Just because you want to live separately doesn t mean you want to break up

I would like to make two points:

1. The flower of love must be watered and cared for frequently, so that the flowers can be fragrant all seasons. Understanding and trust are the two wings of love. From your account, you can know that he worked very hard, tired after a day, and when he came home, he didn't want to move, and he didn't pay much attention to hygiene, which is understandable.

You love cleanliness, which is not a problem in itself, it can even be said to be a plus. What do you do when you have a conflict on this issue? That is communication, of course, you have to choose a good time, when he is in a better mood, and when he is more relaxed, communicate with him sincerely, put forward the problem, and discuss the solution together, this is not better than having differences of opinion with each other but burying it in the bottom of your heart?

Then two people have been together for a long time, because they are too familiar with each other, so they will gradually lose their freshness, which is normal, as the saying goes, "there is no scenery in familiar places" and "no matter how beautiful the face is, it will be numb after looking at it for a long time". It can be seen that you like romance and pursue an innocent life. Maybe it's better for two people to leave for a while and think about some issues calmly.

2. With so many kind people giving you advice, I think you'll find an opportunity to say thank you.

May you all get back to your first love!!

I've only lived for eight months, so it's not as serious as you.

But I'm afraid of being like you, so it's not good to live together.

I think you'd better move out. Talk to him well. If you don't agree, break up.

I feel like my life is meaningless if I continue like this.

But living for so long is a hard decision.

I was going to separate, but I couldn't. Two days. I'll be out for two days and I'll be back, and I think I'm useless, so I hope you succeed, like you said, a woman who doesn't want to find someone who loves herself and has a little money.

At least life, at least happiness, gave you.

I'm really like you. It's just that I told myself that I couldn't give him too many years, because a woman's youth waits for no one.

You should be twenty-five, so you should get out of him.

It's better to be bitter now than to be bitter all the time. I told myself.

I haven't done it now, and I hope you can do it. It's true.

You must leave, otherwise you will really suffer for the rest of your life.

Think about what kind of life you want to live and how realistic this society is now. He can't give you the life you want.

I have also had what you said, I can't stand the current peace, the petty bourgeois romance in my bones makes me can't see the hope of the future for the life without money now, so I am left to complain and be picky, and ignore it every day. I really don't feel love, one day we had a big fight, I smashed something, the mood at that time was the same as turning the sky, and then we calmed down, giving us the feeling, although I am not married now, there is nothing like marriage for a long time, and there is only family affection, We are very willful about family affection, thinking that everything can be tolerated, but the current situation is already very unpleasant, and we are reluctant to break up.

That's what we do, every month, we are when we are re-acquainted with each other, no matter how busy and tired we have to go out to play and relax, each buy a surprise small gift to give each other, hug for 1 minute every day, say words of thanks, say what you want to say, and usually pay attention to words, now our relationship is similar to the first 2 years of acquaintance, you can try! Here's our way, you can try it too!

How so? After 5 years of relationship, you've gotten used to everything about each other, and maybe the novelty doesn't exist anymore, and you're tired of living with him, in other words, you're tired of being with him.

I don't know why people get tired of it!! Maybe there's nothing more to life than this!!

But have you ever thought about it? If one day, you're married, and after many years, you're tired of it, what do you do? To know what it means to be "content", to know what it is to know what it really is...

If you get what you want, please cherish it!! Always compare people to mandarin ducks I think people are qualified to compare with mandarin ducks? Man is always an unfaithful animal.

I'm being arbitrary! I don't know why you are, maybe you're right!

I really don't understand what love is! Love is never fresh all the time! Unless you never talk about it, I'm talking a mess! But I want you to understand and know what you want!!

A small itch in four years, a big itch in seven years!

I really don't understand why you don't think he's dirty after so many years, why are you suddenly so disgusted!

Money, step by step, everyone earns it together before it is firm!

A few years ago, I met a young couple, both men and women are absolutely handsome, but their salaries are really low, working in that kind of big city, they have to rent a house, support their parents, and finally raise their children!

I haven't seen them go to a big supermarket, and I haven't seen them willing to buy delicious food, but the man takes good care of his wife, maybe because he has no money but his wife is willing to live with him.

So the boy kept working, and in one position, I had changed jobs several times, and he continued to work hard, because as soon as he stopped, there was no one to manage the family's expenses!

After so many years, I am still moved, what money is not money, they are called life like that.

The two of them have to improve together.

It's to make progress together, so that you don't feel the way you do about him.

It feels like yours is sluggish.

Maybe you should talk to him and talk to him.

If he doesn't buy you something, you won't beat him, a man has a rough heart! Or maybe he's saving money to buy a house.

I think it's good to be separated, and it's also a beauty to have a distance. You love him a lot, but he probably has more of his heart on work. There is also a kind of free and easy person, you can do whatever you want, and sleep when you get home.

I don't think if you will have any opinions, and I don't know how you feel, sometimes if you tell him this, he will know better how to do a good job.

Hopefully, after you separate, you will become more mature than before, and your relationship will be more stable than before.

But if you talk to him like that, he'll inevitably think wildly. The more you explain, the more he thinks in the worst ways.

Men are always like this, and they don't know how to cherish until they lose. But by the time he knew, it had already returned.

Not going.

You first try to separate for a while, see how both parties feel, if you miss him very much or he misses you very much after separation, then you still have a play.

When you talk to him, don't say it's a breakup, just say give each other more space.

Hehe, after being separated for a period of time, you may find that you need each other very much, sometimes people will become irrational because of something, so you need to think quietly, then you will be happier, hehe bless you.

The seven-year itch has arrived early.

I've heard of a workaround. It's about adding some changes in your life and adding freshness.

For example, to travel.

For example, buy some new furniture or change your apartment.

In short, it is to get to know each other again.

The country is easy to change, the temperament is difficult to change, and the difficulty of moving does not mean that it cannot be moved, and strive to change him and himself.

Oh, baby.

To be honest, I think you've subconsciously thought about breaking up with him.

Maybe I'm speaking too directly.

I hope you don't mind.

Be patient with him, communication is key.

Everyone has shortcomings.

If you love someone, you have to say it, talk to her.

A man has to have a certain amount of freedom when it comes to love, and you can't spoil him too much. My girlfriend is also like you, asking to be with me every day, and I like to think about my problems alone, that doesn't mean I don't love her. You have to give him a certain amount of freedom, don't overthink him too much, he doesn't want to share his pressure with you.

He is very clear, even if he tells you that you are helpless against him, you don't care about his own affairs in his heart, you have to remember that no matter how good the two people are, they must have their own private space, which cannot be shared with anyone. If you're going to get involved in this part of the content, he'll find you annoying and too tired to live with you. But then again, if you give him freedom, it should also be within the scope of your permission, and if the scope is too large, you may really break up, and it is not good for him to feel that you are dragging him down.

Personally, if you allow, don't say too much to each other, don't ask him too much. Silently cook for him (or cook at school). Care about his actions.

One thing, can assure you that he loves you. Because he loves you so much that he has to consider you when looking for a job. When he takes your factors into account, he will have a feeling of not being able to let go, and thus feel like he is being dragged down by you.

In short, in such times you have to pay attention: give him freedom, but not excessively, care about him, but only in action, too many words will disgust him!

Good luck! I went to dinner just now, and then I continued: You are right, separate and calm = break up. At this time, you don't have to say anything, action is more important than everything, and give him a little space to move freely while being by his side.

Summary. Good afternoon, dear, it seems that you have some entanglements, you want to break up and don't want to break up, why do you want to break up? I don't want to break up, I should still have something nostalgicWhat happened between those two people?

Good afternoon, dear, it seems that you have some entanglements, you want to break up and don't want to break up, why do you want to break up Is the two of you not getting along? I don't want to break up, I should still have something nostalgicWhat happened between those two people?

I'm pregnant now, I want to, but he doesn't want it, we quarreled because of this, I want Shi Xiaolu to break up because he is very indifferent, and I don't want to break up with Shen Xun because I really can't be together.

Pregnant, it's really not easy to ask Heng to do, you can see that you are very entangled, a Heng Heng must be very sad, then at this time your boyfriend is very indifferent to you, so did you find him to sit down and have a good chat?Since the two of them get along very well and have an orange baby, why can't they make some plans for the future?

It can be seen that your boyfriend's indifferent attitude now You care very much about it, so you have the idea of breaking up, but Ran Sen is Pi Shengmu You don't know what to do with the child in your belly, right?

We fell in love when we were in junior high school, but we were forced to separate for various reasons, but after more than 10 years, we are together again.

After so long, it is indeed not easy to be together, and each other is also very heavy in each other's hearts, otherwise how can Hui Chun be together after ten years after separation, then the boyfriend's attitude is to think before thinking about not wanting this child, right?

Then you haven't thought carefully about the reason why your boyfriend insists on not wanting this child, and whether you want this child because he doesn't want to ruin the manuscript and ask for this child, you are sad, or because he doesn't care enough about you, you are more sad Yu Xiao?

1. Understand your chain beating mood, but no one can live without anyone, I hope you can be strong, only self-reliant and self-reliant people will be more attractive;

2. You have been dating for more than a year, and now that you have become like this, you don't know why, it is indeed incredible. You keep saying you love him, but do you really love him? What did you do for him?

3. There must be a reason why he is so resolute. The so-called freezing three feet is not a day's cold, you should know the problem in your heart. If you want to redeem him, you have to be completely honest with yourself.

4. Since you're about to collapse, is there nothing you can do but ** text message? Can't you go to Peng Naxiang to find him? If you want to solve the problem, you must be face-to-face, you must be face-to-face!

Why did he break up with you, you should find the root cause of the breakup, and then prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem.

If you really love him, don't give up. Who will? Hang on! I've got you covered! Believe me, he's in trouble.

Why did he break up with you?

Then you should find the reason for the breakup before making a series of moves, so as not to really know what to do, I think it is very difficult to do.