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During the Chinese New Year, the elders give the younger generations New Year's money, which is a long-standing tradition. Some people feel unbearable because they give too much New Year's money to their younger generations during the New Year, so they are disgusted with this tradition, and their personal view of this phenomenon is that giving New Year's money during the New Year reflects the care of the elders for the younger generation, the tradition of New Year's money should be maintained, and the New Year's money should not be given too much.
1. The elders give the younger generations New Year's money, which reflects the care of the elders for the younger generations.
It is a long-standing tradition for our elders to give money to younger generations during our New Year. ......This tradition itself does not focus on the New Year's money itself, but a kind of care and love from the elders to the younger generations. ......It is for this reason that the tradition of New Year's money can be continued for a long time and continue to continue.
Therefore, we should not be disgusted with this tradition, but should understand it from a positive perspective.
2. The tradition of New Year's money should be maintained.
It is precisely because of the tradition of New Year's money that it reflects the care and love of the elders for the younger generations, so it reflects family affection and is a warm existence. ......Therefore, instead of being disgusted by this tradition, we should continue to maintain it and form a good habit of caring for and loving the younger generation, and respecting the younger generation, which is beneficial to each of us.
3. The money given by the elders to the younger generations should not be too much, and it should be reasonable and moderate.
The reason why many people are disgusted with New Year's money is because of the ...... caused by giving too much New Year's money during the Chinese New YearEveryone's financial conditions are limited, and if you give too much New Year's money, you will feel unbearable, and you may feel disgusted ......However, if we can achieve reasonable control when giving New Year's money, the New Year's money given to the younger generations can not only reflect the care for the younger generations, but the amount of the New Year's money is not too large, so that we can solve the problem satisfactorily, and we will not feel disgusted.
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pie"Red envelopes"Reverence is a Chinese New Year custom, and the Chinese love the color red because it symbolizes vitality, happiness and good luck.
Giving out Zhao Xiao red envelopes to underage juniors (according to Chinese beliefs, married people are considered adults) is a sign of bringing good luck and good luck to them. The money in the red envelope, just to make the children happy, its main meaning is in the red paper, because it symbolizes good luck. Therefore, it is rude to open a red envelope in front of the elders who distribute it.
The custom of giving New Year's money in red envelopes.
When it comes to the Spring Festival, the children's favorite thing is to get the red envelopes given by adults, commonly known as "New Year's money" and "New Year's money". In ancient times, during the Chinese New Year, adults used red ropes to string up a hundred copper coins, and issued them to children hoping that they would live a long life.
100 dollars wear a long colored line, divide it and then pillow to collect, discuss the price of firecrackers and talk about the price of the flute, and add Jiao'er to be busy all night", the Qing Dynasty poet described in the poem "New Year's Money". Because copper coins and red strings do not meet the requirements of the times, they have been gradually replaced by paper money and red envelopes, and they have become the red envelopes that everyone is familiar with now. The current red envelopes include not only the red envelopes for the New Year's money, but also the welfare red envelopes sent by the company and the red envelopes used to thank others.
Giving out red envelopes is a custom for us to celebrate the Spring Festival, and red represents festivity, good luck, and auspiciousness. Generally, the elders send it to unmarried minors, and the money in it can be as much as it wants, generally bringing 6,60 yuan, 66 yuan, 166 yuan, etc., but it is impolite to open a red envelope in front of the elders, which should be told to the children.
Some parents secretly put under their children's pillows on Chinese New Year's Eve, so that their children have a surprise on the first day of the new year and have a happy year. In the south, especially in Guangzhou, they called the red envelope "Li Shi", and in the Qing Dynasty, people used a piece of red paper with a shape similar to the square of the tribe to wrap the copper coin and seal it as "Li Shi". The first generation of red envelopes came out at the end of the Qing Dynasty when printing technology began to be widely used.
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According to the customs and habits of the Chinese, the New Year is given to the New Year. Generally, it is only given to underage children.
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Although I am not very disgusted with the traditional custom of giving red envelopes or New Year's money during the New Year, I personally think that in many cases, this way should also be changed.
After all, if during the New Year's greetings, their children greet other relatives in the family and they give their children red envelopes, then they also need to give red envelopes to other relatives, although some people think that this can reflect the happy atmosphere of the Spring Festival, but this also invisibly increases the ratio, eats, burdens, and even forms a blind comparison, for example, they give a relative's child 500 yuan New Year's money, such as their own relative, it is likely to give their own children, 1,000 yuan of New Year's money, so that he owes the other party more favors, and his heart is naturally uncomfortable, and for the other party, this is also invisibly increasing his burden.
And during the New Year, if you give a red envelope to the children of the relatives, it will also make this kind of New Year's greeting, to a certain extent, it will make some children think that the purpose of greeting the elders in the family during the New Year is to get the red envelope and New Year's money, and do not realize that it is their own and should do to pay a New Year's greeting to the elders, so it is said that for the New Year, the tradition of giving red envelopes and New Year's money during the New Year. Personally, I think that to a certain extent, you can consider changing it, for example, children pay New Year's greetings to the elders in the family. Elders can give children some useful books or school supplies, so that on the one hand, they can experience the joyful and festive atmosphere of the New Year, and on the other hand, they can also play a better educational role for children.
So I don't averse to giving red envelopes or New Year's money during the Chinese New Year. New Year's money has a good meaning, and it is said that New Year's money can hold him down. The younger generation can spend a year of peace and security when they get the New Year's money, and now some people are disgusted with the New Year's money, mainly because now the living standard has improved, and the gap between people is getting bigger and bigger, and the situation of each family is not the same, many different problems from the past will emerge in endlessly, not to talk about the early and happy New Year's Day, the gains outweigh the losses, and the New Year's money is generally sent to the children by the elders, and the children are also very happy to receive the New Year's money.
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Hello. Not averse. It is said that the New Year's money can be suppressed, and the younger generation can spend a year of peace when they get the New Year's money.
Now some people are disgusted with the New Year's money, mainly because now the standard of living has improved, the gap between people and people is getting bigger and bigger, and the situation of each family is not the same. It is a little bit of heart to give more and less New Year's money, and the New Year's money is generally sent to children by the elders, and the children are very happy to receive the New Year's money. In the past, there were five and ten yuan of New Year's money, and now the New Year's money is less than 1200, and more than 10,000 yuan, more or less a little comparative, I hope not to confuse the essence of the New Year's money.
Everyone still values harmony, and everything is prosperous! Red envelopes and New Year's money are naturally traditional, but they are also the way of life of contemporary people. It stands to reason that red envelopes and New Year's money are the hearts of relatives.
You are usually busy with school and work, and your relatives can't help you with anything. In the same way, greeting our loved ones is a sign of our concern. This kind of cultural tradition is very good, it can increase family affection and make children happy.
However, with the substantial improvement of people's living standards, the amount of New Year's money has been ** year after year. Nowadays, it is not uncommon for children to have as little as 100 or more than 1,000 or even thousands of red envelopes. Some people have to give thousands of red envelopes a year, so much so that they can't afford to give red envelopes.
The countryside loves to talk about these, and when they go out to pay New Year's greetings and come back to the neighbors, they will ask the child how much New Year's money they have received, and if they give less, they may be said that this relative is really stingy. Therefore, many people are very disgusted, obviously the New Year's money is just a good blessing, but it has become a "comparison field" between adults, which really shouldn't be. Some relatives and friends in the countryside are like going through the motions to give their children New Year's money.
Today, you bring the child to me, I gave the New Year's money, tomorrow I will bring the child to your house, and you will give it back, and you will not even change the red envelope. Especially in some families, the number of children is not the same, and the red envelopes of a child in the family are often doubled, resulting in an imbalance between the children. When the New Year's money, which was originally full of new blessings, becomes a gift exchange, the object loses its original meaning.
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