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Many post-90s do not want to get married at a young age, let alone have their own children at a young age, they are more in pursuit of freedom, so they don't want to be too restricted, and children may become a burden for the post-90s.
First of all,The biggest difference between the post-90s and the post-80s or post-70s is that they don't like their freedom to be restricted, and in this case, children are a burdenOn the other hand, with the rapid development of the economy and the rapid development of the price level, many post-90s are now difficult to support themselves, not to mention, to feed another child, under this strong life pressure, children are a very huge burden for the post-90sAnd now the cost of raising children is getting more and more expensive, and many people say that they can't afford to raise children.
Secondly,Of course, there are some people who do not see their children as a burden, but rather their children become a motivation for their continuous struggleHope to provide their children with a very good educational environment or living environment, and these require a certain material foundation, so for them, although the child provides them with great pressure, but also provides them with a very huge motivation, a parent does not want their children to follow their own hardships, so they will do their best to give their children the best life, in this case, children may not be a burden to parents.
In the end, whether it will become a burden or not depends on the thoughts of young people, and people will have different opinions on having children, if it were me, I would not see him as a burden, and I would do my best to keep fighting.
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Having children at a young age can indeed become a burden, when you are young, you often lack financial means so you will not be able to provide for your children's expenses, and when you are young, you will have more ambitions, and if you have children, you will think about more things, so you will not be able to achieve your ambitions, so it will become a burden.
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Whether the child will become a burden to you depends more on your economic conditions, regardless of age, if the conditions are superior, then when the child arrives will not be a burden, and if the economic conditions are not good, you will mostly think that he is a burden.
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I think it will become a burden, after all, when you are young, many people will focus on their careers, and if you have children, you have to focus some of your energy on them, and your career may stagnate.
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If your family's assets are very wealthy, it will not be too much of a burden to have children at a young age, but if the family is not wealthy, then having children will add a lot of pressure to your life.
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There is pressure to be motivated, maybe it will be very tiring to take care of children, but children also bring motivation to parents to struggle, and children's laughter can sweep away the worries of parents for a day.
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