Can you give me a suggestion, friends? As for my friends, please give me some advice.

People are very strange, when they are old, they think about their first husband (wife), not the person who stays in front of the bed and even has children together after more than ten years. Therefore, no matter how good other men are, they are worthless to you, because he is another woman in his heart, and your husband is not very good, but he is a priceless treasure to you, and you have taken root in his heart. And so do you.

Mark thinks more about that man's badness.

Think more about your husband's goodness.

You know the truth.

Think about it from the position of the man's wife and the position of her husband.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

If you continue to be with your husband, your husband will always be good to you; If you abandon your husband, then you are a person with a "criminal record", no matter what others think of you, that man will also remember that you will give up your family for other men, and it will be difficult to say to you in a few years, not to mention that he himself is also that kind of person. It's up to you whether you want to live a stable life or not.

You feel good about him, isn't it because you have a good first impression of him, and he keeps coming to you? You're also a mother, why are you still like a little girl. Can't you see this trick, he is consciously destroying your family, making you contradictory and embarrassing you, so every time he looks for you, he is harassing you, and it is only when you show his feelings to him that he kicks his nose in the face.

But you also have to deal with it, in case your husband and that man have a conflict over you, then you will be in big trouble.

I don't think you should be sorry for your husband, although your husband is not as good as him, but don't you also say that many people chase you, and you can't get in.

If you love your husband so much, don't make him sad or sad.

Restrain yourself, or you just say to the boy who is chasing you, I really won't like you, you give up, stop pestering me, I'm very uncomfortable.

You'll find half the better than me.

You're so cheap. Think about the consequences, he can do this to you, and he can do this to the second one, think about yourself, don't steal chickens, don't lose rice.

Category: Annoyance.

Problem description: I don't have many friends, almost all of my friends around me are classmates when I was studying, I don't have a job unit, just a small businessman, and my life circle is relatively small, but it doesn't matter, doesn't it mean that the most real friends are left in middle school? Yes, several of our classmates have gotten along well for many years, both men and women, but my circle has always seemed to be different from others, always like to compare, and secretly compare, until now, maybe this is the result of the legacy, but we are still good friends, and now we are all married, and each has its own family. On the contrary, I feel very lonely, as if I have lost a lot, some friends have left the city to develop in other places, and there is not much contact, sometimes I want to play ** as before to ask female classmates to come out and talk, now I am embarrassed, because they are all married, it is still not good for a long time, what about some friends?

It's just that the family conditions are not very good, and they are reluctant to take the initiative to approach me, and then there is the problem of borrowing money, which makes me distressed. A lot of times I call ** friends out to drink tea and chat, but they don't say that there is something wrong with this, someone told me that it is different to get married, you always invite them out to play, they are embarrassed, their conditions are different, they have to support their families, you always invite people, don't invite you back, and embarrassed, please, the living expenses are a little less, 30 years old, as if friends are leaving me one by one, annoying, no friends days, now I want to leave the city.

Analysis: In fact, there are a lot of helplessness in real life.

I'm sure a lot of people have that like you.

But there's nothing to be sad about.

You still have your lover.

Your family.

Change the center of gravity to another place.

You'll be happy too.

You change cities.

Nothing can be changed.

Maybe there's a little more unfamiliarity with another city.

Hope you are happy.

If someone asks us for advice, we are generally more willing to share our experience with others, but in the process of expression, sometimes our suggestions and the other party's questions are not answered, causing the person who wants to get advice to be confused. Therefore, when giving advice to the other party, we must be clear about what kind of advice the other party needs and the problem that the other party wants to solve. Generally, the other party chooses you to give him advice, and you must have one aspect that is more prominent, such as you are knowledgeable and experienced; Your skill in dealing with problems is high; You've dealt with something similar before or seen someone else deal with something similar; You are able to provide solutions to problems that he did not expect; You can provide important information about other aspects of the problem; You can stimulate his creativity; You can check if his approach is appropriate, etc.

Before you make a suggestion to the other party, you should clarify the goal he hopes to achieve, and make suggestions for this goal, so that you will not talk in general terms and have no purpose. Before you make a suggestion, you must guide the other party to say the essence of all the problems and other difficulties, many people in the advice to others, always singing a one-man show by themselves, do not give the other party any opportunity to interject, often they say a lot, but not the other party needs to know, the process of making suggestions is the process of communication between the two sides, definitely not the process of your personal report.

Therefore, it is very necessary to communicate with the other person in a timely manner about each of your views, and in the process of making suggestions, you should not direct the other person's point of view in your direction, unless you can definitely prove the correctness of your point of view. Your role is more to help him analyze the causes of the problem and all the possible ways to solve the problem, analyze the pros and cons of the method, and then expect him to make a final decision. After understanding the essence of the problem, when you start to make suggestions, it is best to adopt a straightforward strategy and focus on the focus of the problem, and you can ignore the details, because in many cases, the other party's description of the details will always be unclear or hidden, and discussing the details will only be a waste of time, and you will be thankless.

When citing examples to prove your point, remember not to exaggerate or minimize the example because you want to prove your wisdom, because what the other person wants to hear is your approach to the problem, and you don't need to describe the problem itself too much. This is most applicable when you are giving advice to juniors as an elder, and it also applies to telling others your success story or success story.

Finally, when you tell the other person about your suggestion, you don't expect the other person to accept your suggestion, because you have absolutely no right to force the other person to accept any suggestion you make, the other party has the final decision, he must be responsible for himself, and you are not responsible for his actions. If you get angry or take any hostile measures because the other person has not followed your advice, you will only make others turn away from you.

To be an elder brother is to be tolerant. Maybe you have a higher education than him, maybe you have more social experience than him, but you are only 2 years older than your brother, and at the current age of 23, he has a villain mentality.

First: You have to think about how you communicate with your brother. Second: When his friend is there, have you noticed your brother's face?

Thirdly, there are some things that cannot be managed between brothers. Fourth: Your brother's words about no longer being brothers with you are just angry words. As long as you have something, I can say that he will be the first to come out and help you.