I have very few friends, and I m a little sad, and I don t usually have anyone to talk to

In fact, this kind of psychology is very normal. Prove that you really like him. But I think that since we can become a couple, there is a certain fate.

There are many people who meet and know each other, but there are many people who can be together, so when they can be together, they choose to trust. Maybe you think you trust him very much, but the subconscious is not, otherwise you wouldn't be jealous.

Do you understand? You're jealous. If it's online, if you see him chatting with the woman, you just sit and watch and don't argue with him. It's best to cut some fruit for him to eat, and if he chats with the woman a little astringently, or simply doesn't talk at all, you have to be careful.

But men are like that. You also need to be too sad, and you will be more sad if you focus on him, if you love yourself a little more, pay more attention to yourself, occasionally dress yourself carefully, etc., then you will be much more cheerful. Don't be a frog at the bottom of the well, or you will be miserable when you lose him.

Of course, I bless you)

The first thing is to change yourself and become a little more cheerful! Don't put pressure on yourself, just let everything go naturally, everyone has their own way of living, so friends are heart-to-heart, so that the feelings between friends always exceed interests.

In today's environment, almost everyone is in a similar state. The red circle is a different story.

Personality patterns determine dating styles. Someone knows a lot of people, but in fact there are no particularly good friends, in his heart, the attention, recognition and echo of others is the importance of his personal value. At the same time, he may also believe that as long as he knows enough people, his network will be more stable.

But he may lack the ability to make real and deep connections with others.

To truly connect with others, it takes a person to open up and show their true self to others. But for some people, especially those who have been traumatized inside, it can mean danger or pain for them.

When people are in pain, they instinctively activate their own defense mechanisms, and the lively social interaction is a defense against the pain of not being able to truly connect with others. Wearing such a defensive mask for a long time, the heart under the mask may become more and more empty, painful, and even subtly change the perception of life and others.

I feel like I'm good to get along with. From the first sentence, the problem was identified.

First of all, you don't know your own shortcomings, or rather, you don't understand your bad points. Everyone has something bad about it, and their own feelings are different from how others feel about you. Therefore, you can regularly self-reflect and discover, find out what others think of you like, so as to adjust yourself, of course, you don't have to deliberately change in order to cater to others, after all, you are for your own life.

The second question, there are few friends, for the concept of friends, everyone understands differently, some people you see that he has a lot of friends, but there are actually only a few sincere friends, making friends is more about quality, not number.

Make friends and make friends, so if you want to have more friends, you may have to start to change, and be honest with the people you want to associate with, you will naturally gain your friendship

If you don't take the initiative, how can we have a story?

If you don't take the initiative, you won't wave enough! Have fun.

The definition of a friend is too broad and there are too few intimate friends.

Well, making friends is also an art?

Since it's not a disliked temper, it may be that you are more introverted. If you want to make friends, you have to take the initiative and smile more, because people are mutual, care more, pay attention to others, show them your friendliness (remember to take the initiative, but don't go too far, don't let others think that you are pestering others to the point that you are inferior) then others will also be friendly to you. If you want to have a deeper relationship, you have to find a topic to talk about, find what you have in common, so that you can be considered friends.

But if you want to make friends and be popular, you have to make people think that you are not only gentle, but also funny. Read more positive books or jokes, and pay more attention to other people's interests (basically Chinese, Japanese, Korean and American stars, TV dramas and movies, **, **, games, etc.), so that you can keep up with the topic when others talk about something.

This girl should also try to speak louder and be confident. Because in reality, the popular ones are still cheerful and lively. And I believe that human nature is also very active, and when you really open your heart you will find that you can be a comic yourself ...

There is also to learn to look at people, some people no matter how good you are to her, can not get her sincerity (deep experience), there are many kinds of hidden people with hardware problems, (privately think that life and make friends must be done by virtue of the standards of benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith) Remember not to make friends blindly. And if you are bullied, you must definitely fight back appropriately, and you can't swallow your anger. If you can't, then you should stay away.

And don't treat others too deferentially, seem distant, I have a friend who is very. Personal charisma? Each of her can open her heart, often talk to others about some things in her life, hook up her shoulders, it can be said that she is very simple, pure.

Learn to trust others and be honest with others, and others will be honest with you. Pay more attention and look at other people's behaviors, so that you can have a rough sense of whether you can make friends with her. And even if you are deceived and betrayed, what is there, it can only be said that the person who betrayed you is lower than you, and the character is worse, so that you can see that person clearly, and then you will cut off the relationship.

Introverts are like that.

Don't rush and take your time.

Sooner or later, you will meet a true friend.

He can see your embarrassment and embarrassment and take the initiative to talk to you.