Why love is always getting harder and harder

Forehead... Love is originally sweet and painful, and it should be the contribution of both parties. You can choose to give up, but if you love him very much and you know that he loves you very much, then giving up is just something that makes both parties miserable, unless you have a reason to give up; Or, you know that he doesn't love you anymore, then, if you love him, give it up, so that you can fulfill him, and to love him is to make him happy, not to bind him; If you love him and he loves you, then let him know how you feel, and don't cry all the time, not only will he have wrinkles, but also if the boy keeps seeing the girl crying, he will be very bored, make it clear to him, he will understand you.

Since I feel that love is getting more and more difficult to love.

Just don't go on.

Love is sweet.

It's not painful.

If you have love, you will make yourself miserable.

Then I'd rather give up.

Love is happy, how can it be difficult to go on, unless it is no longer love.

When it's time, let it go.

Flowers need to be watered and fertilized every day! Love is the same, it needs to be cared for and managed!

Because the love that can stand the test is "Love", it takes time to get the result.

If it's easy, then love isn't great.

What do you think of it yourself?

Isn't it a feeling of reciprocation, a kind of dependence, a kind of dependence, a kind of trust, a kind of comfort, a kind of protection, a kind of care, a kind of forbearance, and a kind of accommodation. How to look at a love is how you think about it Many times it depends on reality, if the reality is allowed, it can be fought for, it is happy, it is happy, it is happy, it is happy, I recommend working hard to strive for it. If love is only one-sided, let one party work hard to accommodate, endure, and let one bear all the pain, even if you fight for it, you will feel that the love will be very fragile, and the flow of time will dilute all the feelings, and only leave a faint memory So everything is known only to yourself Don't let yourself be scarred by love, because you are easily afraid of the truth of love!!

Maybe I'm not gentle enough, but I can be a good wife and mother.

Maybe I'm not pretty enough, but I can.

version you cook a table of dishes. Right.

Maybe I'm not smart enough, but I can understand what you're thinking.

.Maybe I'm not perfect, but you know my sincerity.

Maybe you're not careful, but you'll make brown sugar water for me.

Maybe you're not considerate enough, but you'll warm my bed.

Maybe you're not tall enough, but you'll shelter me from the elements.

.Maybe you're not perfect, but I know your sincerity.

You and me, it's very simple, it's ordinary!

We held hands and leaned against each other. Concession to each other. Love one another.

Actually, love is very simple!

This is what I wrote myself, don't copy it casually.

Love makes a return.

Cupid asked the god of love, "Where is the meaning of love?"

"L" stands for Zhilisten (listening) Love is to listen to each other's needs without prejudice and to assist "O" stands for Obligate (Thanksgiving) Love needs to be constantly grateful, pay more love, and irrigate the seedlings of love. "V" stands for ValuedLove is to show your respect, to express thoughtfulness, sincere encouragement, and praise from your heart.

e" stands for excuse, and love is to be kind to the other person, to forgive the other person's shortcomings and mistakes. Accept the full range of the other person.

If you want to have a clear and long-lasting love, you must always learn to listen to each other. Thank each other. Treat each other with respect. Forgive the other person.

If you love, you will say it out loud, and if you don't love, you will turn around and walk away.

Love has a short shelf life.

When love passes, the best thing to do is to turn love into affection. Family affection is a bond with blood and flesh. Love is love, and family affection is also love!

If you aim to get married, you will slowly adapt to it and run in slowly.

Understanding, tolerance, trust, and respect are essential.

Support his or her ideals and career.

If love is not for the purpose of marriage, it is better to end it sooner

Love is something that goes on, not something that goes on.

Material-based, romantic foreshadowing.

What's your problem?

Love is based on mutual understanding, trust and support, and then tolerance.

With these points, your love will definitely go on forever!

It's not easy to love someone. Hard work doesn't always pay off.

But the effort has passed. I'm happy for myself, too.

At least you've worked hard for your love. Fought for. `

The problem solved in one sentence: "Loving you has become a habit".

If you can't go on, it's really over.

Find a reason to deny sadness, and the smile will be bright everywhere!

You say your family expects a lot from you, so can you bear to let them down? For love, go with the flow, after graduation, you can be together, you can't be in a more suitable for you,

The six-year relationship can't be broken, and you can't choose in the contradictions, seeing that you can delay with your boyfriend again and again shows that you still love him very much, maybe it's used to it, you have no other boyfriend, only one, so there is no comparison. Now there is a person who makes you talk speculatively, it may be that his understanding makes you excited, but also because you are currently in a nervous situation with your boyfriend, which causes you to be very tired, so you are a little shaken.

Don't rush to conclusions, follow the development of events, look at your personality is not the active type, you just need to consider a question, what kind of living environment you need, what trend do you want your marriage to go, is it worry-free or have a common language, people are selfish, who do you think you know better? Which feeling can you grasp? Which of them do you think will help you out of some life situations in the first place?

Which one will love you more, you should have an experience, some problems can not be seen only on one side, to look at many aspects, fish and bear's paw can not have both, can not have living conditions and can communicate, choose the most suitable for yourself can make yourself the most worry-free is a wise move.

Let me see that these two men are not very good at the moment, your boyfriend's family conditions may be better than those of ordinary families, but his work ability is not very strong, so if he doesn't make much money, his parents will interfere in many aspects of your life, because it depends on his parents to subsidize some It depends on the face of his parents, but it also depends on whether his parents are reasonable people. What about the colleague who chased you, I don't know how far you talked, did you talk to him about the complicated relationship between you and your boyfriend? If you have talked about it, then it is unknown whether his pursuit is out of love or just deceiving you, you have to observe more, at least have an understanding of your boyfriend, how much do you know about this colleague?

So the conclusion is not to make a choice, just leave it at that, give yourself some time, and wait for their performance before you make a decision on what to do! There are so many men in the world, don't be too limited, marriage is a lifelong thing, be cautious!

Romance is only temporary, when we really enter the marriage is actually very boring, my boyfriend and I have only been together for more than 1 year without the feeling of first love, I asked if he still loves me? He never answered, he said that I was like a relative to him, and he felt empty if he was not there one day. He never brought me home, my mother always urged me to put pressure on me, I quarreled with my boyfriend, because he didn't understand the pressure my family gave me, after a long time, we quarreled more and more, he became more and more annoyed, we both thought about breaking up, but after 3 weeks, I felt that I couldn't do without him to go to him, he seemed to be very reluctant to agree to reconcile, but after reconciliation, we were even more strange, and then one night, we talked openly for a long time, we all cried, I told him, My parents urged me to get married, and he never said anything about taking me home, and when my friend asked if I had ever been to his house, I could only smile reluctantly, because never, I told him, and we decided to break up after the conversation.

The next day, his friend called me strangely and said that he came to pick me up from work at night, and I didn't refuse, because I knew that I cared about him, and I didn't know what to cherish until I lost it.

He came to pick me up, and when he got home, he said he was going to eat at my house this weekend. I was a little embarrassed and finally met his parents. Actually, it's nothing.

Now there are boys with better conditions than him chasing me, with a car, a house, and better looks than him, but I refuse, because my feelings have been dragged down by time!

What I want to tell you is that it has been 6 years, so what can these 3 months be? When the two of them first got together, they were romantic, but after a long time, they simply didn't have it! Give yourself another chance, and give him a chance, isn't it just 3 months?

I think the first thing you think about is if your boyfriend won't take you to see his fuck, or if he means fucking. Feelings still come first, and reality is also important. His mother hasn't even seen you because you're from the countryside?

If that's the case, when you go to see her, show yourself a lot, and know that it's easy to coax someone.

You said that you are attracted to your colleague, you can communicate slowly, how much do you know him? Of course, it can't be said that your colleague won't be better than your boyfriend. You can ask your boyfriend to hurry up and get some results, which is better for you.

Dragging up is not the way to go. If he doesn't accept it, then see how he reacts, so you know what to do. Right.

Maybe your colleague or someone better is still waiting for you.

I read your article carefully

Is it really that realistic? Take three months and bet for six years?

Do you think about this sentence yourself? 6 years Did he give you a promise? Do you feel good with him?

I don't know if you're really stupid or carried away by love, haven't you known him for 6 years? Don't know if he really loves you? Sort this out for yourself.

You also paid for her for 6 years of youth, whether you succeed or not, you are right about him, and you have a clear conscience

This situation is a bit complicated.

Since it is difficult to choose, let it all go

I mean, it's been 6 years since you started with both of you as friends, and then let them both chase you, and you don't care about half a year, give yourself half a year

Half a year to choose to consult more lesbians

It is recommended to give priority to 6 years, after all, it has been so long, and I guess it has become a family relationship

In half a year, it is estimated that he will chase you again strongly, you can still consider it

If he is a dedicated person, will he give up easily after 6 years of relationship? Is he a hypocrite otherwise?

3 months is definitely also like you, you don't deliberately refuse, knowing that you have a boyfriend and still chasing you, it can also test his perseverance and see people's hearts for a long time

My friend, silly girl, don't worry about it, you have to let him know that you have a boyfriend of 6 years, and you have to let your friends of 6 years know that you are still young and have new suitors chasing you

Be a smart girl, you don't want to relax for half a year

Let them be annoyed by the two "difficult people".

Now I can't say who is true or false

Do as I say, the result will not be wrong, and the truth will be clear

I'm afraid you won't be able to hold on to yourself

I hope it can help you, you will be mature and sensible, and you will be happy

Personal advice I hope you think is a good answer

by：gdzz

There is no right or wrong on the road of love, and it is everyone's right to pursue what you want. What a friend says is just to give you some advice, and in the end it's up to you to choose.

Love is not measured by time, or it becomes some kind of transaction. The true meaning of love is 2 people, no one is "right", even if life is good, what can you do. Go with your feelings. Believe in your own choices and take responsibility for your own choices.

Love is a poison It can make you crazy, make you crazy Make you laugh Make you upside down Make you cry and make your heart sad It can also make you liver and intestines broken Love is a glass of fine wine It can make you feel more sunny Nature flowers are more delicate The air is fresher every day Dreams at night are sweeter The calm sea is sometimes choppy, and there are always meteors falling in the quiet night sky The journey of life cannot be full of flowers along the way Life is short for a few autumns, there is no need to stay in the journey of life for too long for a little worry There are always white clouds in the blue sky, There are always waves dancing in the sea, and there are always our friends in this world! Sunshine is always after the wind and rain, please believe that there is a rainbow Life is short, life is wonderful, let your troubles turn into a meteor Let it slide gently in your heart

It's better to divide it, such an unassertive, directionless man is no better with him like this, tell him, I'm going to pursue what I love, bye-bye.