My girlfriend is pregnant, and I want her to get rid of it, is this heinous?

Updated on culture 2024-05-01
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that this matter is still discussed by two people before making a decision, and there are specific things to analyze. If you say that you don't want simple feelings, you must also make it clear that this must be a life. If the two get married, there will be another one, but if you say you don't want to marry him, it's a bit heinous.

    Let's say separately, the first is that I feel that I am still young and don't want to bear such pressure too early, in this case, I also want to ask my girlfriend for advice, see if the two of you can get married first, or not, and wait until your career improves, before deciding to have children. If my girlfriend doesn't agree, it's recommended to do a good job, I think it's not easy for a girl to withstand such pressure.

    He should be considerate. Consensus was reached. The second is that you don't want to marry your girlfriend at all, we all know that there are a lot of boyfriends and girlfriends in society, and some even just want to have fun.

    Although we can't say anything about this behavior, we must also think about our own bodies. If that's what you thought, you shouldn't have impregnated him at the time. In this case, there won't be so many troubles, but since it has happened, it should be made clear to him.

    First of all, you should ask for his forgiveness, and take care of him first. Or it's really heinous. We girls in life should protect themselves, no matter what happens in the future, but we can't joke about our physical health, which is a sign of irresponsibility to ourselves.

    Boys should take on the responsibility of a man, and if they don't want to marry a girl, they should not behave excessively.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everything can be discussed by two people.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It still depends on the specific situation to analyze.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Pregnancy is the touchstone of a relationship, enough to test a man's character.

    In the entertainment industry, many stars choose to become the "Dink family". They were too busy with their own businesses to take care of their children, so they chose not to let them be born. In the speech, one celebrity said that some people often ask me why you don't have children, like you are very old; Why do you want to exercise?

    Why not marry a rich man? She is like this. Of course, the path of life is to be taken by oneself.

    Others have become accustomed to measuring my life through a moral lens, but I don't blindly copy the way others live. You say I want to have a baby, do I want to have a baby? Having a baby is entirely your choice, right?

    Pregnancy is a mirror of the relationship between men and women, and it will make everyone's face shine a real expression. This suggests that when people are having difficulties in a relationship, they either work together or face the difficulties all the time. The person who loves you will think I love you, not the person you can have children.

    Men who don't love you will think, you don't deserve to have my children, I don't want children.

    Whether you choose to have a baby or not, it's a common choice for both parties. Some people like children and grandchildren, and some do not hesitate to "sink". Life is yours.

    As long as you feel that this problem does not affect you, you will feel happy. All women who choose to conceive and have children should do so voluntarily, not because their husbands wish, let alone because their mothers-in-law wish. Or, if you don't have children, women aren't complete.

    Women are very strong, but they are very insecure, the development of a relationship and pregnancy is an important turning point, and men's attitudes determine a lot. When the mother's feelings are not understood, and they are persuaded to beat it off, many women will find it difficult to accept, and they must explain the reason, don't be a sinner in a clear way, but if they really don't want to be responsible or feel that they can't afford to be responsible, then the man is indeed unforgivable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's still necessary to analyze it specifically.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's all here, why do you want to knock it out?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your girlfriend is pregnant, and then you ask her to beat it, he refuses, at any time it means that he is reluctant, then you should think about it and reason with him, because sometimes if you don't fight, it is actually very troublesome If you like a person who will never be together, please cherish every opportunity to be with him, every opportunity to talk to him, because this is likely to become a rare memory in your mind.

    Please keep a happy mindset and let him feel your happiness every time you see him or talk to him, because it is a blessing to see your loved one happy.

    Please try to adjust your dress, only those who know how to love themselves can make their loved ones love themselves, after all, everyone wants their loved ones to see their best side.

    Go into his heart as much as possible, listen to his heart, what is yours will always be yours, if it's not yours, why force it, even if you only have his heart, it's enough.

    Please don't give too much, if your love has 100 points, please leave yourself 20 points; The person who knows the ending is the most sensible, and if you give 100 points, the ending will definitely be a broken body.

    Please don't be too your beloved, too many factors will separate you, if you don't want to turn the good memories with him into a nightmare, please give both parties some space to make the other person feel that having you is his happiness.

    Try not to shed tears when you leave (it is estimated that it is difficult, I used to love a Chongqing girl very much, but I couldn't do it when I broke up), if the other party loves you too, he will definitely not want to see you cry.

    Please deeply preserve every minute and second you are together, because the torrent of time will be very merciless, will wash away your memories, and in the end I am afraid that only scattered fragments remain.

    Please remember the time you were together, because cherish today, it is the most beautiful memory of tomorrow.

    If you still think of him after separation, please don't pester him, love him to see him happy, since he is destined to be strange, why stalk, the ending of stalking is destined to destroy the most beautiful memory between you.

    There are some people you like, and they don't belong to you. Our life has too much helplessness, we can't do anything and can't change, dear as long as you work hard, no regrets, there will be no regrets in life (don't learn, the reluctant ending is that you hurt alone), tired, painful, you look down, and learn to let go after you fade.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, your question has been sorted out. Soon after, she became pregnant again. After becoming pregnant, I found out that this old man used to be rich, but now he owes a lot of debts.

    If you get married, your life will be difficult in the future, and you may not be able to give a bride price of 2 million. At this time, the ex-girlfriend and her mother regretted it. Some doctors also told them that because the time between the ex-girlfriend's killing of the child and the second pregnancy was too short, they can't beat the child now, and if they have to beat the child, then it will be difficult to get pregnant again in the future.

    At this time, his ex-girlfriend and his mother were scared, and then they thought of me. That's why there was that scene yesterday, my ex-girlfriend's mother came to beg me to marry her daughter, and I didn't want a bride price. When I knew about these things, I refused.

    It turned out that in the past six months, the ex-girlfriend's mother took the ex-girlfriend to go on a blind date three times. And on two occasions, I had already received money from others, and finally divorced. It turned out that it was the first time, and the ex-girlfriend's mother took a deposit from someone else, and then let the ex-girlfriend stay there for the night.

    Soon the ex-girlfriend became pregnant. But after my girlfriend got pregnant, I found out that the boy was a scumbag. Then they broke up, but she was pregnant.

    For the sake of the future, the ex-girlfriend's mother asked the ex-girlfriend to kill the child. In the second episode, the man found out about his ex-girlfriend. I didn't agree to continue dating.

    And the third time, the man was an old man, and he said that he could not mind the things of his ex-girlfriend, but there was only one requirement, which was to try marriage first. The ex-girlfriend, as well as her mother, desperately wanted the money and then agreed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the baby is in your womb, maybe you can understand her feelings, and miscarriage is very traumatic to a woman's body and mind. Pregnancy is fate, and keeping a little life is the most important thing. And you, as the father of the child, should do your part as a man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can talk to him about how you can't afford to raise a child right now. In other words, this time period is not suitable now, and there will definitely be children in the future. Knowing with reason, moving with emotion.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It must be reluctant, after all, it is your child, you should also calm down, don't beat it first, it's better to marry him, and be responsible if you have a child.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you have done it, you must dare to do it. After all, this is a life, so let's be in charge!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then be responsible for marrying a girlfriend, and a man must dare to do it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you really like her, marry her back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think it's heinous, because if the timing of pregnancy is not right, having a baby is also irresponsible for the child.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on the situation, if the family conditions allow, and the fetus is normal, it should be born, it must be the crystallization of your love, and it hurts the body, in case of infertility, don't you regret it, isn't it depriving the woman of her right to be a mother.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not heinous, but it's also a great responsibility, you're done opening your mouth**, other women** have a great impact on health, you need to think about and care about women.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on your own situation, if you are mature enough, then you should get married and have children immediately, instead of going **. After all, you were cool at the time, didn't do safety measures, and regretted it afterwards? How can this work, but if you're immature yourself, let's fight, and then leave your girlfriend's side, after all, you'll be a scumbag.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What do you say, you don't want it, why are you happy for a while, have you thought about her health? ** is very harmful, and may even cause her to be infertile for life, and she can no longer be a mother. Knowing this, don't you still think you're heinous?!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not authentic anyway.

    Is there any other arrangement other than **?

    Tie the knot**.

    Or, get married?

    Who takes care of Xiao Yuezi? How to take care of it?

    Just coldly shook a **, that is really heinous.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Although it is not heinous, it can only be said that you are an irresponsible man.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Scumbag, you don't want to have children, why don't you bring a condom if you don't want to!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Although I don't know your situation, I feel that you should be the kind of man who is irresponsible, very selfish, and unworthy of love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, look at the Buddhist sutras and ask the monks.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think that's heinous.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No matter what, be responsible, otherwise you're a brute.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can't say that, if you can't afford it now, you can discuss it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think it depends on the situation, if you don't have enough ability to meet this little life, you can discuss it with the woman first!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's not like that, if the two of you discuss it, it's okay.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why don't you take contraceptive measures in advance, and if you love her, you have to protect her

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