When a woman chooses a man, is appearance more important than personality?

Personally, looks are not as important as character.

Of course, appearance needs to be considered, but I think many girls nowadays don't have too high requirements for the appearance of their other half. I don't really have any special requirements for the appearance of the other half, as long as it's not the kind of crooked melon and cracked dates, just look good. After all, many people can look good now if they pick it up a little, both men and women are like this, many girls will also be very careful to help their boyfriends dress up after having a boyfriend, and they may become much more handsome after dressing up with an average appearance, so appearance is really not a particularly important criterion for choosing a mate.

On the contrary, character is very important, appearance can be packaged, but personality is not. After all, after two people have been together for a long time, whether their personalities can be compatible is the most important, and personality is related to the harmony of two people, and I personally value character. I also had a handsome boyfriend, but our personalities didn't match at all, we always quarreled, and after a long time, people felt tired, and finally came to the end of breaking up.

In fact, when a girl chooses a boyfriend, in addition to her appearance and personality, she will also consider many other factors. As far as I'm concerned, I will also consider the interests and hobbies of two people, and I think it is necessary for two people to have common hobbies, otherwise there is nothing to do together, and even if they are together, they will feel very hard. The three views are also very important, if the three views are inconsistent, it is easy to have disputes, and the three views are not as easy to change as others, the three views are the most difficult to change, after all, this is inseparable from a person's living environment since childhood.

In short, in my opinion, looks are the last thing to consider.

When a woman chooses a man, in fact, appearance and personality are equally important. However, people are sensory animals, so the first thing to pay attention to is often appearance, but it does not necessarily mean that appearance is more important than personality.

Personally, I think personality is important, after all, being handsome can't be eaten, but if the personality is compatible, that is, a lifetime of happiness.

At first glance, appearance will be more important than personality, but after getting along for a long time, if you really like it, you won't care about looks.

When women choose a man, their appearance plays a very important role when they first meet, and those who look good can leave a better impression at the beginning, and the willingness to continue dating will be higher.

I think personality is more important, and if you don't have the right personality, it's hard to get along. No matter how beautiful your appearance is, if you don't have the right personality, you will quarrel and have conflicts. Here's an example and you'll get the idea.

Personality and appearance, which is more important?

Girls with high appearance and bad character, under normal circumstances, the first impression focuses on appearance, and appearance often depends on people, with appearance some have a great advantage to please people, because the character can not be seen, but the appearance is often despite a while, looks like a flower, but can not withstand the wind and rain, as long as the character is on the right road, compatible, talents come together, go further, appearance can not be changed, personality can be adjusted, two people can work hard in the common aspect, each other can also be changed, maintain a lasting lasting.

Suppose you find a beautiful woman who can be called a beautiful woman as a girlfriend, you are quite satisfied with her appearance, and your heart is happy. But you may not be able to bear her character, what kind of character?

This beauty is pretty, but she has a hot temper, scolds when she disagrees, and beats her hand if she raises her hand if she doesn't go well. And he is not angry when talking to people, his temperament is changeable, and he is very difficult to serve. Excuse me: Have you served such a beauty? The answer is obvious, it can't be used.

A girl with an ordinary appearance and a good personality.

On the contrary, if this girl has an ordinary appearance, she can see it. But he has a very docile temper, treats people quite sensibly, is polite, and will not lose his temper at will, and is even more docile to you. Do you like such a girl?

Definitely. Individuals are more inclined to character, character is really too important, two people eventually have problems, mostly out of character, personality incompatibility leads to the failure of marriage, which is the ideal ideal. Since the appearance is given by the parents, it can't be changed after being stereotyped, and it is natural.

The integrity of the character is different, it is something that can be cultivated the day after tomorrow, and it is also a dynamic process.

The summary is as follows: Do you understand this comparison? Some people may say that the example you gave is too extreme. Indeed, I am here to make the case clear.

In practice, even if she is not a shy woman with a bad temper, you will find it difficult to tolerate it. Because you think like this: With your appearance, you still play a temper with the eldest lady, and the uncle doesn't serve anymore.

Personality is more important to girls, if you have an empty appearance, but your personality is irritable and bad, even if someone gets along with you at first, but then you understand your temper and don't want to get along with you.

Nature. If a girl has a particularly good character, then she will definitely be liked by many people, and many people will choose some interesting souls in their lives.

I think appearance is very important, if you are very beautiful, you can get a lot of people's like, and in life, the girl will become very confident.

Your character hides a lifetime of luck. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke said.

Of course, it's neutral. You don't see that in recent years, the male number one in film and television works has melon seed faces, awl chins, peach blossom eyes, willow thin waists, and white and red skin. Walking with a catwalk, the slender ten fingers gestured charmingly.

Heavy makeup, shaking three steps, comparable to Pan An back then. As soon as he opened his mouth, his fingers shook gently, and he still hugged the pipa and half covered his face, which was shy and cute"I'm going, people are embarrassed!

Dislike! Hee-hee-hee, hee-hee-hee.

Is such a male number one cute? Of course, it's cute. They will inspire the motherly love knot in the subconscious of women.

Women will involuntarily burst out with earth-shattering, weeping ghosts and gods to protect. Of course, they don't know that this is actually a mother's love knot. I also mistakenly think that this is fabulous love.

They fell in love with these delicate men, just like Wu Zetian doted on his side back then"Male pets are full of a sense of protection.

Are these beautiful men like Lin Daiyu cute? Of course it's cute. When there are problems in the marriage, is it much less likely that they will be subjected to domestic violence?

Can their slender fingers be clenched into fists and slammed into each other? Probably not, right? At that time, who will be abusing whom, it is not necessarily, right, everyone?

Friends, isn't the delicate flower boy cute, beautiful, and safe? The answer is yes. If you want to attract girls, you must be an attractive boy, maybe handsome, maybe temperamental, maybe personable, etc.

For a boy, it will be the beauty of women that attracts him. For a woman, it will be the charm of the man who attracts her. It's easy to say but it's not easy, you need to match a woman's taste.

Below I will recommend a few common styles that women like. Uncle style is a mature and stable representative, of course, if it is a bad old man in his forties and fifties, it will definitely not work, generally uncles are graceful, considerate, and experienced, which is one aspect of attracting women. Of course, you also need good looks.

A man's personality is more attractive to women, although the first thing to notice is the looks, but after getting along, women are more dependent on the man's character, only this man's character is very good, can protect himself, will make the woman feel safe, and finally the two will get along.

Nature. Personality is the soul of fun, and if you have a good personality, you can also talk a lot to each other and bring a lot of joy to each other.

Men's looks are more attractive, and many women are good-looking, and they pay more attention to men's looks.

It depends on the person, anyway, I personally think the character is more attractive. But the appearance should not be too bumpy, at least clean and tidy. (Starts with appearance and ends with talent).

<>I don't think this can be said one-sidedly. If you're new to this person, I think appearance is more important than personality. Only if you are good-looking, he will want to know your character.

If you've known the person for a long time, personality is certainly much more important than appearance. Men are visual creatures. In this regard, first of all, a woman's appearance is more important than her character.

You want to be a beautiful woman, shining with a charming light. Her attention, his high return rate, and her attractiveness to men. It's easy to be surprised.

But to establish a long-term friendly and cooperative relationship, in the end, it is the character that has the final say. So, in the long run, character is the deciding factor. I understand that no matter how beautiful a woman is, she just grabbed the opportunity, and the final outcome is determined by her character.

On the other hand, looking at her character is also looking at her character. I think I'm very accurate with people, and I know exactly what kind of people I want to be with. My girlfriend and I have been together for six years now, and I think we'll be married after graduation.

Her looks and figure may not be outstanding, but I feel very comfortable with her, nice to me, and accommodating. Sometimes, although she has a little temper, she is harmless. We have been together for six years, and I also know that she is a kind and filial person with a good heart.

Although she can't cook, at least she's not lazy and can do housework. I don't think living with her would make me tired. There seemed to be such a natural feeling of comfort in my heart and body.

All in all, no matter what a guy values, the most important thing is the fit between them.

The pursuit of beauty by human beings is essentially the need for pleasure and pleasure, and it is also one of the basic physiological needs of human beings. Eating good food, sleeping, drinking water, and enjoying the view are all the same thing. Some people may be unconvinced, and it is superficial to choose a person by **.

However, the basic logic of beauty is: love cleanliness, love neatness, love taste. A person's physical appearance is a testament to his habits of life and love for life.

For example, a beautiful woman with a good figure proves that she knows how to maintain, eat reasonably, and exercise regularly. Her attire is a testament to her level of aesthetic. Behind these living habits, it also reflects her education level, her vision and insight.

The famous host Yang Lan once said, "No one will appreciate your excellent soul through your sloppy appearance." ”

Personality is more important. Appearance is lost with age, but personality is not. Yes, a beautiful woman is pleasing to the eye.

Appearance is more important, first of all, you have to have appearance, so that others will be in the mood to understand your personality. Of course, anyone loves beautiful things.

Personality is more important, I do like beautiful girls, just like girls, and I especially like handsome men.

It's not too important, after all, falling in love is a long-term relationship, not an impulsive moment for 10,000 years. Of course, having a high appearance value will definitely give you an advantage in the initial impression score, but if you have already established a romantic relationship, after the relationship is more intimate, the meaning of appearance will become weaker and weaker.

1.The two parties who talk about the cheating love are more interested in each other's character and the harmony of both parties. In the process of falling in love, appearance may be pleasing to both parties, but there is no way to make up for the shortcomings of personal behavior, and there is no way to make up for the disharmony of personality.

Therefore, when it comes to falling in love, it is not the most important thing to be really staring at it.

2.But if you are still in the blind date stage, or the stage of first acquaintance, the first impression of appearance will indeed add points to the impression points. But it's not the most important thing, after all, your language exchanges, eating and dating together will reveal your true personality traits.

3.Love is indeed the relationship between two people, and the views of both parties on aesthetics are not the same, many people's views on appearance are more about the temperament shown after the combination of the person's face and personality. So if you really care about your appearance, you can also continue to improve your self-confidence makeup and behavior.

When it comes to falling in love, there are many other important things besides appearance, such as whether the other party's attitude towards you is appropriate, whether it is considerate, whether it is responsible, and so on. The most important thing is that two people get along with each other, you have complementary personalities, overlapping interests and hobbies, and have some common values, which is more important.

If such an external appearance as appearance occupies an important place in a relationship, then it will be difficult for you to last long. After all, there is always a time when you are plain and facing the sky, there is always a time for daily life at home, there is always a time when you are embarrassed, and there is always a time when you look old. There is no way to predict this, and the most important words of appearance will not be facing a breakup at any time.

Therefore, when falling in love, maybe appearance can occupy a certain plus point and occupy a certain impression point. But appearance must not occupy the most important position in love, especially as you grow older, you know more about the world and life, and your attitude towards love will become more demanding and responsible.

What age and experience bring to you is the gradual shaping of values, but also the gradual mastery of reality. It's the same for falling in love, there is no way to support the long-term future of two people, likes are temporary, and long-term love can support you to go further.