My boyfriend can t do anything other than lose his temper with me, can he continue dating?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-11
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This kind of mentality, in fact, is called stinginess, in his heart, you and him are very clear, and he also knows how to buy himself something good. Of course, there are other reasons in my heart, I don't have the money to buy it, and I am reluctant to spend this money. I bought it for you, I'm afraid that if you run away, it's a waste.

    Of course you can't say he doesn't love you. There is also something to do with his personality, it is recommended that you look at his zodiac personality and look at Mr. Lejia's color personality, which can help you understand her and yourself. Two people should communicate with each other, and communication is the most mysterious way to bring people closer to each other**.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This problem should be seen from two aspects, some people are very thrifty in character, this can be changed, probably because he has not yet returned to the true meaning of money, whether you spend money is valuable, it is normal to buy things for your girlfriend, you can enlighten him from this aspect, I have also had this experience, when I love thrift, as a result, sometimes the money will be spent little by little, but I can't get anything, so you have to tell him more about this aspect!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is he stingy by nature, or is he so stingy because of his family conditions? If it's a personality issue, then divide it. Otherwise, it's too tangled.

    But if he is so stingy because of the poor conditions of his family, then you should be considerate and considerate of him, after all, a person's ability is limited (he has to honor his parents, and then he has to spend his own money. You have to save money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no perfect person in this world, let alone a man who is an animal whose upper body is sublimated and the lower body is degraded.

    It's been five years, it's a long time, how many five years are there in life.

    You now have such a question in your heart, then have you asked yourself, your question is from, love him? Love you? It's your future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are not many such men, hold on to him, it's not easy to find someone who loves you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is said that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, if you and your boyfriend always quarrel because of some trivial things, at this time you have to find a way to improve the situation, if it is still difficult to mend the relationship between the two after the joint efforts of both parties, that person suggests that it is better to break up.

    Many couples and couples, the relationship between the two people is also very good at the beginning, but with the accumulation of time, the communication between the two people is not in place, resulting in more and more contradictions, and when the contradictions are irreconcilable, they will eventually separate. After all, when the accumulated misunderstandings have reached the level of qualitative change, even if we love each other again, we have become powerless about this relationship. At that time, the separation of two people is the best, which can eliminate many quarrels and let each other's days return to a pure state.

    Of course, it's not like couples break up as soon as they quarrel. After all, what couple in the world has never quarreled? Even if there were, it should be a very small number of categories, which does not mean that this is the case in general.

    Therefore, we should treat quarrels on a case-by-case basis, never expand the focus of contradictions, and do not put the other party on the line, otherwise small things are easy to become big things. After all, if you quarrel often, as long as the frequency increases, it may hurt each other's face and feelings, and it will not be conducive to promoting a harmonious relationship between two people.

    If you don't want to break up because of a quarrel, then actively learn some skills about getting along with the sexes, and master the different psychological characteristics of both parties, so that when communicating with the other person, you can better predict the other person's thoughts and actively find a balance between you in dealing with something. Once the two people have run in, this kind of quarrel will naturally decrease. After that, as long as the two people can try their best to seek common ground while reserving differences, I believe they can still live together.

    Of course, the emotional maintenance between couples needs to rely on the joint efforts of both parties, and unilateral changes will still not help the relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not that he has a bad temper, but he doesn't have you in his heart, so it's better to give up and find someone who truly loves you in order to live a happy life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Categories: Troubles >> couples.

    Problem description: My boyfriend is always angry with me, does it mean that he doesn't love me anymore?

    He also has a big temper, and in the face of his tantrums, I let him every time (what if I break up, I just love him too much, I'm afraid of leaving him), but I can't always be like this, if I marry him, I'm not going to die, help me, everyone? What do I do when he loses his temper? Patience?

    Still is......? Analysis: Men can't bear it, and they can't let it, the more they endure it, the more they feel that you are a bully. If he loses his temper again, your temper should be bigger than his, so that he thinks that you are not a bully.

    But I think he thinks you can't live without him, so you can yell at you at any time, and the more you rely on him, the more he feels great, and the more he wants to show his machismo in front of you.

    So you have to show that you can still live well without him, so that he doesn't underestimate you. Break up, break up, there are many men in the world, and I don't know how many men are better than him.

    By the way, why is his anger so great? If he is so angry now, it is really unbelievable to get married. You've got to find a way to extinguish his anger. Otherwise, your marriage will be in full swing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Boyfriends can continue to be together if they are short-tempered and irritable, but they need to take some measures to make his temper better, when they quarrel and have conflicts, or when they are a little emotional, they should never think about cold war, or deal with the situation coldly.

    The personalities of two people are sometimes too similar, but they will go toe-to-toe with each other, or both of them swallow their grievances in their stomachs and lack communication; But sometimes it is too complementary, which can also lead to the husband and wife not being able to understand each other's minds, and it is difficult to consider the problem from the other person's point of view.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he is grumpy and angry, but he can be tolerant of you, then you can continue, and if he treats others irritable and irritable as well as you, then there is no need to continue.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Anyone has a temper, a short-tempered person, who is acute, she is a knife-mouthed tofu heart, this kind of person, you can live with him if you want to, and if you don't want to live with him, you will break up and divorce, by the way, you plan it yourself, others will not tell you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your boyfriend escalates to hitting you, don't stay together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he does not change and there is a further aggravation of the situation, it is advisable not to continue together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on whether the other party can change it, and if not, you can consider it again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When a boyfriend is grumpy and irritable, we need to consider the following aspects comprehensively to decide whether to continue to be together

    First of all, we need to understand the reasons for his short temper. Some people may be emotionally unstable due to work pressure, life troubles, or other personal problems. If this is a temporary situation, we can try to understand and support him and help him solve the problem.

    But if his temper problems persist and have a negative impact on our relationship, then we need to seriously consider whether or not to continue together.

    Second, we need to assess whether he is willing to change and ask for help. If he is aware of his problems and is willing to seek help on his part, such as through counselling or taking an emotion management course to control his temper, then we can give him some time and support to see if he can make a real change. But if he doesn't approve of his problems or is unwilling to change, then we need to consider whether we can accept that his temper problems are long-lasting.

    In addition, we need to be mindful of our feelings and safety. If his temper tantrum causes us to feel scared, hurt, or unable to function normally, then we need to seriously consider whether or not to continue together. Our safety and well-being are paramount, and unhealthy behaviors should not be endured in order to maintain a relationship.

    Finally, we can try to communicate and solve problems. If we decide to stay together, we can talk openly with our boyfriend about his temper issues and express our feelings and needs. At the same time, we can also suggest some suggestions and solutions, such as taking an emotion management course together or seeking professional help.

    Through communication and collaboration, we can work together to improve relationships.

    In short, when a boyfriend is short-tempered and irritable, we need to consider his reasons, whether he is willing to change, his feelings and safety and other factors to decide whether to continue to be together. It is important that we protect our own happiness and safety, and that we should not tolerate unhealthy behavior. <>

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello dear<>

    When my boyfriend doesn't reconcile with me, he gets angry when I contact a boy, which means that he is a very possessive person, and when your boyfriend doesn't want to reconcile with you, he gets angry when you contact other boys, because he feels jealous, worried, or upset. But let him respect each other's feelings. In a relationship, everyone has their own space and circle of friends.

    Make sure you have enough personal space for each other and respect each other's independence and friendship. I hope mine can help you<>

    <> when my boyfriend didn't reconcile with me, he got angry when I approached a boy.

    My current boyfriend Qin Shiru, when he didn't reconcile with me before, he also thought that he had a girlfriend in the town, and he knew that I had a boyfriend and went crazy on the spot, can a man love two women at the same time.

    Hello dear<>

    When my boyfriend doesn't reconcile with me, he gets angry when I contact a boy, which means that he is a very possessive person, and when your boyfriend doesn't want to reconcile with you, he gets angry when you contact other boys, because he feels jealous, worried, or upset. But let him respect each other's feelings. In a relationship, everyone has their own space and circle of friends.

    Make sure you have enough personal space for each other and respect each other's independence and friendship. I hope mine can help you<>

    <> won't fall in love with two.

    Because the mind is unbalanced.

    It's just going to fall to the side.

    At that time, he had a girlfriend, we got along with friends like friends, he one day I told him that I had a boyfriend and sent him a **, he was mad on the spot, and we were friends when we got along with relatives, because Gao Shuling talked about it six years ago, and broke up for many years, and they have been getting along as friends in recent years.

    That's because he still has you in his heart.

    So why did he talk about a girlfriend?

    Does he have a good relationship with his girlfriend.

    Because he asked me to reconcile I didn't agree, I only accepted to get along with his Huaixiao friend Xin Mingwei, I don't know, I didn't ask him much about his ex-girlfriend, we got along as friends at that time, but they saw that time I had a boyfriend, and they went crazy.

    He can't let you go.

    His current relationship is only superficial.

    If you tell him to be with him now, he will not hesitate to be with you.

    Then why did you separate before?

    He said that it was not suitable, and if he had to break up, he would break up.

    Then he should have regretted it by now.

    He's got you back together, too.

    Why don't you get back together with him?

    Is it because he did something?

    It's been six years, the first two years we went our separate ways, and the last two years he came to me to reconcile, and I didn't agree.

    Because after all, I've come out and don't want to continue.

    Because he doesn't cherish when he has.

    It's a pity to miss it.

    Did you communicate in the first two years?

    You've come out on the surface, but you really can't let go of him inside, can't you?

    Otherwise, how could it be because I told him that you have a boyfriend, and he would accompany him anyway, and you would ask after you were so old, didn't you also care about him<>

    Hug stupid hug] [hug hug mu].

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello dear, in this case we can promise him first. Don't dwell on it, it will increase disgust. Then we slowly spent a year adjusting our temper.

    My boyfriend says I have a bad temper and should be friends for a while first, what should I do?

    There was a conflict, he found that my personality was easy to be anxious, he was divorced and had two children, and he was busy with work, he asked me rhetorically, I felt that our personalities were compatible, he said that he would be friends for a while, and he was hesitating whether to be together. When I just started to have conflicts, I said, I'm not happy and afraid, he apologized, we were still dating, and he still took the initiative to transfer 520 to me on Qixi Festival, before he said to give me a driver's license, and then it was 5000 my driver's license. I found that he didn't start to be enthusiastic about me, and when I asked him, he said that he felt that I had a bad temper, and that he would be friends for a while, and now contact him to reply.

    Is he hesitating now? Or let go, do I need to take the initiative to contact him and care about him?

    Hello dear, in this case we can promise him first. Don't dwell on it, it will increase disgust. Then we slowly spent a year adjusting our temper.

    Dear, in this case, his intention is actually literal, no need to guess his thoughts. We get along with him as friends, and he can see that we are getting better, so he will naturally come back.

    Dear, the other party is not leaving us in this situation, don't worry too much, as long as we pay attention to adjusting our temper in the future, the two will be reconciled.

    Contact him now He only replied to me, I couldn't find a topic to talk about, how do I deal with the problem.

    Dear, the two are in love, and it is not something that can be solved by finding a topic. If we want to attract him, he will come to us on his own initiative. What we should do now is to become better and more beautiful, and inadvertently let him know that we have become better and more beautiful.

    Now I'm just, don't take the initiative to contact him, be myself, right?

    Dear, yes, if we talk too much, the other party may be annoyed, and our emotions will also be affected, so now as long as we can contact once or twice in three or five days, keep in touch, and then try to get better.

    But I guess what he does? He was very concerned about my temperament, what should I do when I want to talk to him?

    Dear, this kind of emotional impulse should be restrained, I really want to think about it, you can simply send a few words, "I miss you", don't say too much.

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