We were about to break up before we got married... I m sad!

Updated on society 2024-05-03
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Such a person is more selfish in his heart, and can only consider problems from his own side, regardless of the life or death of others.

    You are his fiancé, the person you will live with in the future, not something that you can dictate at will. You have your parents, they break their hearts for you, and if you marry her, and she even worsens after marriage, then do you still let your elderly parents survive? The most dependent on people in this life is their parents, who pull you up with a handful of and urine, and they don't ask for it or report it.

    You can not be too nice to them, but at least you can let them live in peace.

    If one day, your wife kicks your parents out of the house, and you don't dare to say anything, can you imagine the scene of your parents crying together?

    To get married, you have to find a suitable melon, and the twisted melon is not sweet. The wife can be changed again, and there is only one parent.

    I hope you can communicate well with her, if you can't communicate, breaking up is the best choice, treat your parents well, and let them be relieved that they have not raised you for so many years in vain.

    A little advice, hope

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This may be just a part of your girlfriend, there must be something else you like her, after all, she is not you, you can't understand your feelings, there is a process of adapting to marriage, as a doctor, your future is also bright, you can communicate with your girlfriend, being able to meet is also a kind of fate, why not cherish it? It's just a hurdle, don't doubt your choice, I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about it, marriage can't be ambiguous, brother, that's how I came over, don't get to the end if you can't go back to your home, you can't be filial to your old age, the real society, the real human being. Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your character!! Amount!! In fact, why get married so early! Why not wait?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not registered, it depends on whether you are a man or a woman.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    His family is very bad, since they don't agree, why do you want to say you don't agree, such a selfish and calculating family, ignore him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, I would venture to say that the landlord is really sick with a serious princess.

    I'm afraid it's the family that spoils you, and your boyfriend spoils you, and they all spoil you Secondly, no matter what the prospective mother-in-law says, they are all elders, and you say that you broke up and apologized when you are done.

    To put yourself in another position, if your boyfriend calls your parents, are your parents happy? Are you high or not?

    What do you think of your elders? Employees under the boss? **Come** go.

    Finally, let's assume that if the man's parents notify you of the cancellation of the engagement, as you say.

    Your parents must ask the reason, okay, the man's parents will say that your daughter directly hit me ** and said that she wanted to break up.

    Although it was a misunderstanding, we felt that it was really not appropriate. Think again. Do you hope that is the outcome?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe you think she got married so soon because she never loved you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Seeing that your ex-girlfriend is so happy after breaking up with you, I am very devastated.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She's married, I'm keeping her, I can only send her here, I wanted to let go, but I haven't yet, maybe this is life, take care of yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After all, I have given sincere feelings, and I will definitely miss that good time after parting.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because you feel like she was with someone else when you didn't break up, you feel like she betrayed you, and you should have thought you could get back together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are so many women every day, buddies, don't be sad, go find your love again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This feeling will slowly fade in the future, don't be too entangled, people are divided and combined. Look at the opening point.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because you are lost, you always think that people still love you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because you haven't forgotten her in your heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I still have feelings for her, and I haven't completely let go of it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because you loved her, you must be sad.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to understand that there is no one in this world who will not be able to leave and who will not live. You're all going to get married, and there will be all kinds of friction and conflict between the two of you after marriage, and if you only think about leaving every time you quarrel, with all due respect, even if you get married, you won't be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Break up, let him know that if you talk too much, it will come true.

    If he really begs you, you're wondering if you should forgive.

    If you forgive, you have to talk to him well, this is how you feel every time he mentions the breakup, so that he can talk about it when he has something in the future, and stop talking nonsense.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Everyone has to grow, say goodbye to the past to meet the future, as long as you have feelings for her, don't miss the past, think about the bright future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let's talk to her, if you really can't live together well in the future, it's better not to get married.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You're all getting married, but your girlfriend is always because of it.

    Trouble with you for trivial things, break up, every time is very ruthless, to return, must agree to divide you begged for a long time before stopping, I think if such a thing must not be solved, you get married without any meaning, this is your personality is incompatible, and then your girlfriend is a person who loves to play a little temper, so if things are not communicated well, if you keep making trouble, then you may also divorce after marriage, so you have to think about it calmly, can you accept his temper? If you can accept everything from him, then I am ready to get married, if you have an awkward relationship with you now because of some snacks, you will break up, and you will have to divorce after marriage, you think that divorce has no meaning for two people, so now before you get married, you must deal with things well, so that you will be happy when you get married together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's so similar to yours, I just want to know if you're married to her?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This passage is for you to see

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Meaning: It's impossible to be together anymore! Be a familiar stranger to each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that you hurt him very badly, and it was you who ruined the happiness of the two of you, and it seems that he is determined not to want you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Mainly, what did you do? To be able to endure not seeing is not to love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I still torture myself when I break up, look at the point.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Forget it when it's divided, don't torture it anymore.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He doesn't care about you, so why should you care about him?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What did you do wrong to him, and you didn't even say why, how to solve it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Did you feel that way? From your username.

    Bai came to see that you are a girl who is very nostalgic and difficult to let go of the past, and it is okay to cry.

    The right or bad part of the dao is, after all, a man who impresses you. Maybe it's a man you'll remember for the rest of your life. And you are destined to be a passerby in his life, some things are irreversible, life is full of regrets, sorrows, and joys.

    So don't be so yourself, since you don't want to forget, don't forget, let time decide everything, maybe one day, you will realize something, and at that time, looking back, there will be a lot of unexpected gains. In the end, I still have to say a sincere word to you, if you really love him, then let it go, leave in style, and leave yourself a beautiful dream. I wish you to come out soon, life is like that.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I've been thinking about it for three years since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend.

    Du him, zhi but I have my own pride, dao never took the initiative to contact him, especially when he came to me before he got married.

    Genus, but self-esteem does not allow me to bow my head, I will not give the same person the right to hurt me twice, in the fourth year I figured it out, and suddenly planned to accept a new relationship to try, but I met my second boyfriend, when I first dated it was just a good feeling, but I don't like him at all, from time to time I will compare them, the second one is more intimate than him, in short, I am much better than the first, and slowly I realized that I wasted the best three years for an unworthy person.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You don't love him but you are unwilling, and others who you think are bad are treasures. This is a psychological problem, just self-adjust.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Yes. Especially when everyone else is getting married. You're still single. Saying too much will only make you sad. Let's take a look ...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You should bless him, it's also a kind of ai

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Don't be too stingy and be a generous woman. Loving someone is meant to bless him.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Think about it, calm down for a few days, and then the two of you come out together and have a good chat, and you can have a good chat about all the questions you ask.

    After all, getting married is something that has been prepared for a long time.

    If it doesn't work, then talk to your mom and talk about your own ideas.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When people are angry, they always do things that don't go through their brains. You and your object are the same. The first thing you have to do is calm down, and think about whether it's worth it for you and your partner to come this far and give up everything before for the sake of a curtain thing?

    Then think about whether you really want to marry her and live with her for the rest of your life. Both sides need to calm down.

    And when a woman is angry, it's really a pathology. Waiting for you to find her, and then you look for it and hang up or refuse to meet, but in your heart I still want you to go to her. This kind of contradiction should appear more after marriage, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, the so-called trivial things.

    Think more and calm down for a few more days.

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