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First of all, I suggest that you boldly pursue your own happiness, find the person you love and love you, and get married when it's time to get married. Don't think so much. Life is colorful, and you have to try everything.
The life of an unmarried person is flawed, and the character of an unmarried person is incomplete. Just as now that computers are very popular, but you insist on not using the Internet, it makes no sense. Marriage is also a test for a person, because marriage is responsible, and a person without a sense of responsibility is also a sign of psychological immaturity.
This is why people often refer to married people as mature people. Marriage is the inevitable process of a person's maturity, because marriage is a great challenge in this life, it requires you and your lover to spend a lifetime to carefully care for and manage, so that your feelings and hearts are purified and sublimated, people in this life is for 2 goals: career and love!
Marriage is also a step-by-step thing, just like going to primary school, middle school, going to college, and working, and then getting married and having children, which is a necessary step in a person's life, in fact, it is also a very ordinary thing, so you don't have to be afraid of difficulties. Marriage is also a necessary condition for human reproduction and continuation, everyone has the day of aging, when you are dying of old age and facing the end of your life, you don't worry about anything, because your children's veins continue to be your blood, and your life seems to be continuing in another form. Have fun!
Can it solve your problem?
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You see that many divorced people will still remarry, do you want to say that they are not normal, of course, if you want to get married again, you will be worried and worried, but as long as you can overcome the psychological barriers, you can become brave, life is to try to pursue your dreams, try to find a good partner who truly loves each other to marry.
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First, marriage is for the purpose of having children, passing on the family lineage, and prolonging mankind. Second, physiological needs. When men and women reach a certain age, they will have sexual requirements, and after marriage, they can justifiably solve their physical problems.
Third, rely on each other. Only when you get married can you officially have a home and someone to rely on, and you can stabilize it. - Flowers bloom and fall all over the sky.
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Urged by parents, when you meet the right person, you should consider it when you are not young, marriage is two suitable people to experience the troubles of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea together, and experience the process of loving each other and adapting to each other. Marriage is the merging of two families.
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First, I think it's time to get married when I'm old, and it's time to get married to the extent that I want to talk about it, so I plan to get married, and I don't have any impulses.
2. My marriage was completed at the urging of relatives and friends.
3. I decided to get married.
Fourth, because of the face of a long distance, the boyfriend at that time and her current husband didn't believe in long-distance love, so he proposed.
5. When I was talking to my parents, I suddenly wanted to be like them, so I proposed.
Sixth, the parents at home met and talked about reaching an agreement without our knowledge, and then directly started to send invitations, yes, we were forced to get married.
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Marriage is mainly affected by the surrounding environment, if the people around you are not married or divorced, then you will not want to get married, but everyone else is married, then you will be under great pressure, and you will also want to get married.
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It's not a question of whether you want to or not, just let it be! At least not for now. Let's start a business first and then get married, marriage needs to be managed in order to be happy, and a good early stage will help you to better manage a happy marriage in the future!
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I think marriage is an inevitability of a clear relationship between two people, if you don't get married, it is a legal husband and wife relationship if you are not married, and it is a legal husband and wife relationship. But some people don't want to get married now because they feel that marriage will affect or change their lives, and that the happy and free single life will become a last resort occupied by a sense of responsibility. But if you don't get married, can you really live a free life without getting married?
So I think what should be done at the age of what should be done, this is the most normal, in fact, marriage is also to give the loved one a residency or a commitment, having a home will make you better and even life and soul comfort. If not, then it also means that it is not suitable to get married, form a family, and live together.
Happy New Year to all!
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Marriage is really not child's play, it is a matter of two families, it is recommended that the landlord consider it carefully, after all, this society is still very realistic.
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I guess I've endured a lot, and I want someone to give you advice at all times.
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When I just graduated, I thought that marriage was very simple, as long as you love me, I will end it, I didn't think about anything, I didn't think so much at the time, no ring, no wedding dress, no house, no car, these all felt that it didn't matter at the time, only a job, one day bread will be there, so I got married, although I have it now, but it is still recommended to think carefully.
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Marriage is a natural thing that has reached a certain level of affection. Women want fame, and they need that piece of paper to feel at ease. Aren't men? With that piece of paper, you will understand what responsibility is and what responsibility is!
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I wanted to get married because I couldn't support myself, but I didn't want to leave the city, after all, I grew up here.
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I want to be together forever, have children, and take care of each other until I am old!
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It's been 7 years, so naturally I'm married. It's sad to think about it after marriage
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Think. Declaring sovereignty, he is mine, and our relationship is protected by law.
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Don't dare to think about it, the pressure is too much!
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Because of love or because of family.
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To a certain extent, children are not the necessities of Zenhan marriage, children are the crystallization of love between both parties, and it is the best time to have children when both parties are ready to take on this responsibility.
It is more due to traditional concepts, as well as the pressure and gaze from parents or society, I feel that if two couples do not implement or plan to have a child, they will be very "different", just like the current lack of understanding and support for "Dink". Even if we face the "struggle" of "chickens and dogs" with children every day, we will still promote the concept of having children to the young people around us, is it the meaning of "we have entered the pit, not you and who you are".
There is no need to numb oneself for reasons such as raising children to prevent old age. To this day, parents in the family are still running around for their children to help their children raise the next generation. Even if parents who are not involved in parenting tasks are taking care of themselves, if there is a real need to "prevent aging", maybe there are few things that children can do for their parents.
In order to participate in the growth of a life, a life starts from nothing, from small to large. Feel the wonder of a life, the surprise of two hearts beating in a body, the wonder of slight changes and fetal movements. Feel the tenacity of a life, and come to a world with complete trust.
In order to better understand yourself, to be a seed, a new life, and an understanding that comes to this world with trust. To better understand one's own state in the process of growth, to see and accompany the process of one's life growth, is to take care of and understand oneself in the process of growth.
In order to better understand life, it is precisely with children that our lives can be celebrated and laughed. It is with children that we can become parents and better understand our own demands, our own love and hatred.
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Why do you want to get married? You have to ask yourself, what's the point of asking outsiders?
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Marriage is happy, and each of us pursues to have a happy marriage. But some people choose to divorce because they are unhappy in their marriage and do not want to marry again. ......For me, if I had the opportunity to choose again, I would still choose to get married.
The reason why I chose this way is because I think that a person should get married, that you can only have a happy life if you marry the person you love, and that your marriage is very happy.
If you choose again, of course, you will choose to get married for these three reasons. Men should get married, women should get married, and in my philosophy, a person should get married. Everyone has their own ideas about marriage.
As far as I am concerned, my view of marriage is that men should get married and women should get married. I think a person should get married, and only married life is complete. And in my opinion, getting married is a natural choice.
It is precisely because I have this concept that no matter how I choose, I will choose to get married. Only by marrying the person you love and starting a family can you have a happy and fulfilling life. Each of us is in pursuit of a happy and fulfilling life.
And if you want to have a happy and fulfilling life, you must act accordingly. ......My opinion is that if you want to live a happy life, you must marry the people you love and start a family in order to have a happy and fulfilling life.
It is precisely because of this idea that even if I choose again, I will still choose to get married. My marriage is very happy, so if I choose again, I will definitely choose to get married.
From a practical point of view, my marriage is very happy, and I feel very satisfied. ......Because of this, even if you choose again, you will choose to get married. And the person I marry will still be my current lover.
I have already obtained a happy marriage, so no matter what I choose, I will let my happy marriage continue. ......It is precisely because of the above reasons that if I really have the opportunity to choose again, I will still choose to get married.
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The reasons for wanting to get married vary from person to person, here are some possible reasons:
Love and intimacy: Many people want to get married because they love their partner and want to have a deeper intimacy with them. Marriage can provide a stable, long-term partnership that makes people feel more secure and content.
Family and social pressures: In some cultures and societies, marriage is seen as a tradition and an expectation. Family and society may exert pressure to make people feel compelled to marry in order to meet their expectations and demands.
Financial and legal security: Marriage can provide some financial and legal security, such as joint property, social security, inheritance, etc. These guarantees can make people feel more secure and stable.
Children and family life: Many people want to get married because they want children and family life. Marriage can provide a stable, safe environment in which children and family members feel more at ease and happy.
In short, the reason for wanting to get married.
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Actually, I really want to get married. I don't know if it's because I envy others, or I want to belong to my heart, or I just feel that everyone has a family and children at this age, and it seems that only I am still floating in the sea, and I have to suffer from other people's saliva.
A leftover woman in her thirties, teaching in the countryside, sometimes finds that in addition to work, she is like a lonely boat floating in the sea, swaying when the wind blows, and is in danger of sinking into the sea every minute. At this time, I want to dock so much! I tried to find a harbor for me to dock into, but the wind in the sea made me lose my way, and I couldn't find where to return.
I have no place to return to, seeing the time when others accompany my parents and children, and seeing the scenes of others showing affection, the envy revealed in my eyes really makes me feel a little sad. I also want to settle down and have my own home, my own children, and accompany her to grow up. Maybe I won't be a patient mother at the beginning, but I will definitely keep reflecting and summarizing to make myself a patient mother!
I want to settle down like this, and I still look forward to the fantasy of him who makes me impeccable. I look forward to the one who can make me happy and bring me stability. She was persuading me that such a person did not exist, and even if he existed, he would disappear in the future, but I still had a glimmer of hope to meet the person I wanted.
But I don't seem to try to meet, I'm always waiting to meet! Time passed in the waiting to be met.
Don't wait, don't complain, do what you want, fight for it, no matter how tired and annoying, work hard, try to try!
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Seeing more and more people around you getting married, will you want to get married? Many people have graduated from college for two years, and their classmates have begun to slowly take turns to enter the marriage hall. Many people will be distressed at this time, and they will have to pay a lot of money, and many people will begin to worry about their partners, because their parents will start urging, and relatives will start to introduce you to the object.
At this age, you may have a slight improvement in your work, and you may also start to feel that you can talk to someone and get ready to get married. I'm no exception, in the past six months, there are about 20 friends who got married, and some of them have had a particularly good time. I also began to itch when I saw the happiness and joy of their marriage, but I began to retreat when I saw the difficulty of the wedding process.
I often discuss marriage with my roommates, but every time I say, "Oh, there is no partner, what to talk about getting married, let's find a partner first". That's right. When the people around you get married, it will affect your thoughts, at least you will feel that you have indeed reached a marriageable age, and you will feel that it is time to find a partner.
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