I m 22, some parents let their children call me auntie, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It shows that you are not mature enough. In fact, it doesn't matter what it's called, as long as it conforms to reality. Don't care too much about this kind of small things, you should focus on the main business, establish a big pattern, and be big-minded.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're already an adult. Although you still feel that you are a child, it is difficult to accept the reality that you are a generation older than your child.

    If you are over 18 years old, you are an adult. It's normal to think that when you were under 18 years old and went to college, you were called uncle by a child who was 12 or 3 years old.

    All you have to do now is face up to reality and get used to it. Otherwise, when you reach the age of 80, you will still feel like a little girl.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Make you 22 years old, children call you aunt, you don't look good, you feel quite unaccustomed, in fact, you are an adult, children call you aunt, it should be very normal, slowly accept it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At what age do you do something, it means that you won't be annoyed if you don't call your aunt. Calling you auntie is also to make the child show respect to you, what's so annoying that you are when you are 15, 16. After all, it's 22.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I work in pediatrics and am often called aunty by some high school students under the age of 18, so I just want to say that I can get used to it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, it's quite normal, because you've really grown up, I'm 20 years old now, and occasionally a kid calls me Auntie.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to make your age official, it is normal for a child to call you aunt at the age of 22, and some parents let their children call you aunt is a manifestation of politeness, an honorific title for you, and you don't have to be unhappy because of this.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't matter, you're an adult in front of children.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you can tell the children to call you sister. Or you can open it yourself. Although the aunt is old. But what about the older generation. Then you should call that kind of parent sister.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you have a long mouth, you can't control others, you can only have a better attitude, laugh it off, and call you an aunt, not necessarily you are really an aunt, and after many years, you will really be an aunt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Kiss. This also depends on the situation. If someone you don't know calls you Auntie, it's a child, don't worry about him, children are generally not sensible. You can praise him: the child is really polite, but oh you can't call aunt, you have to call sister.

    Kiss. This also has to be divided into resistant situations. If someone you don't know calls you Auntie, it's a child, don't worry about Changji Hu and him, children are generally not sensible. You can praise him: the child is really polite, but oh you can't call aunt, you have to call sister.

    2. If it's a girl we don't know, call you Auntie, look at the age, if it's really small, like a primary school student, we shouldn't have heard it, if the age is about the same age as us, or maybe even a little older than us, this Qingying still calls us Auntie, then this girl must be a little bit psychologically problematic, we must talk to her calmly, chat quietly with her, and tell her in a very normal tone, you are really good at maintenance, I can't tell you how old you are. Broad branches.

    3. If a boy we don't know calls you aunt, junior high school student, elementary school student, he may really have a higher EQ or lower emotional intelligence, if it is a boy who looks older than us in Chunwu and regrets being stupid, and he still calls us aunt, just call him son.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The solution to this situation is as follows:1. Try to communicate. Talk to your child about what you would like to be called sister or other address, be as kind and friendly as possible, and explain to your child how you would like to be called.

    2. Be a good example. No matter what the little ones call you, you can show your affinity and patience. Be a caring sister or aunt, let the child feel your warmth and care in contact, and over time, the child will naturally understand how to call you.

    3. Don't mind too much. Age and salutation do not necessarily have a definite relationship, and children are sometimes not very sensitive to salutation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Good evening: Son, aunt quarrel anyway. Aunties are all elders, what can't be solved, and they can't quarrel!

    But since it's all noisy, all you have to do now is to apologize sincerely! I regret seeing you Cong Rang, in fact, maybe your aunt has forgiven you a long time ago, but it is to save face, so I didn't reconcile with you, you can give her a step down! But don't be so impulsive next time!

    If you are impulsive, you will regret it afterwards. No matter what happens in the future, the first thing to do is to be calm. Don't be emotional.

    Once you have emotions, you can make the problem worse. Here's my approximate suggestion. Hope it helps.

    Can you tell the teacher about the dilemma and what is the reason for the quarrel?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Dear, my son needs to apologize! Because no matter what.

    Aunties are all elders, what can't be solved! But since it's all noisy, all you have to do now is to apologize sincerely! Since you regret that you want to solve the problem, you will apologize, in fact, maybe your aunt has forgiven you a long time ago, but it is to save face, so you don't reconcile with you, you can give her a step down!

    Don't be so impulsive next time!

    Today, my son quarreled with the accommodation aunt, so how can I decide.

    Dear, my son needs to apologize! Because no matter what. Aunties are all elders, what can't be solved!

    But since you have quarreled in front of the potato, what you have to do now is to apologize sincerely! Since you regret that you want to solve the problem, you will apologize early, in fact, maybe your aunt has already forgiven you, but it is to save face, so you didn't reconcile with you, you can give her a step down! Don't be so impulsive next time!

    The most important thing between people is respect, more communication can solve many problems, as long as you apologize with sincerity, I believe that the other party will accept the apology and forgive the son, after all, the elders also have to take care of face, and it will not be difficult to get along with the child! [Slightly dismissive].

    I have been friends with my son and aunt for many years, and today I got angry and said let me take the child away, will I accept the apology?

    Yes, as long as your son's attitude is sincere enough, how can the elders be cautious about not forgiving? Go and let her son apologize sincerely, in fact, no matter how angry the other party is, it is only in the mood, she needs to be respected, especially if the younger generation of the clan touches the child, the unfilial respect for her hurts her self-esteem, as long as you give her respect at this point, she will definitely forgive the child! <>

    This matter is not a big deal, but her face can't get by, and she must make a fuss from giving her enough face!

    The main thing is that the son is a bit rebellious.

    Adolescent children will have a rebellious mentality, but society has its own rules, no one will be irresponsible because the child is young, and not necessarily everyone will understand, parents have the responsibility to let the child understand not to touch the rules because of their own emotions, if they touch it will bear the consequences, the child makes a mistake and is responsible for the lack of adults, communicate well with the aunt, they are all parents, how can there be unreasonable, only let the other party feel your sincerity to get understanding!

    In addition, you should also care more about understanding the child, why he is rebellious, and his emotions are ......

    Good teacher, got it! Thank you.

    It doesn't matter, don't be in a hurry to criticize him when you encounter problems in the future, be more understanding and caring, don't blame but communicate more, understand more about his brother's needs, let him envy Li to be loved, instead of commanding and coercing, rebellion will disappear, because no one will <> against those who love him and help him

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is the germination of children's love, you don't think that children are love, no, this is just a kind of love, it can be regarded as mother's love compensation.

    The child's behavior can explain several things: First, the aunt is very good at pleasing the child.

    The second is that the child's mother rarely talks to the child like that.

    In other words, the child has encountered a relatively new way of expressing love.

    There is no need to worry for the time being, as long as you pay a little attention to avoid seeing them, and slowly the child's attention will be diverted.

    Don't use words to speak, the more you speak, the deeper you go. Parents just do it quietly. Also, think about whether motherhood should learn from that aunt.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It seems that you usually have few opportunities to be close to your children, maybe you are busy. Children rely on whoever they have the most contact with is the one they rely on the most. Therefore, in order to give children a little more fatherly and maternal love, it is recommended that your parents spend more time with their children, so that their children can have a healthy and happy childhood.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's normal for such a young child! Dogs and cats like to contact, as long as the child follows him, he looks very well-behaved, and it's okay.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Have a good talk with the child, the love that the child talks about is not the love that adults understand. Children can lack maternal love, can't say that the child is wrong, you can tell the child, you like that aunt, that aunt also likes it, the aunt is an adult, will take good care of herself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is normal. You are close to him. He'll be casual with you. I'm getting acquainted. Kick your nose in the face. Hehe. It's good. That's where he accepts you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Forehead... Adolescence... All kinds of curiosities.

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