In love, is it true that you can t have both suitability and like?

Updated on society 2024-05-04
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This society is very realistic, and I like to eat it as a meal! Marriage needs to be based on material things. Sometimes two people love each other and come back to life, but in the end they still lose to the life of chicken feathers. In my opinion, liking and fitting are two different things, and sometimes it's hard to have both.

    If you like someone, you only need to think about it spiritually, say some sweet words every day, and swear by it, thinking that this kind of love can last forever.

    They feel that love is sacred and beautiful, spotless, and that money only tarnishes their pure love. 

    Two people are like fairies in the family, they don't know the taste of human sorrow at all, if such two people step into marriage, facing the life of chicken feathers, they will only fall into endless trivialities and pain. 

    And finding a suitable person is different, two people have the same three views, have similar tempers, get along harmoniously and freely, and are unrestrained. It won't make you feel tired, and it won't be a burden to you.

    My husband and I got married because we were suitable, we met on a blind date, and there was no emotional foundation, he was not very handsome, and his family background was average. I just felt that each other had similar personalities, the three views were the same, and we could talk, so we discussed getting married.

    Later, after getting along for a long time, I found that he was not only considerate and gentle, but also positive and motivated, and they fell in love with each other for a long time. I have been married for five years and have never blushed, in fact, sometimes, like and fit can coexist, as long as you work hard, you can harvest a beautiful love.

    The best love is like and fit, and if you can't have both, then you have to tolerate each other. No matter how many shortcomings the other party has, if you decide to be together, you must learn to be generous and tolerant, empathize more, and stand in the other party's perspective to understand and accept each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think so, be patient, you will always meet someone you like and are suitable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To get married, you have to be with the right person, and this suitability of course also includes being able to like it, but it may not be the kind you like the most, and you often can't be with your favorite people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In love, I think it is possible to have both suitability and like, and you have to be patient with that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's really hard to meet right and like, and you always have to choose to be loved and love the same.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's a bit of a can't have it both ways, and many times you can't have the best of both worlds, just like bread and love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nothing is completely impossible, and nothing is completely possible, different situations and different standards.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think so, if you can't have both or don't meet the right person, the two are not in conflict.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not impossible, it's just that it's not easy to encounter. But still have to believe that there will be.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Feelings are different at different ages, and adolescent love can get both at the same time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is a beautiful relationship between men and women or between all people, and there are broad and narrow senses.

    Life is a big stage, and it is also the life of Baiwei, colorful but also suffering and happiness coexist.

    Love and life are not contradictory, but they are linked and inseparable. Life is more beautiful, complete and colorful, and love is more real in life, depending on how you grasp the proportion of these feelings and life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can have both, a good life is built on love, friendship, and family affection, and with love, no matter how you work, life will be more nourishing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is just a part of life! But it's often the most beautiful part of life! There's nothing wrong with having both!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love is just you and me, I love you, and you love me.

    Life is that you try your best for him, but you still can't be satisfied.

    I think that if a person has no love, it is equivalent to no life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love and life are inherently one, I don't think they should be separated, only people who know how to live will know how to have love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is easy for two people to become lovers, but it is difficult to form a family. Because you can't stay together for a lifetime by love alone, you need more things to grow old together. Being a husband is not an identity, but a responsibility.

    Wife is not a nickname, but a guardian. To be a couple, you may only need love. But to be a family, it takes two people's dedication, compromise and persistence.

    If you want to start a family, you must first have the spirit of sacrifice. - Lu Qi.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Life is the survival that you feel is okay. What love is in your own heart.

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