minutes to tidy up your textbook or brush your teeth, and when the time is up, tell him to move on to the next link, and you can't repeat the existing movements.

Oops, it's the same in my family, let's go out to play, let him hurry up, it's slowly, I want to hit him every time, I can't help it, I'm angry.

My children are just like you said, the child's personality can't be changed, no way.

I'm still too young to be sensible.

The concept of time is not formed in a moment, and it should be cultivated from an early age. I heard many parents say that their children are very procrastinating in dressing and eating, they have to go to school for a long time every day, being late is commonplace, and holiday homework is always delayed until the last few days before writing, and they don't know how to cultivate their children's concept of time.

For children, they are basically a blank sheet of paper, plasticity is very high, cultivating their concept of time is much simpler, as long as the method is appropriate, no matter how lazy the child can be trained by you to be a hard-working little expert. Here are 3 ways for parents to try.

1. Set rules for children at home and set a schedule for rest.

There are no rules, because parents are mostly pampered with their children, they think that it doesn't matter if they are lazy when they are young, and it will be good when they grow up. However, many children's concept of time is spoiled by their parents at home when they are young, and they do not develop a good life schedule.

Parents can set rules for their children, such as how much time to control the meal time, and they can't eat again if they don't finish eating during this time period, so as to form a good work and rest time, which will prompt children to form a concept of time.

2. Parents should lead by example.

Parents are the first teachers of children, and if even parents do not have a good sense of time, then it is difficult for children to develop a sense of time. For example, if parents promise their children when to go to the amusement park, but do not fulfill this promise, the first will make the child feel that you are a deceitful person, and the trust in you will be reduced, and the second is that the child will think that you have no concept of time, this impact is negative, and parents must set an example.

3. Play time games with children.

In layman's terms, the time game is to compete with the child and complete a certain task within a certain period of time, so that he can clarify the meaning of time. Because there is no definition of time in children's cognition, time games can make children understand the importance of time.

Time games are very interesting, and it is also a good parent-child interaction, it can be extended to anything, you can compete with your child for ten minutes who reads more books, who can drink milk first, etc., isn't it interesting? It not only brings the parent-child relationship closer, but also cultivates the child's concept of time, which is the best of both worlds.

It is of great significance for children to develop the concept of time from an early age, and parents must pay attention to it, and when they find that their children have lazy behavior, they should correct their children's behaviors in time and cultivate them to become little suns who cherish time and love life.

Mainly through the following methods to help children establish a correct concept of time.

1.Train your child to get into learning quickly.

1) Many children accompany the stove and at the beginning of learning, they generally always have to clean up their desks and organize their school bags, and then take out the books and put them in, thus wasting a lot of learning time. Therefore, it is important for children to follow a principle: start learning immediately and do not procrastinate.

2) Generally speaking, if children are accustomed to learning without hesitation, they will generally feel that time flies, so that learning is efficient and produces a sense of relaxation and happiness.

3) In addition, it is necessary to make children's lives organized, for example, the placement of school supplies should be organized, and the placement of daily necessities should be fixed, etc., which can help children develop the habit of doing things in an orderly manner, so as to reduce the time wasted.

2.It is necessary to establish a strict work and rest system, teach children to do things and learn to plan.

1) Develop a scientific schedule for children, for example, make specific regulations on the time of getting up, eating, sleeping, doing homework, free activities, and doing housework, and at the same time must be strict and rigorously trained, so that children can develop the habit of working and resting according to the schedule.

2) Only when the work and rest time is fixed and a habit is formed, then the child will have a clear understanding of time and can develop a good concept of time, and a good habit of work and rest is the premise of developing a concept of time.

3) If you want your child to use their time reasonably, then let your child learn to check his time use, for example, you can ask your child to write down his time use in a diary every day, and then analyze the rules of his time use every month, so as to find out where to waste time and help children reduce time waste.

3.Let your child develop the habit of paying full attention to his studies.

If learning is often interrupted or procrastinated, it wastes time and affects learning efficiency. Therefore, in the process of children's learning, parents should not be easily disturbed, and do not ask the children who are learning to do other things, etc., and strive to let the children develop a good habit of paying full attention when studying.

<> must understand that children who are a few years old or even a teenager have no concept of time, and parents must control this aspect, including making rules or something. For example, how long does it take to get up early to wash, how long does it take to eat and sleep, and how long does it take to have fun and exercise.

Why do many children always procrastinate? It is often influenced by the family, so parents should first take the lead, including going to bed early and getting up early to do some exercise, and develop good habits in life, so that children will often follow the rules.

Children often have poor self-control and restraint, so parents must communicate more with their children. It's not okay to do anything and say anything, you need to be thundered and chirped. No matter if you enter the campus or society, such a person will be disliked in every way.

The things that children can think of at a young age are also very one-sided, so as a parent, you can set goals and stage rewards. For example, how many push-ups to do in a day, how many books to read in an hour, and give him some rewards. Slowly guide the child to be positive, and everything must be done quickly, accurately, and ruthlessly

First, one of the reasons why children have no concept of time is procrastination, and if the work is not done in a timely manner, it will cause a waste of time.

Second, set a rule for your child about what he should do and what he can do, and how long he can do it.

Third, teach children to understand the clock, so that children will have a certain concept of time, and on this basis, they can talk about the concept of time.

Fourth, the cultivation of the concept of time is a bit by bit in ordinary life, and parents can deliberately emphasize and instill the concept of time in their children.

Fifth, as a child's educator, you should set an example for your child, and at the same time, you can also imperceptibly influence your child.