Sometimes, what is it like to suddenly quiet down in a dormitory that is already very active?

Before, it was clear that everyone was very happy to talk about it, but it was just because some people, or few people, said some wrong things, mentioned some things that should not be mentioned, and then it led to a sudden dull atmosphere, which is not to say that people suddenly have a bad relationship, but that there is no way to continue this topic, and it will be very embarrassing to talk about it again, that is, people must pay attention to the problem of the scale of this topic when chatting, that is, some topics can be talked about casually, but some things cannot be talked about, especially about. If these problems in the private life of the superintendent are not brought up by others, please do not take the initiative to discuss the private life of the other party too much, or ask about the private life of the other party, which is a kind of disrespect for others and will cause strong disgust to others.

Maybe because someone said something excessive, making everyone feel that they can't or can't continue, and then suddenly there is silence, creating an awkward atmosphere. In fact, it may not be because of how inappropriate or annoying what he said, but just a sudden sensitivity or speechlessness. At this time, it is best to start a new topic quickly, in fact, everyone can still have a good time after the silence.

But this requires the speaker's degree.

I feel inexplicably embarrassed. The atmosphere was suddenly quiet.

When you first enter university, it is easy to get into this situation.

Everyone chatted and suddenly there was no topic, and then it was very embarrassing.

Later, after everyone got acquainted, the dormitory was basically noisy all the time.

The only way to sleep is to be quiet.

If the busy dormitory suddenly becomes quiet, I wonder if someone has come to check on the post at this time, or if the counselor has come, and at this time, I usually stick my head out and go out to see if there is no one, and then shout loudly to continue the conversation between us.

It was a fun experience, and I felt as if our hearts were becoming more and more connected, like a kind of divine synchronization.

We were talking about it for a long time, but all of a sudden we all stopped, and then suddenly there was a teaser, stood up and shouted, don't make noise, don't make noise, so I stood up and added, we don't have anyone to talk at this time?!

I have also experienced that everyone is very happy to chat, but there is such a person who is very unpleasant to talk because of his own emotions, and the whole bedroom is very quiet in an instant, which affects the feelings of the dormitory very much, and will make the atmosphere very embarrassing.

It may be that someone speaks and causes public outrage, but they are embarrassed to refute it, so if no one speaks, it will suddenly be quiet. Or maybe two people have an argument, one of them speaks more bluntly and pokes the other party's sore spot, and this person doesn't want to waste his tongue with him, so the other people also feel embarrassed.

I've had this experience, and I'm having fun, but just because I'm in a bad mood or say something that no one likes to hear, the dormitory immediately quiets down. At this time, the atmosphere will be a little awkward, and it will also ruin everyone's good mood.