Why do I always talk to others?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because you are not confident enough, afraid that others will see your psychological instability, so always dodge, dare not look into the eyes of the interlocutor, this is no longer a matter of disrespect, but your psychological problem, you need to look into the eyes of others when they speak, listen carefully to what they are saying, and then you think about what you should say, how to say, and then say, not quickly, but to be clear and clear, so that you will slowly develop your own self-confidence.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The eyes are the windows of the soul, you can read a lot of things from the eyes, you don't look at other people's eyes to speak, others think that you are absent-minded or do not pay attention to others or are unwilling and disdainful to talk to others, for a long time, others will not want to pay attention to you. So you have to try to look at others with your eyes, and that's also a form of politeness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personality problems are hard to change, get along well. There is no need to change anything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Develop self-confidence.

    2. I think you can participate in some sports to boost your self-confidence.

    3. Look in the mirror and say to yourself that I am the best.

    That's how I got trained, like you in the past, but now I'm a very good teacher.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Looking at each other's faces is a way, and it stands to reason that you should look at your eyes, but don't you think it's unnatural to look at faces for a long time, and you gradually get used to looking at other people's eyes, and even look at other people's eyes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, this is not for you to stare into his eyes! It's about making eye contact often, but you can also look at other places, just don't look at other places all the time! Got it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People don't stop talking because of the following:

    1.Desire to express: Some people may have a strong desire to express themselves, and they want to express their thoughts, feelings, and opinions through speaking. In this case, speaking can be a catharsis and they need to release their inner emotions and thoughts by speaking.

    2.Lack of self-confidence: Some people may feel upset and nervous due to a lack of self-confidence, and speaking can help them ease this emotion. They may increase their self-confidence by speaking to attract the attention of others in order to gain affirmation and recognition.

    3.Social needs: Some people may want to build social relationships by speaking and enhance their ability to socialize. They may take the initiative to participate in conversations, bring up interesting topics, or connect with others by sharing their own experiences and opinions.

    4.Personal characteristics: Some people may be naturally more talkative, they like to explore a variety of topics and learn about different perspectives and ideas. This trait may be due to factors such as individual differences, cultural background, or personality traits.

    In conclusion, the reasons why people keep talking are varied and may be due to emotional, psychological, social and other factors.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    They should be lonely! Or a lack of attention and a desire to get attention. But it's also very irritating! I don't like chatter, I talk in my ear all the time, it's really uncomfortable!

    I don't like people telling me everything that happened. For example, I have a friend, I met someone today, I feel like he is a simple banquet why is he! What a contradiction!

    Who am I, who is what is wrong with me, obviously what am I doing, haha laughing to death, you know? What's that, what's it, he has to tell me how much he spends, how much I have spent, hahaha, how much money have I made, yes!

    I feel so annoying, so annoying, so annoying......Because the things he shared were not interesting at all, and he told me that the potato had nothing to do with me, and I couldn't help at all, and he had to say something to deny me if he said something to express my opinion, to show that he was right, and to use a questioning tone.

    I hate to quarrel so much, can you stop arguing in my ear? He paused for a moment and argued again......

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you talk too much, it may also be depression in your heart.

    1.People who are overly talkative often need to be released by constantly talking due to anxiety in the inner key.

    2.Chatting with this kind of person just listening to him makes others annoyed. Their speech can be called an "oral attack".

    3.This kind of person expresses aggression by speaking, pouring out their inner pressure on others, and once others do not accept it or temporarily lose a person to vent to, their pressure will accumulate and cause harm to themselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello dear.

    What kind of situation are you in, always feeling like someone is talking to you.

    I always feel like someone is talking to me.

    Hello dear. What kind of situation are you in, always feeling like someone is talking to you.

    When no one is around.

    Or two people around.

    Ok darling. Then, according to your description, the teacher will give you an analysis, and you can see if there is such a situation, okay? Are you stressed? Or maybe you're anxious inside. There's something very scary in my heart.

    I think I'm not stressed, they sometimes say that the world I'm in is not real, and that I can only really return to another real world when I die, and that the environment I'm in now is all fake, and they advise me to hurry back to the real world.

    My dear, I can understand what you are saying. Maybe it's true that you can hear people talking.

    Sometimes no one is talking, and I hear somebody talking, and somebody else happens to be there, and I ask them if anybody hears whom, and he says no.

    Okay, dear, if you encounter this kind of thing in the future, you don't ask anyone else. If you hear it yourself, you hear it yourself. What you hear, what you hear, you put in your heart.

    If you can find someone to communicate with after hearing the content, then you can communicate again. If you can't find someone to talk to, don't say it, don't ask the person next to you, who or who, who has heard anyone talking. Can you understand what the teacher meant?

    Yes, but as soon as the environment is quiet, someone will talk in my head and taunt me a lot.

    Hello dear. When you are quiet, when you hear the voice mocking you in your head. You ignore him. You just have to mind yourself.

    I don't want to hear him continue to say, I'm a little tempted to say it, please ask if I'm sick.

    Hello dear. Let's not talk about whether you are sick or not. Let's start with the way to deal with this problem, shall we?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to feel the same way, but now I have to learn to change myself. I can leave my own thoughts without letting his words.

    His words made me think deeply that it was wrong for me to wronged myself and fulfill others. No wonder I've worked so hard, it's because I'm tired. I've always seen other people in my eyes, but not myself.

    Since my father left, my mother often said to me, you only have one brother, you have to treat him well, I think as long as my mother is happy, let me do anything. My brother didn't go to work for six years, and I did everything in the family. No matter how much I paid, my mother took it for granted, and I had a slight whisper, and in my mother's tears, I compromised again.

    It is all my responsibility for my brother to become dependent.

    My friends have never been disappointed when they ask me to borrow money, and if I am short on money, I will borrow from others to ease their so-called urgent needs. If you go to pay it back by yourself, your monthly salary is 50,000 or 60,000 yuan, but you often only have a few hundred yuan left. The money lent out is rarely recovered.

    No wonder Brother Shanxi said that I am a money-making tool, there is still a reason.

    I usually like some collections, books, paintings, and antiques. When my friend came, I took it away, I wanted to say no, but I was embarrassed, I was afraid that others would say that I was stingy, it turned out that I had been living in the recognition of others.

    Learning to refuse is the beginning of being kind to yourself, and it is also the beginning of truly letting go, the self that is fragile in heart and strong on the surface.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Dear, for you to find out that you feel that you are not talking when talking to others. Is it a disease?

    The answer is: kissing is not a sign of illness, but you may feel physically and mentally exhausted, a little absent-minded, you need more to take a good rest, adjust your schedule.

    When I talk to others, I feel that I am not talking to myself. Is it a disease?

    Dear, for you to find out that when you are talking to others, you don't feel that it is not you who is talking. Is it a disease? The answer is:

    Kissing is not a sign of illness, but maybe you feel physically and mentally exhausted, a little absent-minded, you need more to take a good rest, adjust your work and rest time.

    This may also be due to nervousness, or it may be due to a temporary short circuit in the brain, after the words are spoken, the brain is temporarily blank, and it feels like it is not self-speaking. It's because of the pressure, the spirit has been tense, or there are often very unhappy things, it is easy to lose control of emotions, and Tsaiqing must turn more attention to Qi Qi, watch some happy **, and do some happy things.

    Give a drug. Need to eat.

    Do not understand. The best medicine for kissing is to learn to give yourself more opportunities to relax, and then you can make yourself feel properly relaxed, such as knowing that you can build a slender person to play ball, listen to songs, play chess, etc.

    In short, find your own way to relax<>

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Naturally, if you don't have anything to say, don't say it, otherwise it will have the opposite result.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's also a pleasure to listen to other people, it's better not to talk yet, think clearly about what to say, and then talk nonsense is the most terrible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I do that sometimes, but I always have nothing to say, everyone is in the same age, just be casual!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Speaking is a science, and if you talk more outside, after a long time, you will naturally speak!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, think about what to say and prepare your mind.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Just focus your attention.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because you think, stupid, if you don't want to say it to yourself in your heart, you won't say it to yourself, and I'm also a person who often speaks to myself in my heart, and if you look at what you say, if you have clear consciousness, it's not a big deal.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are many possibilities for talking to yourself:

    1.Before you do something, you are not confident enough and need to have a dialogue in your own mind to rehearse how things will develop.

    2.You want to talk to someone but don't know how to do it, you need to get used to it first. You can only try it yourself.

    3.I can't tell anyone what is on my mind, but I need to vent it. So you can only tell yourself.

    4.Autistic people have no friends to talk to, so they can only talk to themselves!

    The first three are normal activities and do not need to be worried. If you feel like you're autistic, get out and make friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Come on! Brothers! First of all, you can't panic, you have a problem and you should think: what's the big deal? Who in life can not encounter some problems? If there is a problem, find a way to overcome it.

    I'm not a psychology major, so I can only give you some general opinions. I suggest you try to distract yourself and don't panic when you find yourself talking to yourself. Then try to do something that distracts you, do what you love, and I'm sure you'll be able to overcome it after doing it for a while!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A little depressed, don't take things to heart, and get together with friends more It will be better.

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