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I think that a man's lack of status at home is not a lack of status, it is a manifestation of loving his wife and maintaining family harmony, but the premise is that the wife must also be considerate of her husband's intentions, and cannot be blindly tough. But if you don't have a status outside, you can't do it, and the wife has to give face to the man, because the man cares about it very much. So I should make this clear to my wife.

It depends on what it is, if it's a good thing and it doesn't have status, it doesn't matter, but don't be that extreme, if it's that extreme, I recommend divorce, because after all, divorce is not a big deal now.

The so-called man has no status must be the opinion of the elderly, if the husband and wife are true love, there is no status or status, as long as the two understand each other, the man does not feel wronged, and the elders do not think about the young people.

What is no status? Do you feel like you have no status when you're in love doing this for her? Or did you change your mind because you got married?

I think the husband and wife should be considerate of each other, and if there is a problem, the two people should communicate well, if there is something that really hurts your self-esteem, bring it up, and the two of them will solve it together, not your wife, the problem still needs you and your wife to work hard to solve.

This is the prison sentence for having a wife.

Status is earned by enriching oneself.

Is it love or habitual oppression?

That is, they just like each other now, and they are not officially in love, if two people are not willing to establish a relationship now, then the confession may not be accepted by the other party, in this case, you are not willing to fall in love now, so why confess? However, such a relationship is easy for others to rob each other, so it can only be a relationship of ordinary friends, if you want to really have each other, you must confess, if you don't want to be bound by love, then there is no need to confess.

You're too shy to know what to say.

I just like it like this, I don't need to express silent love.

Maybe we just got together, and it's better after a long time.

Either you take the initiative, or wait for him to take the initiative.

There is a famous saying that if you want to get to know a person, you should travel with him, which means that you will find opportunities to get along more, and you will naturally understand from the bits and pieces of life.

Too little time alone and too little care about each other You have to communicate with your heart and open your heart so that you can get the love of the other person.

Just put your heart into it, what others say may not work As for the quarrel, forget it, do you think it's a quarrel between husband and wife.

People are not understood, it is about whether you can tolerate the mistakes that he makes.

Quarreling is the best way to communicate and understand, but if you control it, you can't break up until you quarrel.

Since the two of them are together, they have to talk more about their hearts. Don't be shy, because there are many things that need to be faced together, and all the bits and pieces of the experience must be told to each other, and then solve the problem together.

First of all: don't mention your conflict with your parents for the time being! When they don't get angry so much, you let your boyfriend behave better, and you praise him more in front of your parents (hints) and show that he is good.

Such as: honest, reliable, responsible, righteous, considerate, loyal and deep love for you. Move them with sincerity!

See your parents more, please your parents, make your parents happy, and take your parents to experience new things!

And then: you inadvertently show them that your boyfriend is always sexual, and that he makes you feel.

And finally: you have a heart-to-heart talk with them, showing that you really want to be together, and you really love him! I hope my parents can make it happen!

Addendum: It's best to get your boyfriend to show his heart and love for you in front of your parents. (This paragraph should be very sincere).

Parents may think that because of his low education, they think that he can't make much money and can't bring you a better life, and I think if you can show his self-motivation in front of your parents.

In addition, it may be because he has a lower education than you, and I am afraid that boys will not treat you well because of pressure in the future.

It is recommended that LZ tell his family like this: education is not important, the important thing is to look at character.

It doesn't matter if you have a good character or a low level of education.

Also, it's important to see how the other person treats the family. That is, whether it is filial piety or not.

Be flexible, don't be dead-eyed.

Again, whether it is suitable or not, you have to feel it yourself. Parents are secondary. It's not that I'm not filial, who will I spend my life with? As long as the other party is filial to his parents and is a man, then it will be fine.

Don't work hard. Enough is enough.

Now there are those with high academic qualifications, and there are those with low character.

Just have a mind and have your own unique opinions.

Now you may not feel anything.

But when you get married, you will feel it.

If you have different educational backgrounds, you don't have a common language.

If you are educated in a different environment, your personality will be different.

Parents are from the past.

Experience is definitely richer than ours.

Good people have.

Don't break your parents' hearts.

Let's talk about it, academic qualifications are not the most important thing, what they value is your quality of life in the future! After all, I hope your future life will be better, I'm afraid that you will marry badly and have to endure hardship! My parents also said the same, but I am relatively independent, and my parents have no choice, so I have done a long time of ideological work to convince them that no matter what, the most important thing is to be good for themselves, after all, they will live by themselves in the future!

It depends on what your boyfriend does. And his thoughts, as well as how you do ideological work on your parents, if he really loves you, he will definitely try to do anything for you, now this social education is very important, but real practical experience is also very important, some people are very educated (nerd), but it is not good to really use practical work experience. Now this society needs brains, and it is not omnipotent if you have an education, and the acquired effort is the most important.

The sun is always after the wind and rain! My boyfriend and I have had a similar experience to you. I also got along for more than 2 years before I saw my parents, and my parents didn't agree, but my boyfriend was very good to me, we were very happy together, and there were so many things to say every day.

Although my boyfriend's family is not very wealthy, but I think the most important thing is that 2 people get together together, even if there is more money and the two of them can't get together, they will break up in the end, people live for a lifetime, happiness is the most indispensable, plain is true...

As long as you truly love each other, it's very simple, persistence is victory! I'm a winner! Ha ha.

It depends on how you feel, how the other person is, if your relationship is there, why should you contradict it? Of course, you do your job as a parent

Love is based on feelings, marriage is based on the words of the matchmaker of the parents, if it is just love, you can compete with your parents to the end, if you consider the marriage event, you should really think about your own problems.

Is it good to go to school, why do you all like to go to school, I hate going to school, learn a bunch of nonsense knowledge, it's better to find a few good friends to be happy every day, don't hesitate because of your parents' words, love has to rely on yourself, take him to meet your parents! Hmmm, hate!

Then let's continue to take the test, such as night college or something.

It's not suitable for a scattered life sooner or later, you ask what to do, in fact, you know that you are going to disperse, but you are reluctant to 4 points of affection and feel sorry for each other, you dream of 4 points and be realistic for a while, work and family are not suitable, then you can only break up, the pain will definitely fade, go and roll around to find who is suitable for you.

Break up, you have to let him get his own love, you don't need to get him to love someone, your girlfriend will understand, you have to tell him honestly, you don't have feelings for him anymore, let him get his own Prince Charming.

If it doesn't fit, fly away, but think it through. Because there is no chance of regret.

Being in love is a happy thing, and if two people are not happy together every day, why should they be together? Love has nothing to do with time. Think about it, four years is not too long compared to a lifetime.

Falling in love is a run-in process... Two strangers together, never understand that understanding and cognition is a long process, because the living environment, habits, etc., ,,, two will be more or less different.

And the most important thing in love is a process of mutual adaptation!

I heard that the two can't be in love for more than 4 years, 4 years, it's family affection, the other party's shortcomings are well understood, such a relationship will be fragile, I talked about it for 4 years, divided, I don't understand when the feelings close to family affection become so fragile.

Let your family know that you love each other. The family disagrees, but they are afraid that you will not be happy, and happiness is in your own hands.

Work hard, and parents are moved by affection, and know with reason!

Make a promise to your parents, give them enough trust, and then have a preconceived idea to let the parents see your BF or GF strengths, the first impression is very important, and then there must be a strong condition to prove that the person you chose is the right person, even if it is not the right one, it is also a potential stock.

Fourteen years old... What are your current statuses? High School Junior High School??

Now that my parents don't agree, I can understand it, and my suggestion is that there is no right or wrong in love, and that both parties who love each other should encourage and support each other, and should not waste future happiness for the sake of immediate happiness. In fact, my parents didn't agree because they were afraid of you.

Now that we know why we don't agree, let's take countermeasures. If the two of you can encourage each other to learn together, how can your parents disagree? You can use your grades to convince your family.

Moreover, as a man, loving her should not only be spiritual love, but also should be able to give her material happiness when she grows up in the future, so you must also study hard now!! Love, maybe material is vulgar, but material is a promise from a man to a woman!! Remember.

In fact, don't think too much, think long-term, and go with the flow. Sometimes Heaven always gives us some tests. As long as it is true love, it will definitely make people moved.

Don't be so pessimistic, isn't this a good opportunity to verify your true love? As long as you are destined, sooner or later you will be together.

Answer: First of all, we must find out the real reasons for the parents' opposition, and then empathize with hard work and sincerity to solve it; In addition, love is a matter of two people, we must have the same attitude and face it together, as long as two people love each other enough and actively maintain this relationship together, I believe there will be a good result. ”

The main reason for the question is that my parents think that my boyfriend and I are compatible, he is still a year younger than me, and my parents think that the place where my boyfriend's house is in poor conditions in all aspects, and think that I am still young, so I don't want to focus on falling in love.

Answer: If your parents disagree with each other's looks, background, work, etc., then in the end, it really depends on your own feelings. After all, your parents definitely don't know your lover better than you, whether he has potential, whether he is really good to you, this is the criterion.

The question was asked because my parents didn't understand, and my boyfriend's parents hadn't seen it, so my parents rejected my boyfriend by one vote and said that he was not stable enough to think and that he was still a child.

Asked a question but it has already been said, and the parents do not agree.

I've already said this, but I can't hide for a while.

It is impossible to never see your parents.

However, my parents insisted on breaking up with me, otherwise my parents threatened me that they would never care about me again.

Answer: If parents support a relationship, then it must be the icing on the cake. But if parents oppose a relationship, it is best to carefully understand whether the points of parental opposition are reasonable, after all, many times the authorities are confused, and we need others to give opinions.

Parents don't agree with their own reasons, and they are also for our good! Some of the parents' opinions are still worth referring to, after all, their life experience is richer than ours, but sometimes they will inevitably have prejudice against their children's love partners, so they have to do everything possible to let him (her) try their best to show their excellence, so that parents gradually understand!

There must be a willingness to disagree. Parents must be thinking about the happiness of their children for the rest of their lives. If you think you can live a happy life. Even if you drink cold water every day, you are willing. No one can stop you.

If you like her, you have to think about her, don't ruin you and her because of a momentary impulse, and be a boy with a sense of responsibility.

If you want something to go, let it go, and if she comes back, it's always yours, otherwise it doesn't belong to you.

It's to let you be together, what flowers and fruits can you bloom, your girlfriend is only 14, how old are you14? 15？Being together at such a young age, okay, when I was 16 years old, I went to high school, and when I saw better, can you persevere?

19 years old to college, there is a better one, can you hold on? 23 years old to work, there is a better one, can you persevere? If you can hold on, can she?

At such a young age, the mind is not perfect, and it is not strong, can it be reasonably solved when encountering difficulties? With so many unknown emotional dangers at risk and you are exhausted, how much energy do you have left to work hard for your future? Is it worth it to suffer your whole life if you are greedy for a moment now?

Think it through. There is also a legal liability for having sex with people under the age of 14.