I don t love her, but I don t want to hurt her, what should I do?

Find a good time to talk to her, although it may be a hurt now, but it is better than a bigger hurt in the future.

Of course, this kind of thing should be decided immediately! Otherwise, the more you trust, the more troublesome it will be, and now you don't want to hurt her, do you want to be with her all the time in order not to hurt her? She lives in pseudo-happiness (and she doesn't necessarily feel it) and you don't feel it!!

This can be regarded as a kind of deception, although you don't want to, but since it has been caused, it should be solved in time, and both parties can also find their true other half, right?

It's better to spread things out and make it clear directly, talk about it well, and it's nothing if it's clear.

If you don't like her, it's a matter of time before you break up, and it's better to have a good time with this kind of thing, which is good for both of you.

But she loves you and takes the initiative to pursue you, and it takes a lot of courage.

Please remember that she gave her heart to you, although you don't like her, but her love for you is innocent, after the breakup, please remember in your heart that you hurt her, if she reacts a little violently to your proposed breakup, please understand and be considerate of her.

I wish you all happiness as soon as possible.

At that time, you should have figured out whether you like people or not.

In fact, no matter what way you use it now, it will hurt her very much.

I can only tell the truth, tactfully long pain is better than short pain.

Abstract Hello dear, at the beginning you have already said your own answer: "I feel inappropriate with my girlfriend", which means that you already want to separate, but your heart is full of guilt for her, and now your question should actually be: "I don't like my girlfriend enough, but she still loves me very much, how can I break up so that I have no regrets and don't hurt her."

Yes, if you want to repair the relationship, not separate, in fact, your question should be like this: "I love her a lot, but we have a lot of inappropriate places, what to do", unfortunately, you didn't ask that.

Since you already have the answer, I suggest that you can do it in two steps:

2. If you fail and have tried your best, then follow your heart and separate from her, she loves you and can't make up for the fact that you don't love her, and separating is the best choice for both of you.

I don't have any feelings for my girlfriend anymore, but she still loves me, I don't want to hurt her, what should I do?

Hello dear, you have already said your own answer at the beginning: "I feel inappropriate with my girlfriend", which means that you already want to separate, but your heart is full of guilt for her, and now your question should actually be: "I don't like my girlfriend enough, but she still loves me very much, how can I break up so that I have no regrets and don't hurt her."

Yes, if you want to repair the relationship, not separate, in fact, your question should be like this: "I love her a lot, but we have a lot of inappropriate places, what to do", unfortunately, you didn't ask that. Since you already have the answer, I suggest that you can do it in two steps:

1. Try to like your girlfriend more; 2. If you fail and have tried your best, then follow your heart and separate from her, she loves you and can't make up for the fact that you don't love her, and separating is the best choice for both of you.

She had depression before, and I was afraid that she wouldn't want to hurt herself, so what should I say?

Distance yourself from her first, then tell her slowly.

If I had distanced myself from her first, she would sometimes ask me if I loved her. What should I do?

If I had distanced myself from her first, she would sometimes ask me if I loved her. What should I do?

Well, and then it went on and on.

She found out that I didn't love her anymore and she just broke up with me, thank you for your answer.

So soon, do you have someone you like?

The damage is only temporary, and it is better than if you keep dragging his appetite, and the longer you delay, the more it hurts.

In fact, after refusal, time can be diluted!

Loss is inevitable. It can only save his self-esteem. Tell him that you already have a boyfriend. If it weren't for the fact that you have a boyfriend, you would definitely like him. Say something more regret that you didn't meet sooner. That's fine, minimize the damage.

Better a finger off than always aching. Not telling him all the time is a disservice to him. If you really don't have feelings, just say it. Don't mistake him. He should be able to sense your thoughts, too.