Who can come and comfort me!! How to comfort people?!

If you like a girl, you first have to stabilize your mind and see if you are suitable for each other.

You don't have to rush to confess, look at the girl's temperament, personality, hobbies, family background, location, etc., all of which should be taken into account, because the probability of success is relatively high.

If you're attracted to what she's superficial and don't think about anything else, it's a bit blind. I think the reason why the girl didn't say yes to you may be because she doesn't know you, or because she is not mentally ready. In the face of your sudden move, she seems too sudden.

Don't be afraid of failure, the reason for failure will be summarized, maybe she needs to know more about you. If you want to improve your success rate, you must first get in touch with her and make a good impression on her.

Don't be depressed, slowly you will be all right, there are some things that cannot be taught, you must implement them yourself. There are so many girls who are suitable for you, but you haven't met them yet.

You're not as miserable as me, I've been chasing a girl for 2 years, it's a little bit worse, but. It's okay to watch the ball more, it will calm your mind. Think more about what is the meaning before doing something, whether it is meaningless and meaningful, if it is, it is a meaningless thing, and you don't have to do it.

Someone confessed more than 20 times and got a girlfriend. You've only been rejected once, hey.

I chased my first girlfriend and was rejected more than 20 times in a month, and finally I was scared, haha.

I want to have a boyfriend. But be responsible, for yourself and for others. Take a turn of attention and, like me, put more experience into your work.

To comfort people who are in a bad mood, the most taboo is "don't think so much, why do you think so much" or "You just think too much, think about those who are not as good as you, they still envy you" When you say these words, the other party's heart must be like this "You are not me, of course you don't have to think about this" or "What do those who are not as good as me have anything to do with me", so as to make them even more.

In fact, sometimes people are wronged, and they want to hold back their tears or can hold back their tears, but once someone comforts them or wants to ask the reason for their troubles, they can't help crying, some people can regulate this emotion by themselves, at this time, in fact, as long as you are by their side, you can hold hands and let them know that you are always by your side, if there are any grievances, you can tell you that you have always been there, if you don't want to say, you will always be with you like this, I think this is the best comfort, after all, there is nothing like companionship This is warmer than any words of comfort.

The general principle is to use the technique of empathy, the so-called empathy is to empathize and understand the other person's emotions from the other person's standpoint. 1 love. The form of expression is "evaluation + question" 2 for an opportunity to confide.

Confiding in itself is a form of healing that allows the other person's negative emotions to vent. 3 for emotional support.

When a person is in grief or pain, what they need most is to be noticed and understood, so the first thing we need to do is to put ourselves in the other person's shoes, say how the other person feels, and express empathy.

The person who is troubled is actually just looking for someone to complain and complain, and the person next to him actually only needs to listen silently and express some of his opinions at the right time, and how to solve it is actually the other party

Learning to listen is the best comfort

Man to man, drink.

Woman to woman, shopping, singing.

Friends of the opposite sex, no solution.

There is only one purpose, just let him or her vent it!

It's easiest to give a shoulder to lean on. Because support is needed.

Comfort is a Chinese word, pronounced ān wèi. It means to settle and soothe, to lighten, soothe, or encourage with joy, hope, assurance, and compassion.

Sometimes it's good to be silent.

Say something nice, but only sincerely.

Ten words of comfort will greatly improve your eloquence if you master it.

Do weird things you haven't done before.

Of course, it's black yourself, as long as you are worse than him and cry louder than him, he will be fine.

Brother, there is only a girl in our class, and I have been taken out by others to live together for half a year, but even then I have girls chasing, and there are more than one or two, but I have always had a favorite in my heart, so I rejected them, you are much better than me, playing friends or having a crush is a very hard thing, at least you are still a famous school, I am just a junior college student, studying engineering, you will find a good job in the future, I believe that there must be someone waiting for you in front, don't worry, one day you will meet her, What you have to do now is to study hard and exercise your various abilities, otherwise you won't be able to catch up with what you like in the future, when there is love, we will enjoy the sweetness of love, and when there is no love, we will enjoy the freedom of being single, and we don't have to deliberately force it. When you come to school, we are here to learn, this is the most important thing, and when you have money and a job in the future, are you afraid that you will not be able to find a woman?At that time, I didn't know which one you chose, and they often told me that when they fall in love now, they are helping others raise their daughters-in-law.

Men are different from women, men have a career, they have everything.

You feel like your life is dark because you haven't made a beautiful girlfriend in your 20s, since no girlfriend can survive the first three years of college, not to mention the last year of your senior year, you don't like "material women", but why don't you want to find a beautiful girlfriend who should understand each other, regardless of men and women, everyone wants to find a relatively perfect other half, don't worry, girlfriends will have, beautiful girlfriends will also have.

But if you want to have a partner who loves and supports each other, shouldn't you also strive to make yourself better?

If your ideal type is beautiful, generous, gentle and considerate.

Then you should also be open-minded, responsible, and brave to take responsibility, life is still long, isn't it?

Maybe the next corner will be your significant other

== Calm. Don't knock over a boatload of people with a single rod. Girls aren't all like that.

In short, stabilize after work and expand your social circle, so that you may know more girls.

There are still a lot of good sister papers, don't give up.

Hehe, I feel so cute, although I'm just a student in an ordinary undergraduate college, in fact, many students are not in a hurry to fall in love, such as me, it's not that no one wants it, I'm not ugly, it's just that I have my own ideas and temporarily refuse to fall in love, just like you said "dinosaurs" have people to want, not to mention other girls, I said these just to relieve your emotions, what if you are not in love, everyone around me has an object, so what about me, is it very ashamed?! As the saying goes, "those who fall in love before college are hidden, and those who don't fall in love after college have to be hidden", in fact, it is just talk. And if you're afraid that you won't find a good girl in society, that's just part of the phenomenon, believe me, hehe.

As long as you think you can!

I really admire them, they say it so well, I should also learn to learn. I don't even know what you're talking about, hehe, I'm sorry, I'm just a junior high school student, and my understanding of society is still very superficial. Actually, I don't think it's necessary to think so much and so complicated.

Sometimes a little simpler might do the trick. Find a cheerful person to talk to, it's normal to be stressed. It's up to you to treat it.

Calm down, that's a must. Comfort you? I don't think I'm qualified yet.

Hehe, off topic. It's a mess, I hope you'll forgive me.

In the future, as long as you are good enough, there will definitely be girls chasing you. On the contrary, if you can't satisfy yourself materially, why do you have excellent girls like you? If a girl likes you to be good, it's part of your charm after all, isn't it?

Besides, why do you firmly think that you won't be able to meet the girl you like in the future, life is always full of miracles.

If you want pure love, go to junior high school and elementary school to find it. Chase it and put it there when she grows up.

It's still important to make money, and if you have money, you know that girls come in line.

There is very little talk about what can be achieved in college, and what you talk about after college either depends on your family, or whether you have the potential to study hard in a good university and come out to find a good job, at that time, you will find that you don't want that kind of special beauty, but want someone who can live.

In fact, you don't have to think so, the girl after work is really hurting, because she understands that firewood, rice, oil and salt are not easy, although there is less innocence of students, but there is more stability, my current girlfriend is looking for it in my company, and she will get married immediately.

Just because this school doesn't have it doesn't mean that other schools don't. You can develop a foreign school. Since you're from a prestigious school. How could it be in the absence of a girlfriend. Believe in yourself.

It's boring to live this life, it's too boring! 1

Love is innocent, but marriage becomes a necessary material...

Okay, brother, give you some confidence, a man with money and looks can't compare to 18cm.

Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create a better tomorrow for every day.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.

Pack up your heart and observe the feelings, continue to walk, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the defeat like happiness; Keep walking, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up.

If you are not wrong, adjust your mentality, face him calmly, be sunny, and don't let him look down on you. The mood can't solve the problem even if you are suffering, think about how to say and do it in advance. Don't fight unprepared!