What are some of the moments when your parents make you feel very uncomfortable?

It's because I have a younger brother. And my grandmother's family is a little patriarchal, and then we went to celebrate the New Year together as a family during the Chinese New Year last year. At that time, I only had 100 when I divided the red envelopes of the New Year's money, but my younger brother had 200.

I was a little unhappy, but my parents thought I was too calculating.

My parents always interfere in my life on the grounds that you are good, and in order to make my life better in the future, they even negotiated a marriage with a very rich family. It's not about money, it's very uncomfortable in my heart, and I can't accept it.

After graduating and going to work, I also lived at home, and I also used food at home. It's that sometimes when I feel tired after coming back from work, I don't want to move, and sometimes I hear my mother say that I know that I am too lazy to do anything when I come home, and I will feel a little uncomfortable.

I am 28 years old this year, but I still have nothing to do, sitting at home through the Internet entrepreneurship, spending a lot of time in front of the computer every day, my parents are the older generation, and I don't particularly understand this aspect of things, I see that I stay at home and don't go out to work, I will nag a few words, sometimes even say heavy words to express that I don't understand, at this time I don't feel good in my heart, explain them and can't understand, don't explain and not my personality, it's very anxious!

After graduating from university, every time I go home for dinner, I will have my favorite dishes, and each meal is 3 dishes and one soup. Chinese food and dinner are not the same dishes, every time I eat, the dishes of the main meal are good in front of me, my parents have been eating the leftovers of the previous meal, at first I didn't feel it, when I grew up, I realized that this is the love of my parents for myself, meticulous love, seeing the white hair of my parents' arms, my heart is very uncomfortable.

It's that every year during the Chinese New Year, my parents will think about buying new clothes for us first, but they don't want to buy new clothes, and they will buy clothes for themselves every year when the New Year is approaching, because they always say that their clothes are enough to wear, and I feel very bad at this time.

Once, when I wanted to buy a pair of Nike shoes, I went to my parents' place of work and asked them for money.

When I walked through the workshop where they worked, I saw my parents working very hard, and their clothes were soaked with sweat, and I felt very uncomfortable at the time, and I didn't open my mouth to ask them for money.

In fact, I think that sometimes our parents do make us feel that our hearts are very bad, for example, when we give him money, he is reluctant to spend, he is reluctant to use, and he is reluctant to buy groceries, and he is hospitalized because of malnutrition.

I am the second eldest in the family, and I have an older sister, and when I grew up, I heard many people say that my parents wanted a second child to have a boy, and I turned out to be a girl. In my heart, I felt that my parents didn't like me, and every time they cared about my sister and bought clothes or food for my sister, I felt very uncomfortable.

First of all, when you are immersed in work.

I remember when I was a child, there was always such a picture in my mind: my parents were buried in the fields, and their clothes were soaked with sweat. But staring at the scorching sun, the parents still buried their heads in hard work.

At that time, I was a little kid, I could only sit on the sidelines and watch my parents, although I didn't know how to understand my parents at that time, but the picture of my parents working hard was deeply engraved in my mind. Later, as I grew up, I felt more and more that it was not easy to be a vice president, and I will never forget the picture of my parents burying their relatives and working, and that moment is the best proof of my parents' dedication to the family and children.

Secondly, see the gray hair of the parents.

I don't know when, I found out that my parents had gray hair on their heads, and at that moment I felt that it was too difficult for my parents, and the fatigue of life made them have white hair prematurely. My parents, who were young and strong in front of me, suddenly turned white, and I felt very guilty and uneasy. I don't feel comfortable accepting my parents' aging, and I also lament that life is not easy.

Again, see the wrinkles of the parents.

Also, the moment I noticed that Zen Zhihao's parents' faces had wrinkles, I suddenly felt very sour in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly felt that life was too difficult, and at the same time, I felt powerless as a child. Parents congratulate the whole family, and they no longer care about their appearance and aging.

They feel that their family and children are the most important, and that they have only selflessness in their hearts, not themselves.

In the hearts of each of our children, there may be many moments of life, in which we find that our parents are old, that our parents are hunchbacked, and that our parents are always giving to our children. Love your parents more and go home more to spend time with your parents.

When we were young, we all complained to our parents, to blame them for being strict, for being stubborn, for not understanding us, and for not keeping up with the trend. However, when we work as adults, there are always many "difficulties" in life that make it impossible for us to be with our parents all the time. Being a father and mother, taking responsibility for work and life.

When we grew up, we always inadvertently understood the difficulties of our parents. The love of parents is always silent. Without experiencing it firsthand, it's hard to understand what our parents compromised and gave up for us at that moment.

When I was young, I couldn't understand the hardships and difficulties of being a parent. Gradually, I stepped into the society and deeply understood: it turns out that it is not easy to be a parent.

They are reluctant to spend money, but work hard. Then, don't hesitate to give me money to spend. When I used to go to college, they always said:

If you don't have enough money, I'll send it to you. Now that they are working, they always say, "I haven't spent what I gave last time, so I don't need it."

I began to think that I had become sensible and began to repay them; However, their love once again walked in front of our sensible people, this is Mom and Dad! Their love is always so great, when they were young, after school, they were hungry and rushed home. In the depths of the city lights, I knew that my mother would prepare a hot and delicious meal waiting for me.

At this time, I was able to see my parents every day. When I was in my third year of high school, I began to live on campus to study, because of the heavy workload of the college entrance examination, I went home once a week. At this time, I could only see my parents every Sunday.

When I went to college, I came to Jiaozuo with my suitcase, and I went home twice a year. At this time, I was able to see my parents four times a year. Now that I'm working, in a more distant place, looking up at the direction of the sunset, going home is just an extremely tempting luxury, and it is not easy to go home twice a year, and I can only go home once.

After coming out to work, I found that it was not easy for my parents to earn every penny. Life is never easy, when you feel easy, there are people who bear the difficulty. What is my dream, is to earn a lot of money and pay my mom every day.

I didn't want to accompany her to buy clothes anymore, and when she read the ** label, she pretended not to like it and pulled me away. I'm going to let my mom live a life where I don't have to look at the labels. "Since I was a child, I felt that the most powerful person was my mother, who was not afraid of the dark, knew everything, cooked good food, took care of her life in good order, and had to find her when she cried and didn't know what to do.

But I seem to have forgotten that this person I relied on was also a little girl, afraid of the dark and shedding tears, clumsy and clumsy will be pricked by needles. The most beautiful girl, what makes you so strong, is it time, or love.

In our lives, there will always be a moment when we suddenly realize that it is really not easy to be parents, such as the moment when we become parents, that is to say, when we are in the delivery room, or after having our own baby, we will suddenly realize that it is not easy for our parents to bring themselves up.

In addition, when we go home for the Chinese New Year, we suddenly see that my parents' gray hair is getting more and more, and their backs are becoming more and more curved, and even sometimes when I come home, I find that I am taller than my parents.

In fact, there are a lot of such moments, sometimes we can see some changes in our parents, whether it is slowly getting older, or gray hair is becoming more and more, or some other situations, at this time we will realize that it is really not easy for parents to work for half a lifetime, and sometimes, when we fight with our parents, from some of their words, we can also hear that they will have a lot of difficulties at work or in life, and they will encounter a lot of problems. At this time, we can also understand their difficulty.

There is a saying that every family has a difficult scripture to read, which means that everyone will have their own difficulties that they often encounter, so at this time we must know how to understand each other, take care of our parents more, and let them live a good life, which is what we should do.

I remember when I was just admitted to high school, my mother took me to my grandmother's house to borrow money to go to school, and my aunt said why let all three children go to school, girls don't need to study so much, sooner or later they have to get married! The mother said: If the child misses, you have to do your best to provide for them.

After hard work, I feel that it is not easy to make money, and it is even more difficult to support a family.