How is the flash wedding that happened to you now?

Meet online. Meet in three months. See the third side to start discussing buying a house in ** and getting a certificate in six months. It's been six years now, and the child is four years old. I've always been embarrassed to tell my friends the truth.

My husband also said that he doesn't need to know for so long whether he is the right person for him. At that time, I was about to be 28 years old, and I was single at an older age, and I was under a lot of pressure. In school, there are people who chase it, and when I go to the society, I find that the social circle has become very small, and everyone also compares it in various ways.

There was a bit of despair for a while. After all, I still have expectations for marriage, I don't want to make do, I don't want to wronged myself. So meet the right person at the right time.

I'm kind of thankful for God's arrangement. At the time, my evaluation of him was almost perfect, and after all these years, it is still the same. Of course, he is not rich and handsome, but the scoring is under my own criteria.

A relative, so far very affectionate, relatives are also friends introduced, there is no experience at all, the two are said to meet not long after the day to set a day to get married, now the little couple has a good time, others are also envious, married people have a house and a car, basically do not worry about money, so they are doing very well.

I'm a flash marriage, fighting, crazy running-in, countless moments want to divorce and break up, but in the end I can always reconcile, as a husband, I have never been comforted by anyone, only my wife's family will occasionally say that you take more care of her, every time I talk my heart is sour, I don't have a good life, I am depressed every day, but every time I quarrel or I go to coax her, what wife also listens, but the attitude is really bad, how to make trouble will be reconciled in the end, now I don't know if it's more love, Or take care of it a little more. The tangled mood is uncomfortable, the heart is not firm, and it is also the most feared in the heart, I don't know if it was impulsive at the time, or if I loved the wrong person in my heart. I advise you not to talk about flash marriage, you have to think twice about getting married.

Flash marriage feels quite unreliable, but the husband and wife are very affectionate, and they also gave birth to a little baby, and the family of three is so happy.

My daughter-in-law and I got married after a month of blind date, does it count! It's okay now! With children, children are the main thing everywhere, and the husband and wife don't have much to worry about getting along, and they are all over under mutual humility.

Many people are worried that flash marriage is unreliable, but in reality, there are not a few people who marry on a blind date like us, what you are worried about now is the relationship between the two after marriage, but when you get married, you will find that the two of them have given the best feelings to their children, and the focus of their feelings has shifted, so there are not so many concerns between the two people. For example, you may not like to eat before, but now your child likes it, and you will gradually adapt to it.

You are always worried about feelings, and we have to face the reality, every day after work at 7 o'clock after work, go home to take a shower, play with the mobile phone and go to sleep, then there is still time to quarrel.

I'm going to talk about my brother and my sister-in-law. Brother. It took less than 100 days for the two people to meet and receive the certificate.

During that time, my brother was happy every day, and I had never seen him so happy. He nagged that fate was wonderful, how could he meet someone so appropriately. Including my sister-in-law, she also said that they had too much in common, and she also said that my brother was so good when I went shopping.

Then they divorced last year. After less than two years of marriage, the child belonged to my brother, and finally went to court, which made me embarrassed.

There is a process of choosing flash marriage, and it is also a decision made under a series of conditions that meet one's own, so even if it is not good, it is your own choice, marriage is not child's play, no matter what decision you make, you must be responsible for yourself.

It's not good, I'm divorced, I'm in too much of a hurry to get married, I don't know what marriage is, and I haven't maintained it well.

The daughter of the next door, when she was twenty-six or seventeen, the family was very anxious, and then she went on various blind dates, and finally married someone who had known her for less than a few months. After less than a year of marriage, the two separated.

It's a good life, so some people say that feelings can be cultivated after marriage, and this is also an experience.

I've seen them get married after knowing each other for two months, but then they divorced soon because of their incompatible personalities.

A friend, a flash marriage, a friend before, I heard that he was introduced by a friend, and the two felt that each other was very good, so they also reached the marriageable age, and the family was also urgent, and the comprehensive appeal, it seems that all the conditions are mature, so let's get married. Later, when I heard the news from the other party again, the boos came. My buddy secretly told me that he left at the beginning of this year, and the specific reason was that he was emotionally incompatible.

I listened to it, I really don't know whether to say pity or regret, or sigh, before the year has passed, I will go our separate ways.

My junior high school classmate got married in a flash, because the two of them fell in love at first sight, and now they are doing well.

I met in the game.,Playing team battles together for about a year.,Meet on August 1st.,Get a certificate on September 22nd.,Hold a banquet on October 4th.,It's been almost eight years.,The most dangerous seven-year itch will pass soon.,Life is dull.,Occasional quarrels.,Occasional small surprises.,Marriage is probably like this.。

My classmate and his wife got married on a blind date for ten days, and it was not easy for a girl in a poor rural family to take a fancy to it, so she got married quickly, and now my wife doesn't go to work, and she loves to eat snacks, alas.

My husband and I went on a blind date during the winter vacation (my husband is a teacher), and I didn't meet at first, but my mother liked him, all kinds of persuasion, and as a result, I got married in a flash at the beginning of school, and I have been married for 14 years, and my life is dull and happy.

<> wouldn't get married in a flash, if it must be a flash marriage, it's probably because I went on a blind date. I don't recommend flash marriage, because flash marriage is not good for him to get married without knowing each other.

One. Most people have the reason for flash marriage.

The number of flash marriages is actually relatively small in the overall proportion, but Qiao Mingzhu also has it. The first reason for flash marriage is a young couple, they may have reached a marriage age, and they happen to be in love with each other, so they take advantage of the situation to end the marriage. This is equivalent to a direct marriage to make a vow.

There is also a second way, there are a lot of young people, they may get pregnant before marriage, then after the pregnancy, the woman needs the man to be responsible, so they will get married quickly.

Two. My Reason for Flash Marriage.

I think the reason for my flash marriage should be that I will get married because of a blind date. Because if I wasn't in a hurry to get married, I wouldn't have gotten married. Because I've always been more opposed to flash marriages.

And it turns out that flash marriage is often relatively unreliable, and there will be a lot of contradictions after marriage.

Three. Flash marriages are not recommended.

I don't recommend that you choose such a way as a flash marriage. Especially the way to get married in a flash when you are in love, I think it is more wrong. Of course, this is from Li Xin's point of view, not from an emotional point of view.

Because flash marriage means that you don't get along with each other for a long time, then you definitely don't know what the real person is like. It is very likely that after a few years of marriage, he shows his true colors, which will make your relationship very bad, or even divorced.

Flash marriages will not be chosen. I think getting married is a very important thing, and you can't get married on the first day of meeting on the third day like a blind date arranged by your family, which may lead two people down the wrong path in marriage. On the one hand, before getting married, you should go through a hard love run, and both parties need to go through a period of understanding and getting along, so that they can understand each other more deeply, so as to better determine their feelings.

On the other hand, the families of both parties also need to understand each other's family background and understand each other's family situation in a timely manner, so that the two parties can better combine together. Flash marriages, on the other hand, will not be satisfied in this regard, so flash marriages are not recommended. Moreover, marriage is not only an emotional certainty, but also a spiritual and social certainty.

Marriage is a social custom, it is a spiritual and social stability, and it is also a social responsibility, so it should also be considered carefully. Flash marriages often do not have much spiritual and social preparation, and are often married on impulse, which may bring a lot of unnecessary troubles to future married life, so flash marriages are not recommended.

All in all, marriage is an important thing and should be considered carefully, while flash marriage is not recommended, especially in a blind date arranged by the family, if you meet the right person, it is best for both parties to let each other know more before deciding whether to get married.

Even if I meet someone I like, I won't choose a flash marriage.

Because even if you like a person very much, you must understand his personality and his style of doing things, and then you must understand the actual situation of his family. I think falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, and it has a lot to do with the parents of both parties. If I marry him again and find that I don't get along with his parents, then I will regret getting married.

In order not to give myself a chance to regret it, I would not choose a flash marriage.

In fact, most flash marriages are because they are hot-headed and feel that the other party is their true love, so they marry each other. But I don't think it's possible to determine whether the other party is the person you really want just by looking at each other, you must contact the other party, understand his character, and know what shortcomings he has to determine whether you can get along with this person. Both people will be very sweet when they practice, and they will also feel that the other party is the other half they want, but as they spend more time together, the shortcomings of the two people are slowly exposed, and they will quarrel, and if they don't handle it well when they quarrel, it is easy for the two people to break up.

If you get married at this time, even if you want to break up, you can't do it, you can only endure it alone.

When some men and women go on a blind date, after a few days of communication, both parties feel good about themselves, and their feelings heat up quickly, and they soon complete a series of emotional and legal procedures to tease them, and walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand. On the surface, this kind of flash marriage after a blind date is a manifestation of encountering fate, but in fact it is an emotional impulse, at least a manifestation of not being serious or imprudent in attitude towards marriage.

So I think you can not be cautious when you fall in love, but you must be cautious when you get married, because marriage is a major event in your life, and you only get married once in this life, if you don't think about it well, regret is a lifelong regret. I think that marriage must be deliberate, and when getting married, the parents of both parties must also agree, so that the marriage of two people will be happy. I think a marriage with the blessing of parents will be happy, and if the marriage does not have the blessing of parents, then this marriage is destined to be unhappy.

So I'm going to have to think about it, and it's best to bring him home to meet my parents, and if my parents agree, I'll think about it.