I m about to get married, my wife lives in an illusory world, what should I do?

Marriage itself is an untitled check, and the day it doesn't come to you will not know what the future holds, and someone once told me that love is a gamble, and marriage is a bet. (It's just that the price paid is sincerity, not falsehood).

She already has a baby, and now it is a key protection object, so, follow her first, (adults say, pregnant women are usually not good, will be easy to get angry, his temporary play of online games may be a good thing for you, numbness will not mess with skin gas can also adjust their mood to be happy, this is a good thing, it is also good for cultivating the baby in the womb) There is, maybe his current thinking is not yet fully adult, and after being a mother, I think she will have a greater change, ( Some things are unwanted, and everything will naturally go well at the moment) Not to mention that the mother is the most selfless person who dedicates her youth to her children, besides, what can be compared to his cute babies in online games, it is necessary to believe in her once in a while, your future wife will be a selfless and great mother, as for the so-called on the Internet"Husband"title, just to prove that he is still an immature woman, after 30 I think, let him call again"Husband"With the mature psychology at that time, I will also feel"Nausea"I think she's going to focus on you and your baby. It's the experience of every woman's life.

Then again, that woman doesn't want to be more youthful, so it's defenseless to let him play for a while, it's been six months, and if you wait another three months, you'll be a mother, you'll be middle-aged, and after that, you'll let go of everything and devote yourself to your harmonious family life and the responsibility of taking care of the baby. I wish you a happy family! I hope your baby is the cutest dragon and phoenix in the world.

Congratulations to my little sister

That's how she changed.

If he loves you, he will care for your children, and they are twins.

But if he only cares about playing games every day.

1。It's not good for the fetus, it's going to be very radiated.

2。She calls someone else's husband in the game, and although she says it's just a game, it's still a little unreasonable for someone who is about to get married

Hey, it's come to this point, and you love her too.

Let's figure it out

But. Man.

Seriously. This kind of woman really isn't very worthwhile

You've been married very early, I guess.

If you want to marry her, I hope you can marry her heart, if not, just leave, you are also an adult, you should know the meaning of the word giving, your child's future needs you to make decisions.

You should have a criterion in mind to choose what to choose, you say.

How are there so many people here.

The game is quite fascinating, try to talk about it, and I'm also 3 stores and haven't slept yet.

Just play a game, you can play with her

Halo, twins. How blessed you are ...

Go with the flow!

I wish you all the best and all your wishes come true.

That's all I can say

You'd better not get married.

Reason 1: I feel that your current relationship is not ruthless and stable, 2She believes in you, but she is willing to trust outsiders. So what's the point of you being with her? It's going to be ruthless in the future.

3.She likes the virtual world and is very reluctant to live in reality, where your communication is troublesome.

4.If you like him fiercely, if she is still like now, or worse, then your life in the future will be worse than death.

If you are born, the second elder will be in trouble. That's life.

Addiction to the online world is indeed a headache, and I have experienced it, and it is indeed a problem, mainly relying on my own willpower to control myself. In order to make the new life healthy, we should try to avoid computer radiation, otherwise it will cause the possibility of fetal malformation, and then it will harm the happiness of the whole family. So as a husband, no matter how much it costs, he also persuades her to communicate more, and at the same time tries her best to show her concern.

If you really can't do it, you can put a virus in the computer or break the hardware in the host, and she won't realize that it is inevitable to sacrifice a little material for the precious and priceless life.

I think the best thing to do is that the doll wants one by one, and then leaves. Because I heard you say that there is no cure, then I simply don't save it.

It's very simple, change your mindset and communicate with her online.

Men only remember love because of romance.

Do you love him, if you love him, try to accept him, try to get him to break bad habits.

If you're getting married because of your children, I advise you to think about it.

It's a lifetime thing.

You have to be responsible for your future and you have to be responsible for your child, and if you don't get along with him in the future, it won't do your child any good, then it's better not to let him be born.

This woman is very big, she has a child, and she doesn't seem to know that she is going to have a husband?? It seems that after giving birth, the children may be handed over to your family to raise. What are you going to do and keep going?

Let it be, if she was addicted to the Internet for a while, she would naturally wake up if she suffered a loss.

- -You slap yourself hard and see if it hurts, or, you go and beat someone up to see if you will be beaten back.

Whether it's Truman's world, or 2012, or books, it's all fiction, and art is higher than reality.

You can breathe, that's just the reality of things. Look at these in order to make yourself cherish what you already have!

When people live, they have desires. What you want to get, you have to give, and what you give is what you really have, whether it's feelings, or material things, energy.

lz, I think you understand this very well, otherwise it wouldn't be said to be in vain, this will break the so-called nothingness, you are afraid of failure, and the bamboo blue water is empty. It won't succeed anyway, so it's better not to do it, and if you don't pay in the first place, then everything is nothing? What you want to do doesn't exist?

Have you ever wondered why you feel doomed? Could it be that you set your goals too high, making you feel powerless?

Let's just say exists, if you really think that the world is nothing, then why do you even ask questions? Because you have a problem that needs to be solved urgently, right? And the question is not substantial, but it satisfies your spiritual needs, and you get your needs met in such a way, how can it be nothingness?

Spiritual needs are also part of people.

Ah, I've seen that too, I watched it in the middle of the night in the dormitory, and I cried so much that I scared my roommates. I was always thinking a lot about it at that time. I think there is a bit of a deviation in your understanding, the world is real, mainly depends on what kind of attitude you choose to face it, you choose illusory, he is illusory; You choose to be real, and he is real.

Didn't Truman finally open the door and go into the real world? Although the real world is cruel and you will encounter incredible things, but is that a person's complete life? Why do you think that everything is done in vain?

People do things to get what they want! Remember, life is not what you are, but what you choose.

If you don't have proof that you're in an illusory world, then you'd better take it seriously.

If you really think you've found proof that the world is illusory, you can learn from Jim Kelly and fight hard!

So no matter what, you have to take the world seriously, not just think about it.

Even if it's illusory, it's your own life, so take it seriously, people will wake up because of a dream, let alone an "illusory" life.

If you live seriously, you will grow.

Everything is your own thought, why do you think it will be in vain if you don't do it? Try to do one thing, do a small thing, and if you succeed, you will have self-confidence and motivation, and then, you will get back on the right track in life.

Maybe you're living in an illusory world, but not alone.

Then I suggest you watch the movie "2012" again, so that you can regain the motivation to survive.

Where's your dad?

If you can, talk to your mom through your dad.

If you are not pregnant, confinement, have special circumstances such as injuries or illnesses, and the elderly need to be taken care of, try not to let the elderly (both elderly) intervene in the lives of young people. The elderly and the young have different life experiences and hold different concepts of life. These differences can coexist peacefully without contact between the two sides; In the case of only occasional contact between the two sides, they can choose temporary compromise or even restraint to ensure that the two sides do not clash; In the case of two parties living together for a long time, unless one party chooses to adapt (this is difficult, this is what the meaning of the easy to change nature is difficult to change) or long-term forbearance, otherwise the conflict will break out sooner or later.

The peaceful life will definitely be shattered.

As far as the landlord's question is concerned, your mother is going to take care of your life, and the landlord can think about whether it is necessary. Have the landlord and his wife reached the point where their lives are in a mess, they can't cook well (they can also eat takeout), dirty clothes are piled up (this can be taken to the laundry), and the room can't be settled? If it's not your mother to take care of you, what do you need to take care of the elderly?

Isn't it good to let the elderly play cards and travel without having anything to do? It also makes sense that the wife of the incumbent wants to live in the world of two, the time in the world of two people will not be too long, and it will be difficult to return to the world of two people when you have children, so cherish it.

To sum up, it is recommended to listen to your wife! There's no need to let mom come.

This bosom friend, your mother is going to take care of our life, and my wife is going to live in a two-person world, what should I do? It is recommended to listen to your wife! There's no need for mom to come to you.

Netizens self-report: Here's the thing, my wife and I work in the magic capital (living together for 5 years, married for 2 years, just bought a house last year, and moved to a new house in October this year), my hometown in Jiangsu. Last year, because I discussed with my wife to have a child, I took it upon myself and told my mother to come and take care of us (my consideration was that there was someone here to take care of our diet and daily life, and we concentrated on work and babymaking).

Since coming, I have been living with me and my wife (rented a two-bedroom house). After coming out, my wife was very respectful to her mother-in-law on the surface, but in private she kept complaining to me about all kinds of discomfort and lack of freedom, and thought about the two-person world. In addition, there is no pregnancy success until now, and everyone is a little impatient.

But my family has never urged us to have children.

The days passed like this, and I moved to a new house in October this year, during which I and my wife went to decorate and buy things. A few days ago, my wife proposed to let my mother-in-law go home and rest for a while after moving, and we decided when to come out. I agreed, and then she found a chance to talk to my mom, and my mom didn't say anything, but kept asking when she would come out again, afraid that we wouldn't have anything to eat.

I'm more confused now, first, it's my own mother after all, and it's hard to talk about the future. The second is that I also think about the two-person world, and I understand my wife's thoughts, especially after moving, after all, it is not easy for us to buy a suite (basically relying on the money we have saved in the past few years, and the family does not ask for much money).

I would like to ask an experienced JRS to teach me how I can deal with it so as not to hurt everyone's feelings.

Finally, I reviewed it, I was selfish when I asked my mother to come out and didn't discuss it with my wife. Because every time I go back to my hometown, I see that they get along well, but I didn't expect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be really a problem.

It is recommended to tell your mother first, she is here waiting for your child to be born is very uncomfortable, and you will come back when you have a child or are about to give birth. Anyway, when your wife's belly is big, I guess you will have to beg your mother to come.

You're right.

In fact, this is true love, you really can't bear her. With this true feeling, it is estimated that you are inseparable. The method is for you, the key is that your sincerity impresses her.

After all, it's all open, and the arrow is ready to fly... I guess this is related to premarital phobia, your partner may think of the situation after marriage if you treat her like this again when you quarrel with her, and you will be sad and afraid of getting married. You admit your mistake to your wife in this matter, dispel her doubts, and you take 100 points to find a job to save your marriage, this post is also a good proof of your sincerity.

We're in a similar situation, and I'm struggling with it. I've been annoyed to death for the past two days, and I'm in trouble. Eh!! Let's think about it, it's just two days, and then I'll try to coax her after she calms down.

You don't go to her or her family and talk to them face to face. Also text short p