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That's not necessarily, a good education and the child's own character still have a little to do with it. Children's education should be grasped from an early age, and it will be much better if good ideas are instilled from an early age. Moreover, children must not practice scolding education, because scolding will cause great physical and mental harm to children, and even affect their future development.
For children from single-parent families, the most important thing is to reason with them, children are not unreasonable people, as long as the parents are right, there is meticulous care and concern for the children, even if the heart is hard, it will soften. Then it depends on whether the child has encountered any troubles. Parents should always communicate with their children and be good friends to their children.
But don't get involved in your child's privacy either. Everyone has privacy, whether this privacy is something that parents should know or not, parents should not deliberately involve it.
In general, children from single-parent families depend on education and parents' attitudes towards their children.
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I'm a single parent, and my parents are divorced. I think since their divorce I've been much more cheerful and generous than before. And a lot of optimism.
I think it has something to do with what my mom taught me when I was a kid, and it just so happens that my mom was a politics teacher. And my parents' divorce started when I was very young, and my mom said me a lot of things that I couldn't understand, and the more I got more and more understanding, the more I could understand that as soon as I graduated from elementary school, they left. I felt that this was only a boost to my junior high school life.
I'm in my first year of junior high school. But this is only different from person to person, and some parents who do not have a good education and poor psychological quality will be prone to go to extremes, such as learning badly, fighting, playing friends, and so on
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No, I'm also a single parent, I'm very good, very cheerful, and my personality doesn't have much to do with the family, depending on how I adjust it and how my parents cultivate it.
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I don't think it's a bad character.,It's sensible early.。。。
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No, some children have good psychological quality and no pressure.
Some children feel that they are inferior to others.
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Not necessarily. Born alone.
Believe in yourself.
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No, some are better than normal children It depends on whether parents bring happiness to their children, although it will be very hard, but in order not to regret it in the future, it is better to insist on doing it
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Not necessarily. Because I'm also a child of a single-parent family, my personality won't be extreme, so I don't think that's the case.
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Not necessarily. Some children from single-parent families will have some extreme personalities, but some children from single-parent families are still more sensible and have better personalities.
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Not necessarily. Because some children from single-parent families have better personalities and are very sensible, but some children from single-parent families have very extreme personalities.
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If the other party is a child who grew up in a single-parent family, I will have a thought in my heart, because like everyone else, I will wonder if the other party will have any personality flaws.
I'll continue to look into it, but I won't break up because of this. If I had just met and confessed to me that I had grown up in a single-parent family, I would have actually increased my liking for the right guess. Because when the other party said this, he was actually telling me that he had grown up very well.
The more self-enclosed people are, the more reluctant they will be to share their growth experience, and the more they will not get out of the bad influence of their original family, and they will feel that this matter is a psychological hurdle for them.
I think that as long as the other party's personality is not flawed, it is actually possible to have further relationships. In fact, I would like to further expand on this issue, there are children who grow up in single-parent families who have bad personalities, and there are also children who have good personalities. The reason is whether or not they have received the full love of the nurturer.
In some two-parent families, the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, and the children have lived in an atmosphere of domestic violence or cold violence for many years, so it is better to divorce such a marriage!
Because in such a family environment, there is no benefit for the child at all. I've met a lot of boys who have told me that maybe they won't believe in love anymore, they won't believe in marriage anymore.
Because they see what a bad marriage looks like, they think that they themselves will have a bad marriage in the future.
Therefore, these children who grow up in a two-parent family but are full of violence are not necessarily much healthier psychologically than children from single-parent families.
But don't just think that all children growing up in single-parent families are psychologically healthy, I have seen many single-parent families, and the children will form a pathological attachment relationship with the caregiver.
I've seen some of these cases, such as mother-child symbiosis, father-daughter symbiosis, and how serious is this symbiosis? The son will take the place of the husband, and the daughter will take the place of the wife, which is also a mismatch in the role.
This kind of pathological attachment relationship can cause great damage to a person's personality.
In fact, whether it is a double parent or a single parent, the important thing is whether the parents have a good parenting responsibility. I have never said that single-parent families cannot raise excellent children, as long as the caregiver gives the child complete love and three views, the child can also grow up healthily.
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There is no doubt that divorced families have a great impact on children. Is it true that as long as it is a child from a divorced family, there are character defects? This is not necessarily, after all, children still need to be educated, as long as parents can straighten out their mentality and teach well, the child's character will not be bad.
If the child is too young, he may not know the meaning of divorce. All he knew was that his father and mother were no longer together. His father or mother moved away, so he became a child with only one father or mother.
<> as a child slowly understands something, he or she may feel abandoned. At this time, parents will tell their children why they are separated. Because the divorce is certain, but the parents are separated, and the state is stable and will not change.
And the quarrel is not certain, the child will be scared, and when I am worried that my parents suddenly make a big noise, the child looks at the face of the adult, not noisy, and afraid, and when the quarrel is so bad, I am even more afraid, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if I have done something wrong, everyone is afraid in their hearts. This is the real torture.
Parents should let their children know that divorce only changes the relationship between the parents and nothing else, especially the love for the child. Some people want to take revenge on each other through their children after divorce, don't do it, children are the most innocent and the most pure, saying these things in front of children will make children's values or outlook on life.
is distorted. If the father is more involved in parenting, it may be necessary to make some transitions, slowly reduce the time spent with the child together, increase the time spent with the child alone, and finally completely separate, so that the child can adapt to the new daily life.
In essence, the child is selfish, he doesn't care so much about the relationship between the parents as you think, not the parents care about the child, because the child cares about your living state, if the change in the relationship between the parents makes his life appear to be an earth-shattering gap, the separation of the parents is a big deal for him, and the divorce, of course he is very painful. But if divorce didn't change his life that much, he didn't care at all.
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Not necessarily, most of the characters are not good, because after all, other people's children have father's love and mother's love, and single-parent children are indeed the same, so most of the characters are not necessarily very good, and they will definitely not let you mention his lost father or mother, and there are also some people who are strong in their hearts, and they are buried in their hearts and not shown on the outside.
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Children from single-parent families do not necessarily have bad personalities, because there are some single-parent families, their parents will take special care of their children, and then they will take care of their children's emotions very well, and such children are no different from other children at all.
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Not necessarily. Whether a child's personality is good or not is determined by many factors, even if it is a single-parent family, if it grows up in a warm environment, the character will become very good, and everything is not so absolute.
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Of course, the impact is relatively large.
First of all, from the economic side. If the family's economic conditions are okay, then the child will be more confident in finding friends when he grows up. He will look for these generous, sunny counterparts.
Life will also be less than good. At the same time, if the family economy is relatively poor, then this person is generally more inferior, so he is especially careful when he finds friends to fight. At the same time, it affected the quality of his friends.
As a result, after getting married, life may have to be passed, almost on the line.
And also emotionally. If the family is in harmony, then his personality is easier to find, and his friends are also better. It is also normal to deal with friends and colleagues.
If the family relationship is not good or there is domestic violence, the child's temper is more irritable and withdrawn, so when he talks about friends, the other party always has to take care of his sensitive and tolerant character, and the two are more tired when they live together, so it will affect the quality of his friends. It is the love of children, and the other party may have the shadow of a father or mother.
Feelings are a matter of two people. Marriage is complementary. Love is selfish.
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