Can you please give me a little confidence in life?

I'm the same as you, but I haven't lost confidence in life, and you're just like me, short of money. I don't know how old you are, I'm 22 years old this year, and I always feel so tired of life and so confused about the future. Take your time, don't be discouraged, no one is easy to succeed, just like the boss of the company I work for now, but also from Santana 2000 slowly to today's Mercedes-Benz, he started to run a lot of work to do by himself, there is no bitterness where the sweetness comes, I have never envied those who drive luxury cars on the road, everyone's money is not blown by the wind, they are all earned by themselves, and they can't enjoy the same enjoyment as others if they haven't worked hard.

I also want to open a store, I want to open a **, slowly raise money, and in the end I also want to open a company. Set a goal for yourself, spend less if you can't save money, and take it one step at a time. I now have a girlfriend who is about to get married, and I don't have a house, a car, and I am worried, but I am still full of confidence in the future, I believe that God is fair, as long as I work hard, I will definitely reap the rewards!

I hope you too, don't lose faith in life, life will not give you confidence, you have to rely on yourself. From the actual situation, first set the easiest goal to achieve, such as opening a small shop, slowly make some money, and then borrow some when the time is almost there, there are always difficulties, but there are no difficulties that cannot be solved, the main thing is to cheer up first, look at what you said, I can guess that you are very negative now, this will not work, it will only get worse and worse, more and more unconfident, you must cheer up, work hard. I don't know where to go now, it's always difficult at the beginning, but don't be afraid, you can't get out step by step!

It is recommended that you buy some inspirational books now, and you will be very inspired after reading them. I mainly want to say a little bit, to cheer up, to have confidence, what you want to do can not be fantasized, to have practical actions, God will not favor anyone, may be very tired in the future, but I think when we do it, the heart will always be full, maybe after doing it will fail, but don't be afraid, there is no certain success in this world, failure can come again! As long as we are confident in ourselves and confident in life, the future will get better and better step by step!

These are also the things I want to say to myself, I've always wanted to find someone to talk to, but I can't find it, and I can say that I want to find someone to talk to, although I don't know you. It's not for you that I typed these words for your 100 points. Work hard, you can't always be negative, the road has always been under your feet, look at how you walked, I hope these words can help you somewhat, although it is not very profound, I am not highly educated.

I like to listen to other people's stories, and I am happy and sad about other people's experiences; Watching others interpret every ups and downs of life, like listening to a story in a book, I can't help but feel happy when I hear it"below", so it seems that there is a not-so-good habit, gossip. became a seemingly profound erudite. Speaking of others, the so-called celebrities always want to interject a few words, can they be themselves?

A few days ago, an eldest sister said a word,"Just live your own life, why do you care so much? "I don't know why I suddenly woke up the person in my dream like a word, although I had thought of it before, but I was still shocked. Isn't it?

How are you doing? Everyone is the master of life, the protagonist of their own life, what is the purpose of looking at others everywhere? The same life, the same decades, is it destined to be so?

Don't give up on your own, hold on to what you need to grasp. On the road of life, no one should be a spectator, and when you stop, there will be countless overtakers around you! Can a combative lifer endure the former parallelist to become a transcendent?!

Give yourself a little confidence and give your life a little color!

It is recommended that you become a short-term volunteer to help those who are worse than you. For example, orphanages, homes for the elderly, village schools, etc. 3 days is enough. You will notice an immediate change in your attitude towards life.

I think it's better to change positively than to sigh negatively.

People have sex and love, but the key is to have a positioning, without a positioning, you will not have the goal of life, you still have motivation.

Watch more inspirational and comedy books, movies.

travel outside; Make some new friends.

Recommend "Facing the Sea, Spring Blossoms".

1. Positive identification with oneself You can't just see your own shortcomings, and the inferiority complex is largely generated in contrast. Therefore, while actively identifying with yourself, you must not regard others as perfect. People with strong low self-esteem do not have this awareness:

He's human too. Since they are"people", all have personal strengths and weaknesses. Accepting oneself means accepting one's weaknesses and strengths.

2. Build self-confidence To build self-confidence, you must first learn to say: no!. Low self-esteem is a manifestation of psychological weakness.

The point is that their self-confidence is not strong, and they dare not show their thoughts to the outside. As a result, he followed the crowd in action, had no opinions, and had no courage, resulting in psychological depression and depression. Psychologists believe that

If you think you're stupid, you're stupid. If you think you are elegant, you are elegant ... Therefore, low self-esteem can be overcome.

But to defeat it, you have to rely on yourself. Success says: God helps those who are self-reliant!

3. Positive Autosuggestion Learn to say in your heart: I can do it too! Ask yourself:

It's the same person, he can do it, I can do it. He can do it, and so can I. 4. Actively interact with others A healthy mind is not something that comes up with it.

Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, mental activity turns inward, towards himself. The scope and content of mental activities are limited to a certain extent, and coupled with the limitations of understanding, mental activities often go to extremes.

It is dangerous for a person's psychology not to be understood by others, even if it is felt by oneself"How ahead of its time"。When you associate with a healthy person, your heart will be purified, your heart will be open, and your experience will be open. The shadow of the psyche gradually dissolves during the activity.

To believe that everything will be fine, many things are not absolute, only relative, think that you can do anything, only realize that through your own efforts, you will be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you;

No matter what we do, we have to face life, escape is not necessarily hidden, facing is not necessarily the most uncomfortable, loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, getting is not necessarily long, loss is not necessarily no more, turning around is not necessarily the weakest, don't rush to say that there is no choice, don't think that the world is only right and wrong, there is more than one answer to many things, so we have a way to go, you can find a reason to be sad, you can also find a reason to be happy! People who know how to relax find relaxation, people who know how to forget find freedom, people who know how to care find friends, the cold weather is not cold, the heart is cold, and there is love in the heart to not be lonely! Life is short, and everything is fleeting.

Life is accidental, and death is inevitable. Why bother asking questions about some unnecessary people, things, feelings, and hearts? What if you get it?

What if you can't get it? Life is an accident, death is an inevitability! The process of living, this is life!

Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step is no regrets, life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once! To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence, just think about yourself, give yourself an explanation, give your parents, friends, and the one you love the most!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset, giggle and draw a perfect picture of your life! The meaning of life is to find the meaning of life: 1) Everyone has their own meaning of life.

Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat.

Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can't even experience these things by themselves, enjoy, 2) Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day". 3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. In a word: people want to live a wonderful life, come on!

Wake up, bored and depressed young swallows! The times and the motherland are calling: I hope you will become an eagle soaring in the blue sky!

Did you hear that? My Dear Friend: Hello!

You know, the root cause of all mental illness is a lack of self-confidence; Mental illness, in fact, can also be said to be a contest between faith and evil thoughts, in which evil thoughts temporarily gain the upper hand. The fundamental rule for dealing with mental illness is to give the patient self-confidence. What is the gospel for people with mental illness in China?

After more than 20 years of hard research, I have finally explored and created a new system of fear, depression, low self-esteem, fear, loneliness and other mental illness methods, using this method, I can easily enter your brain, professional ** psychologist or psychologist for long-term ** severe patients with no obvious effect. However, you need to queue up 5 days in advance to make an appointment before you can receive a notice, please do not contact me for mild patients, so as not to waste your time with me. Patients with mental illness are divided into two categories: mild and severe, and there are two types of R schemes.

The first option is: self-practice**. For details, you can see my Sina blog, which has a "panacea formula for solving psychological problems" Read carefully, taste carefully, as long as you understand, without spending a penny, you can also solve it.

Each case** lasts from 40 minutes to 1 hour. Here, I sincerely thank you from the bottom of my heart for your care, love and support! Once again, I wish you and your family and friends happiness and happiness in this life!

Good luck! Thank you! How to get in touch:

Send your medical records and QQ number to my email, and after I receive the letter for help, I will sort it out as soon as possible, analyze the condition, and then notify you of the specified time, and finally complete. Thank you! Sincerely, Regards!

Ms. Xue Liying, General Manager of Luohe Seeds of Excellence in Life, Henan, China.

Whatever comes your way in life, believe that you can not flinch.

My faith is that as long as I am willing to do it, I am not afraid that I will not be able to do it. People are resilient.

My hope is to be able to live a free, happy, and fulfilling life that I like, and I want to help the people around me as much as possible. Bring happiness to the people around you.

To be honest, the confidence comes from my parents, and the hope of life is that the whole family is healthy and happy, and there is nothing else to ask for!

In order to live better tomorrow, better than the people around you.

A belief in my heart. It's what sustains me. But this belief does not seem to be true.

Confidence is born I will be extraordinary, hope is family and friends, life responsibility, happy life, I think not ordinary life but five thousand, the year is finally my turn to play.

The faith in my life is that I don't want to give up now, because to give up is to lose everything I have now. The hope of my life is that my future is bright and the road is tortuous.

If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be anxious!

Melancholy days require composure.

Believe it, happy days will come.

The heart is always yearning for the future;

Now it's often melancholy.

Everything is instantaneous, everything will pass;

And what has passed will become a kind nostalgia.

Firm faith, live well, it won't be long before you can go back to the past, maybe after a while, when you forget him, you think back to the current decadence, you will feel ridiculous.