Everyone, would you like to give me a little advice, thank you

Do you think you've waited so hard to get results? When he tells you very clearly that he is not going to get divorced, you have to think about what you should do. I can understand your feelings, he is your first love, and you still believe in fairy tales with love and water.

But the question is, is it worth waiting for a man who can't give you marriage, or can't give you a commitment? Seriously, he doesn't belong to you, we have to go with the flow of love, but also have some restraints, after all, you are outside the moral limit, and few people can understand you. Therefore, it is recommended that you withdraw when you are not particularly deep, for his sake and for yourself.

In fact, after a long time, you will find that he is not suitable for you, and the reason why you love him is nothing more than that you can find the feeling of being pampered in him, and this can be obtained in any man who loves you, so why stick to him! Some things, since they will end without a problem, it is better to keep a good memory, first love is beautiful, don't let your first love be full of pain, then it will be difficult for you to fall in love with someone again. Besides, if you think about it from a different angle, if his wife knows, what will you do, what will he do?

His home may be gone, then his love for you is likely to turn into a hate, why bother? Take a step back, for you, and for him, to find your own happiness and be a truly happy woman!

It's time to meet, to find your own marriage, your own true happiness, he has clearly replied to you that he can't give you a marriage, there is no need to spend his youth for him, unless you would rather guard him like this for the rest of your life, never be right, morally unworkable... Although it will be painful, it is only a matter of time, and when this pain is over, it will only be a passing moment to look back.

First of all, think about whether you have any results with him, if you don't even feel sure of yourself, think about it, although this is true love and love very much, although life is very long, if you keep waiting, it will be more difficult to leave, but how many years to wait, maybe let go of him, to accept another person who is willing to wait for you, it is not necessarily less than you love now, not happier than now.

Between you, this relationship is very sincere, but what will others think? will think that you are a bad woman who destroys other people's families, and the one you love will also pay the price.

If he gives you a promise to give you happiness, it is better to think about yourself as soon as possible, plan for your future, this is the way to go in the future, maybe it is difficult to forget him, but you will definitely forget, right?

So start living for yourself from now on

If he really loves you, he should give you a stable love, so that you no longer hesitate, so that you have a sense of security, then you will not come here to ask others for help, since he can't give you, he can't refuse others to give you, girl, be realistic, be responsible for yourself, and also responsible for the parents who gave birth to you and raised you.

See this face, he won't be yours forever. And, even if he marries you, there will be a younger and more beautiful woman to replace you.

You probably don't think so when you're older. The more time you spend together, the more you will ask for it, and sooner or later you will ask for marriage with him, so let's let it go. /

If he loves you, he will marry you, if he doesn't divorce his wife, it means that he can't marry you, don't make the three of you suffer, don't give a man an excuse to take possession of the land, think about the woman in her family who paid for her, can you bear it? If he can betray him, his wife will betray you.

Leave, you're still young, there's no need for it.

There is no sin in love, but love is sensible Sooner or later you will both have to separate Leave, bury him in the depths of your heart, time will dilute everything

Let it go

Do you think this man is a person?

If he doesn't divorce in a short period of time and has an affair with you, it can be said that he didn't think about it, for such a long time, cheating on his wife and dominating you at the same time, do you say he is morally a decent person? Can such a person be entrusted with life? You are luckier than his wife, and his wife is pitiful.

Even the pain is the same as yours, and true love is hard to give up.

Don't force yourself to make a decision right away, you can't do it.

Constantly give yourself confidence and constantly strengthen your sense of responsibility.

What is there to be reluctant to give?

You always have to face reality, right?

To live is to be realistic, I think you should go and meet.

It's also a chance to get rid of it!

Finally, I advise you that this total love is immoral!

And be realistic!

Don't you already have the answer in mind?

Don't hesitate.

Won't you and him be miserable?

Now that he has chosen home.

Then you should support him.

You also deserve a man who is all yours.

Let's start a new life.

Then aren't you the legendary "second wife"!

Of course you're going home to get married and have children!

He won't marry you! There is no legal protection! You don't have a hukou after you have children! Can't read!

Who will raise your parents? Who will support you when you are old?

Fool! Repent!

Amitabha! Sins, sins, sins!

Why do you have to ask about this kind of thing?

Either he's bad or you're bad.

Or which of his ladies do you think is bad?

Or to put it a little more literarily and emphasize, you think none of the three of you are wrong.

So many third parties in this world are exculpating themselves in this way.

I have nothing to say.

Hello for yourself.

Extramarital affair kills someone, leave him immediately!!

Do you know that you are destroying a family!!

Is that true of your parents???

Wake up.

If you really want to get rid of it, then I will sacrifice it, and I will take your pain and joy and shoot at me.

I have to say that I am cheap.

If you don't make up your mind to leave him, you will definitely harm yourself for the rest of your life.

Find your own happiness, how much youth do you have to squander.

Let's just say it's impossible between you.

Cut. One word, cheap, don't blame me for being direct.

I really don't want to say it.

The happiness rate of this relationship is very small.