How to give up a 5 year relationship, help me

I think you still love each other, the longer you are together, the more you get used to the pattern of your relationship at the beginning, but at that time you were still quite astringent, just blindly wanting to give her a good and do what she had, but your model is like she is your daughter, and you are like a selfless father. You're tired of this pattern, but you still don't want to change it and give up. You've never told her what you think.

It's not that she doesn't care about you anymore, it's that you're asking more and more, and you don't communicate with her and don't make your affairs clear. Love is not something you can quit on your own if you want to. As long as you still love her, you will never be able to leave.

Let's talk to her. Don't hurt the girls who love you.

I can tell you the truth, it is impossible for women to let go, they are all emotional, and they value feelings more than men. I often have the feeling of you and propose to break up, and she also said that it was up to me, and I was even more angry that she didn't care about me, but she was crying by herself and really couldn't let go.

Encounters are fate, and missing is also fate; Acquaintance is fate, strangeness is also fate; Friends are fate, enemies are also fate; Love is fate, and parting is also fate.

Dependents are fate, and husband and wife are also fate; Relatives are fate, neighbors are also fate; Beating and scolding is fate, and harmony is also fate.

Believing in Buddha is fate, and reciting Buddha is also fate; Being at home is fate, and being a monk is also fate; Becoming a Buddha is a fate, and becoming a demon is also a fate.

The peace of the country and the people is the fate, and the natural and man-made disasters are also the fate; World peace is the fate, and so is war and violence; Social harmony is the fate, and order and chaos are also the fate.

Good and bad fate do not gather, and bad fate does not disperse. As the saying goes, if there is fate, you will gather, and if you don't, you will disperse!

Fate comes and goes, there is no need to force it, what is in life must be there in the end, and there is no force in life. The melons that are forcibly picked are not sweet, and those that do not belong to you will not last long.

Fate is not predetermined, nor is it immutable, fate is based on one's own behavior, it will change at any time, how to change? Do not do all evil, all good is pursued, evil fate will turn into good fate, and no fate will become fate; If you don't do evil, you can't do good, and good karma will turn into evil karma, and good karma will turn into bad karma. Whether it's good or evil, it's all your own!

You and I know each other all have fate, with a smile on your face, you are happy to plant good karma, and you cherish my mistakes. Follow me and go against me to eliminate the fate of evil. Birth, old age, sickness and death, good and bad results are all karma, compassion and joy to cultivate the Buddha's fate.

If the relationship can really be as simple as you think, then everyone will have less sorrow and more happiness. If we can control our feelings, then our lives are too ordinary? Perhaps these tangled and entangled feelings will run in front of us when our lives are too single, making us feel heartache for it and happiness for it.

I'm the same now. But I chose to give up. Although I'm having a hard time right now, I think time can change everything. Sometimes it's good to be selfish.

This is not necessarily, you also have a reason, she also has a reason, if she is ruthless as a woman than a man, now is not the time to save face, think about your own life, make a rational analysis, some things are missed and can never come back, love is long-lasting, and kind; Love is not jealousy; Love is not boastful, not arrogant.

He does not do anything that is shy, he does not seek his own good, he does not anger easily, he does not count the evil of men, he does not delight in unrighteousness, but delights in the truth;

Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.

Love never ends. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8) Love is long-suffering, and love also needs gifts.

Love is waiting, blessing, and letting go.

Love is a matter of two people, when they have each other, accept each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and give each other, love is the most perfect state.

If love suddenly turns around, feelings become a person's business, chew slowly, experience carefully, and quietly cry.

Smile and see that the other party is alive and well, without pressure, without embarrassment, neither far away nor close.

Don't compromise and seek perfection, don't deliberately gamble, self-esteem and self-love, as always, secretly appreciate, and have a firm heart.

Memories of love do not pass away, and life does not have to be overshadowed by sorrow.

Sorrow and suffering are the price that must be paid for love.

No matter how lost, lonely, wronged, painful, desperate, and a thousand turns, the understanding of love is still beautiful and healthy.

Just a simple appreciation, don't let the other person feel pressured. When you can't hold love with both hands, you don't complain about it, and you don't suffer for it.

After experiencing it, I realized that I can not do it in love, and it is just a beautiful expectation to be free and relaxed.

In fact, in addition to love, there is also a kind of love, which is also known as deep, down, and long-lasting.

She won't be nice to you anymore because I've experienced this first-hand and we broke up I have been in a relationship with my previous boyfriend for more than 5 years, and he has always been very good to me and has done a lot for me.

I know why she didn't take you home Maybe the conditions of your home are not as good as the woman's conditions In this case, the girl doesn't want to take it home You can't do it Long pain is better than short pain Maybe everything has become a memory I don't care about you anymore means I don't love you anymore I don't love you anymore I can't go back to the past I wish you happiness.

It's hard, unless she figures it out and sees it through!

There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love, knowing that it is torment, but it can't be lost.

There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart has long been unable to get it back. Love is not a game because we can't afford to play it. Love is to give with sincerity, to forget that you really can't do it.

No matter where the destination will be, I think there should be an innocent beauty in my heart.

There is fate everywhere in the world, but this fate does not belong to you, and it has been five years before I want to let go, but it can be regarded as wanting to open, in fact, I should have pursued my own fate a long time ago! If you want to come out, then be brave, everyone has memories, there are beautiful and hurtful ones, we just need to collect these memories.

However, this also makes you see the true face of men, men really don't know how to cherish women! This is a woman's helplessness and a man's sorrow!

Since ancient times, infatuated children, negative men!

May you come out of the shadows as soon as possible and look forward, the scenery is still there, and the sunshine is still there!

1. Time will solve everything. Whether it's friendship or love, we feel that we may never forget it in this life, but slowly, in our obsession, we forget. The original unforgettable, in the tide of time, slowly weathered, in the end, it was only exchanged for today's light and light wind.

2. Don't be deliberate, go with the flow. Five years of friendship is actually very rare, and it is not easy to forget, the more deliberately you forget, the more vivid it is. So don't forget it, just let it be, and maybe one day, you will be reconciled again.

3. There are many things in life, and it is more important than forgetting a friendship. Friendship is very important to a person, but there is more than friendship in life, many things are waiting for us to do. So, let go of those little emotions, live well, let go of others, and let go of yourself.

If you don't connect, it's better to miss each other than to see each other.

In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something. --