I love her, but it won t work out, what am I going to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, you need to determine whether there will really be no results, because many times it is just that you think that there will be no results, you may be worried that she will not like you, or you may be worried that she will be too demanding of you in the future and you will not be able to satisfy her, or you may be worried that her parents will not approve of you being together, these cannot be used as reasons for you to have no results, because you have not even taken the first step, how can you be sure that there will be no results? <>

    But if you've already tried your best, you really won't get results, then I advise you to leave her as soon as possible. As the saying goes, long pain is better than short pain. If there is no result, why continue to entangle?

    The longer we are together, the more dependent we are on each other, and in the end, we can only hurt deeply. Maybe you want to leave each other something to remember, but have you ever thought about how sad it will make you remember it later? Why bother.

    Love is fulfillment, and if you love her, and you can't end up in the end, then the best you can do is to fulfill her. Make her happy and give her to a guy who is really good to her, so that you can leave her with peace of mind, because there is someone who loves her as much as you protect her. <>

    Life is to constantly experience all kinds of tastes, whether it is love or hate, all of them will turn into a wisp of green smoke after a few decades, and dissipate in time with the wind. So, whether you have results or not, and no matter how you do it, it doesn't make a difference in the end. Time is a powerful thing, it can ** all emotions, a few years later, when you think of your former relationship, you may only get a faint smile, thinking that you were really stupid at the beginning, and then looking at your children and grandchildren, in fact, without her, you are doing well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Now that you know that there will be no results, then give up, there is a kind of love called letting go, putting her in the bottom of your heart, and accompanying her as a friend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How can two people just get along and know that you have no results, don't always think in a bad direction when you encounter things, just be optimistic, as long as you can get along well and treat each other well, I believe you will have results.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is said, "Five hundred times of looking back in the past life in exchange for passing by in this life." "Since you love her, then be brave to chase her, don't ask the result, leave no regrets, and cherish the fate between you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How do you know there won't be a chance? Are you trying? You have to earn more money, and when you have money, you will have results, very realistically.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Each of us wants to be able to have a happy and fulfilling love. But in the process of pursuing love, you will find that in many cases your efforts can not achieve satisfactory results, although you love each other with your heart, but you don't feel that she loves you very much. At this time, it is necessary to carefully analyze the reasons and take targeted measures to deal with them.

    Specifically, at this time, you should fully show your love to the other party, strive to impress the other party's heart, change the way of communication, let the other party fully understand yourself, and understand the other party's true thoughts, and respond according to the actual situation.

    1. You should first fully show your love and strive to touch the other person's heart.

    When you love each other with your heart but don't feel that the other person loves you, you should first show your love more fully and strive to touch the other person's heart. ......The reason why I say this is because although I loved each other very much before, I may not have fully expressed it in terms of specific words and deeds, so that the other party did not feel my love, and of course I need to try to impress the other party by showing my love more fully.

    2. You should change the way you interact and let the other party understand you more fully.

    When you don't feel that the other person loves you very much, you should change the way you interact with the other person so that the other person can understand you more fully. ......This is because the way I had a relationship before may not be appropriate, and the other party did not understand me, so I did not feel my love, so I was very cold to myself. When you change the way you interact with each other, and the other party understands you, you will love yourself with your heart.

    3. Understand the real thoughts of the other party and respond according to the actual situation. Okay.

    Sometimes, although you love each other with your heart, the other person doesn't like you, so you can't feel the other person's love. ......At this time, you should find a way to understand the other person's real thoughts and respond according to the specific situation. ......If the other person wants to examine themselves further, then they have to work harder.

    And if the other party doesn't like you, you should give up rationally, find a lover who is really suitable for you, and pursue your own love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I can't remember seeing this sentence from **. If you don't love someone. Please let it go.

    so that others may have a chance to love her. If the person you love has given up on you. Please let go of yourself.

    so that you can have the opportunity to love others. It's a straightforward but plausible statement. It also teaches people how to deal with emotions from one side.

    There are things that you like that will not belong to you. There are some things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are. Love is a song in life that can never be sung. There are many kinds of love that people may experience in their lives. But don't let love be a disservice.

    Fate is everywhere in life. Gathering and scattering seem to be fateful things. Some fates are destined to be lost in the first place.

    Some fates never end well. Loving someone doesn't have to be having. But to have a person is to love him well.

    It's easy to say. But once you do it, it's really hard.

    If sincerity is a disservice. Please select a lie. If a lie is a disservice.

    Please choose to be silent. If silence is a disservice. Please select Leave.

    If love is a hurt. Please refrain from approaching. But in many cases this is not the case.

    Because it's up to you to choose.

    If loss is bitter. Are you afraid to pay? If obsession is bitter.

    Will you choose to end? If the pursuit is bitter. Will you choose to be obsessed?

    If separation is bitter. Who are you going to confide in? A lot of things came to light later.

    A lot of things didn't feel bitter at all. There is a kind of love. It's obviously a deep love.

    But the expression is not perfect. There is a kind of love. I know I want to give up.

    But he was unwilling to leave. There is a kind of love. Knowing that it is torment.

    But I can't get rid of it. There is a kind of love. Knowing that there is no way forward.

    But the heart has long been unable to be recovered.

    Love is not a game. Because we can't afford to play it. Love is a sincere giving. Forget that it's really not just about doing it. But no matter where it ends, it will be**. should have an innocent beauty in the bottom of your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I used to love someone, and I still love him, and he told me that we can't do it, but I still love him the same, and I think love is a kind of happiness, even if it doesn't work, I still insist

    I think I'll always be like this

    But, I want you to think it out for yourself, because it's hard to love someone, not everyone can stick to it.

    You have to think for yourself!

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