My girlfriend won t allow me to send money to my family to build a house, what should I do?

If you really talk about it for seven years, you know each other very well, and some things are just on the surface, if she really loves you, it is impossible for you to let go of you for 50,000: you have to explain all the difficulties in the family to her. Try to sit down and communicate well, I am also a filial person like you, I suggest you still send it back, if she wants to break up, it means that your love is not even worth 50,000 after seven years.

All I can say is that you are very cowardly, can a girlfriend compare to your parents? What's more, it's such a girlfriend, who is only allowed to give her family, can't help your family, she purely just wants to grasp your person, not love you,

Then ask your girlfriend, do you have a conscience and no filial piety?

If you really love her, you should convince her.

Then you ask her, if you didn't send 80,000 yuan to her parents, what would she think in her heart?

Think about it from the standpoint of both sides. Don't be too selfish.

Selfishness doesn't end well.

There is no filial piety at all, and the girl is too incomprehensible, right?

He....?...Target? If it's me, I'll break up immediately, and if you don't pay for your family, you can die if you say something ugly....

Such an unfilial woman! If she doesn't respect your parents, she doesn't respect you! Educate your girlfriend well.

It is recommended that you discuss it with your girlfriend.

Send it secretly to avoid conflict with your wife. But keep in mind that filial piety comes first.

What else is there to do with such a person?

A lot of times you have to understand his situation, but you can tell him.

What you think about how much you want her and how much you care about her, but none of this is more important than your efforts now.

It's time! We're the same age! You can find a partner! But it can't cost a lot of money! One or two thousand is enough! But look for someone to live! Not for the money!

It's not a problem for you to find a rural simple one.

If you don't have a strong economic strength and material foundation, it's not easy to find it when you're older.

There is a Spring Festival once a year, and when it is time to go home for reunion, I have to go home. Because there are parents at home who raised you and are looking forward to your return.

Not necessarily if you don't have money, you can't talk about girlfriends, after all, not all women love to spend money, you can also find a suitable one for you, just take your time and don't have too much pressure.

Many people are facing this problem and there is no solution.

It's okay to have no money and no women, and going home for the New Year is a big deal.

Haha so I never go home, peace of mind, there are a lot of people in the same way.

If you have money or not, go home for the New Year is a traditional festival of the Chinese nation!

Those who fancy it should be bravely chased.

Don't write her name, just take 20,000 yuan and write her name, this attention is the attention of her parents, don't write it, otherwise there will be conflicts in the future, your family will be unlucky, there are too many examples of such status. Remember. Take it for granted, thank you.

The possibility of a successful loan is not very likely, the salary is only 2,000, and you have no house or car, so you need at least rent and living expenses, there is not much money left in a month, and if you don't eat or drink for a year, it will only be more than 20,000 or 30,000, and you still have to repay the principal and interest, and the bank will not lend you.

It's hard to take care of the long poverty, if it was me, I would have divided it a long time ago, depending on what you think, it doesn't matter if you think your economic strength can be, if you can't divide it, although they make up for the lack of money in their family, who will have more spare money, the younger brother at home is not married, the more money the better, there are so many sisters, the sophistication is enough for you to spend, get married and have children or something, plus you have bought a house, people agree that you have a relationship is not to see how you can agree to have a little money, the family must say that anyway, the Lord is together, use his, send back your money, The family must be trying to find a reason to ask for money, unless you get married quickly, it's not too embarrassing, and it will slowly give it back, after all, you also have a family, like my wife's marriage is not the same as giving, quarreled many times, and said confidently that he will give it after decades, and his family knows it after the quarrel, and he won't want it in the future, but my wife will give it, so now I'm not official, as long as you don't overdo it, I have no opinion on the New Year's holidays, she also knows that she has a family, mine is just a reference, see if you think money is important, (depending on your economic strength) or girlfriend is important, (depth of feelings), it was like this before marriage, but there are also good girls, living together and starting to plan for their future, so that my friend's girlfriend, I haven't met, the mobile phone is so tired of playing so much, you can adopt it.

Is it stretched, when it is squeezed dry, it will be broken, after all, you still have two houses in the city, and you don't think about your small family at all. You should talk about it and tell her everything you asked, and see the results.

1.You are a single parent. 2.

You are still more filial. At least know that mother's money is not easy to come by. 3.

I don't think I'm thinking about you at all. Quite a selfish person, if you really love her and want to communicate with her more, you can talk frankly about how you will live in the future. 4.

First of all, you have to face the money if you have a baby. If you continue to give money to your family like this. Who will pay for the child's milk powder.

Home is not one's own. You ask your own son what to do if he doesn't have money for milk powder. 5.

Besides, if you are a single parent, why should you be kind to your mother. If you're like this. I don't think there's any need to be together.

Nothing interesting. You don't care about your own mother. What's the use of having such a woman!

6.Your girlfriend should also give money to the family, but shouldn't there be a degree? Earn 5 thousand give 6 thousand.

I don't know if she didn't take you seriously at all, or if she didn't have a heart. If you can talk about it, let's talk about it once. Open the knot.

Communication is important!

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It is recommended that you send a good door to their home It is the door of the house It should be fashionable and avant-garde It is estimated that it can be done within 3000 yuan Maybe not 3000 It depends on how you choose The quality must be good This is a big gift Don't let them be embarrassed if they break down in a year or two Ship it over in a truck Style.

As for being a coolie, you can also do a favor, don't do it all the time, let them see you like a migrant worker, do it for a few days, and then say hello to her parents, say that there is an urgent matter in the unit, and say that it is serious, so that they feel that you are a busy person in your career and have a future for development.

Just buy some cigarettes, tea, alcohol (depending on each other's hobbies), fruits, and so on. You're here to help. If you live in a new house, you will send some plaques or ink landscape paintings.

If you are not married, you will give silver when you get married, and if you are not married, you will be a coolie.

Tobacco and alcohol are required. Go and work for a few more days.

1: Go and help with the work.

2: Take the money. 3: Send your girlfriend something that your parents like (applicable).

4: Send them a surprise.

Run errands, do some work.

Of course, it's best to have some money to have.

How old are you? How long has the girlfriend been dating? Have you seen the woman's family?

Then get married, what are you hesitating about Treat it correctly It's hard to say if you don't have money As long as your girlfriend is willing to help you, there shouldn't be too many problems, the key is whether your girlfriend is firm enough for your feelings, as long as the two are concentric, no.

It's funny, people send their own money, but it's not your money. As a man, if you want to give her happiness, you can use your money to bring her everything, do you expect other people's women to stick it to you? Otherwise, it's your business for people to use their own money?

He sent his wages home and didn't let you give him your wages and let him into the house.

This is a normal problem, it's good that she didn't ask you for money back, everyone should pay for the family, don't think too much, it would be better to help her if you can.

If someone has something at home, it's good if they don't ask you for money, and if you don't want others to send money home, break up, save you and drag others down!

I didn't ask you for money ......Shouldn't the parents of the family raise such a big family, shouldn't they do something to the family? Besides, people haven't married you yet, you think ...... wayIf you want me to say that a man like you doesn't want to.

Speechless. What's wrong with people sending money home, and they don't ask you for money.

Why didn't you complain about it, don't have a girl in the future.

Dude, I'm going through the same thing as you.

If two people want to talk about marriage, they have to talk about it together, whether the family is in financial difficulties, if she is an only child, it is a natural thing to send money to the family to honor her parents, anyway, if we rural girls are not only children, they will not send money to the family, anyway, girls have no inheritance rights.

She is a loving and righteous person, and if her birthday matches, she will sacrifice her life to accompany the gentleman.