My boyfriend commitment problem, what if my boyfriend keeps not keeping his promises?

Two people need to be considerate of each other when they are together, and there are some things he does wrong, but sometimes men will have the same situation: they promise that they are very familiar or close to people, and you should know this, and sometimes you don't care about the things that promise yourself, because you know in your heart that even if you don't fulfill your promise, you should understand, and it is this kind of thinking that has led to your current situation, so he doesn't care about what he promised you, and he thinks you are really his own person

And if you think about it, he might be conflicted

I promised you, I promised my classmates, first of all, I will wronged my own people, this is the common nature of our people, if you really can't adapt to it, then you should tell him BB, after all, your way of life is different, and you can't be happy in the future

However, the Buddha said: 500 times of looking back in the previous life in exchange for a hand-holding in this life In the vast number of beings, the two of you met Is it very fateful You should not give up a lifetime of happiness for a little shortcoming It is not worth it Eldest sister Think about it Don't break up easily Breaking up is not only sad but also physically and mentally exhausted

The above is a little suggestion from the younger brother I hope my sister will be cautious and still can't think of it + me q245557857

I sincerely wish you to grow old together for a lifetime

This kind of thing is normal, I can't say that men are like this, but there are such things, in fact, if you want to open some, don't hope so much, when he promises you something, you just laugh if you don't do it, and if you do it, there will be a surprise, why not be happy, be kind to yourself, don't be so serious, it will be more comfortable.

A man who truly loves you will not make promises easily because he wants to make himself.

Become the most talkative man in your heart, and just want to give you the most reliable and safe happiness.

Maybe it's the first time he didn't do it, you didn't get angry, and you didn't say anything, and it seemed normal later.

Maybe he's an irresponsible person.

Such a dulicitous and good-for-nothing man is not worth it!

Let's have a good talk with him.

There were some things he couldn't do anything about.

But he shouldn't promise you.

This requires a case-by-case analysis. Find out why your boyfriend can't keep your promises. There are two possibilities if the promised thing is not done:

1. Can do it but don't want to do it, or forget to do it. 2. What you can't do, what is beyond your ability, what you do your best, but you can't do it.

Let's talk about the first type first: integrity is the foundation of people, words must be done, and actions must be fruitful, which is called "faith"! Credible is the only way to follow, don't let your boyfriend develop untrustworthy behavior, and over time he will become an untrustworthy person!

You can put forward some simple, relatively easy to implement requirements first, and slowly let him feel that he can do it! Then slowly entrust the heavy responsibility to test your boyfriend's ability and determination!

Let's talk about the second type: Of course, sometimes girls are easy to be coquettish and make some unreasonable demands, such as asking for the moon in the sky... It may indeed be beyond the boyfriend's ability, this is another matter. Of course, if the boy has a heart, he can also resolve it in a romantic way.

Hope it helps!

1. In fact, there is no momentary relationship at all, I thought it was a sudden outbreak, but in fact, these things are accumulated over time, and then they broke out in an instant. Before, it was because I was hesitant, but if I really made it, I wouldn't turn back. We have paid a lot, but there has been no result, and after a long time, our hearts will be cold, and we will become ice, and we will not open it and do not want to melt it again.

In the eyes of outsiders, it may be a sudden thing, but only we know that the heart is not cold for a day. Second, the biggest death heart for his boyfriend may be that he always likes to make empty checks, and he is such a big person, and talking is not a word. I always like to say, what will happen when I have money, or that I must give you something.

It's a fantasy story that I made up a lot of stories, maybe because I'm still relatively young, so it's really easy to be deceived, because I feel like I love this person, so I'm willing to believe everything about him. Three, but after a long time, these are just a false promise, and I don't mean that he must give me anything, or take me to a more expensive place to eat, but you can't take my heart as a joke. Those words do sound like a very beautiful blue, but once people have full expectations, it is difficult to accept the feeling of disappointment and disappointment.

It seems to be your promise of love for me, but it will never come true, and it is better to have no commitment from the beginning.