Contact after rejection, she will still take the initiative to contact you after rejection, what sho

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You said that she is a sensitive person, I think she may feel that she doesn't know enough about you, so she didn't rashly agree to your confession, but she should have a good impression of you, you don't always mention that aspect of things, since she is not positive, it means that she is unwilling, so avoid annoying her, don't ask first, you should be friends now, then concentrate on being her good friend, you can give her hints at the right time, but don't always hang on your lips, men nag badly, When you feel that her feelings for you have changed, before taking the next step, you must know how to take it step by step with sensitive girls, and you must not rush for quick success, otherwise you will definitely fail. Come on, buddy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's quite similar to my situation, but I'm the opposite of you, everyone's privacy bottom line is limited, if she doesn't want to say, then you don't have to mention it, because the girl's family always has to retain a little bit of privacy, maybe she may also have a little bit of meaning to you, if you behave well, maybe he will like you, not necessarily!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've always loved a girl, I was rejected, I didn't want to die, because I worked hard, and I won't regret it in the future because I didn't have the courage to chase, I still love her now and I know that I can't forget it in my life, but only in my heart, there are many ways to express love, and it doesn't have to be together, I'm satisfied that we're best friends now, and I believe that my future wife is also a good girl. Then don't mention it, start with friends, let's communicate with heart, she will know if she really loves her, it's just a matter of time, come on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's that she's completely bored with you. Didn't treat you like a man card. Treat me as my sister.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, she's saying that the two of you are not suitable to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

    To do it is to be friends! She doesn't want to hurt you so she responds to you with a dry smile! ~

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm the same way, but I don't want the other person to get hurt, and I hope to be friends after the breakup!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have the opportunity to deepen your understanding, to grasp it, not to overdo it, and to put it to the test.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hopefully, she probably wants to know more about you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can't be a lover, you can become a good friend!! Buying and selling is not benevolent!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's when she was speechless.

    I hope you don't mention it again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is indeed rare for love to develop into friendship! Love is great, but friendship is priceless!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is equivalent to a complete loss of chance! After I broke up with my girlfriend, this is what you call the current situation!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actually, it's good to be friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If there is a girl who likes you very much, but you don't like the other person, after she confesses to you, you clearly reject her, but she will still take the initiative to contact you, do you know how to deal with it correctly? Let's talk about this issue**, interested friends together.

    1. Figure out the other party's purpose.

    Since this girl has clearly known that you have no intention of her at all, then she still wants to take the initiative to contact you, what does she want? So, the most important first step for us now is to figure out the other person's purpose and see if the other person doesn't want to lose you as a friend completely, or if the other party thinks it is likely to impress you and is willing to make you change their mind? Only when we understand what the other party really thinks can we take measures to deal with it.

    If we don't know anything about what the other person is doing and don't understand what the other person is thinking, then we will definitely be helpless. We can find out what the other person is thinking by looking at what they are doing.

    Second, you can choose to ignore it.

    Of course, if you don't feel good about this girl, and you don't know the other person very well, then you can choose to ignore it, and no matter how the other party shows you goodwill, you can choose not to respond. Sometimes if you want to cut through the mess quickly, the best way is to ignore the other party's entanglement. Because of some people, the more emotional swings you have, the more likely you are to be exploited by the other person.

    If you don't want to be entangled with the other person for a long time, the best way is to distance yourself from the other person directly, and try not to meet or contact the other person if you can. In this way, if the other party feels that there is no play, they will not continue to pester you.

    3. The other party may be tempting.

    The reason why the other party will take the initiative to contact you may be just a kind of temptation for her to find out what kind of person you really are, so that the other party can adjust the strategy accordingly according to the reaction you give in the next time. After all, the interaction between people is a process of starting from nothing. If she doesn't give up on you and doesn't give up on you, then she will definitely have to test you first to see what kind of bottom line you can accept, and then walk on the edge of this bottom line and continue to associate with you.

    In this way, the other party wants to get a more accurate signal, understand how you behave, and then want to hit you with one hit.

    Therefore, if you really meet a girl who still takes the initiative to contact you after being rejected by you, you must know that the other party's psychology is very strong, you must stick to your bottom line, and don't let the other party entangle you because of temporary unbearability. Otherwise, your future days may be very "wonderful"!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    She should have been left alone. Should she just use you as a spare tire, or should she want to use you to do something.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If she will still take the initiative to contact you after rejection, then you should also respond to her generously, show that you don't care about generosity, and get along as friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You just have to contact her normally as a good friend, but if she wants to develop in the direction of boyfriend and girlfriend, you can cooperate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is likely that you are treated as a spare tire, and if you have adjusted your mood and do not want to have too much entanglement, you can just refuse.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You should have a good talk with the other person and ask her what exactly she means, it's not good to hang someone all the time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Dear, I'm here to dismiss your question.

    It is indeed very sad to confess after failure, first calm down and clean up your mood, and then calm down and ask yourself how much you like each other!

    There must be a reason for the failure of confession, if the other party only rejected you because he did not think about it for the time being, it means that you still have a chance, then in this case, you must continue to contact, continue to chase, and it will definitely succeed.

    If the other party is very adamantly rejected you, or the other party already has a crush, then don't contact again. For impossible people, it is cruel to yourself to keep in touch and fight envy.

    If the other party has been ambiguous with you, you think you will be together, but the confession fails, and the other party rejects you for messy reasons. In this case, you should immediately delete your friend, who is obviously playing ambiguous with you or using you as a spare tire.

    I don't know if you are a boy or a girl, if it is a girl and is rejected, it is recommended not to contact, men are very rational in dealing with feelings, since they refused, it means that you are not the person in his heart, then it is not a good thing for you to let go.

    If you are a boy, there are many cases of being rejected by girls many times and pursuing success, and girls can be warmed up, in this case, it is recommended that you try again.

    In either case, if you still want to continue, after being rejected by the other party, calm down for a while and don't take the initiative to contact him again.

    Cool down the other party for a while and then contact, the effect will be better.

    Personal suggestion Liang family, thank you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When someone explicitly rejects you, but takes the initiative to contact you, we can understand that the person is more inclined to maintain a friendly relationship, but does not want to develop the relationship further, perhaps just wants to stay in touch. In this case, we can respect the other party's decision first, don't take the initiative to pursue it, don't disturb the other party's daily life, and don't have too many expectations and fantasies about the other party. On the other hand, it is possible to maintain some contacts appropriately and establish a pattern of friendship-based communication, which requires further improvement of communication skills and social skills.

    In real life, we often encounter situations where maintaining a relationship with the other person cannot turn into a relationship or intimacy. In this case, we need to face the reality calmly and not be too obsessed with personal emotional distress and troubles. You can change your role, from the perspective of the other party's friends, confidants, etc., and don't completely immerse yourself in the world of lack of personal feelings.

    In addition, we can also judge from the other party's attitude and behavior, whether the other party's active contact carries more meaning and expectations, if so, we need to analyze the problem more rationally and calmly, grasp our emotions, and find a balance in our hearts. If not, we should look at the relationship more calmly and always maintain an objective attitude.

    In short, when encountering such a situation, we need to master our emotions, do not be overly persistent and pursue, find a suitable mode of communication for ourselves, appropriately act as a friend or confidant of the other party, pay careful attention to each other's needs, and gradually establish a relationship of mutual understanding and trust, which may not be perfect love, but brings real friendship and emotional security. <>

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The first point is to wonder what kind of attitude the other party has.

    In fact, we all know that after being rejected, we will naturally feel very uncomfortable in our hearts, but if the other party still wants to keep in touch with you, then this will inevitably make people feel worried, what kind of attitude does the other party have? In this case, it is inevitable that there will be a certain amount of suspicion, so my heart is very entangled, and I also want to guess the other party's intentions. I believe that many people have had such things in their lives, such as confessing to a girl, she refused, but he will still contact you, so in this case I am very depressed, what does the other party think?

    In fact, if you still keep in touch after refusing, then many people will feel that there is still a chance, after all, he has not cut off contact with himself because of this, so that is to say, he wants to test his attitude, wants to test his sincerity, and tests whether he is serious, then he will naturally make himself happier in his heart, after all, we all understand that under the premise of not completely refusing, then it means that as long as he works hard to show his hard work and work hard, then he may be able to win the heart of the other party.

    After all, after some thinking, many people's hearts will feel happier, after all, they can still be connected, no matter what, there is still a little hope, as long as there is hope, then we should insist, it is precisely because of persistence that there will be hope, so in this case, no matter who it is, they will make themselves a little better and make themselves happy. Because the other party keeps in touch with him, it shows that he will not give up on himself easily, and there is still hope.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Relatively speaking, it is a more awkward kind of getting along, after the layer of paper was pierced, the two of them became less comfortable getting along with each other than before.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Keeping in touch after being rejected shows that the other party still has a little feeling for you, but don't take it lightly, he may just use you as a spare tire.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I will be glad that the other party can still see me as a friend, so I can keep my feelings in my heart and be good friends with him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether it is in the future chats and meetings, it will be more or less embarrassing. Especially after being rejected, your good friend asked you to go out to play, and if you don't go, you'll see each other for a long time, and if you go out, you can't guarantee that you can get along with her as usual.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That is, the other party treats you as a spare tire, doesn't want to be with you, and wants you to continue to be good to her, a typical spare tire, the experience is very bad, or give up as soon as possible!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This kind of relationship is a very complex emotion, which gives you rejection but makes you hopeful, and the heart is particularly entangled, and it is also unstoppable.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to keep in touch after refusing, then he must be using you as a spare tire. I don't think such a connection is necessary at all, and don't think that you really are useless.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's good to get along in a natural way, just like friends, there's nothing big about refusing, don't feel embarrassed yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The thing you want to know is whether you should contact her, you may not need to read this article, you have the answer in your heart, whether you contact or not is that you can forget it, and you can let it go. Think about it carefully, I don't want her to exist in my life, sometimes the broken relationship will cause a lot of troubles to the youth of two people.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, I think sometimes you can't become lovers, and becoming friends is also a good choice. If you become lovers, you may feel bored and uncomfortable after living together for a long time for various reasons. But you can't be a friend, if you need his help, he will fly to you right away, and then help you and help you solve your problems.

    So I think even if you are rejected, you have to be brave enough to contact her again, and maintain a relationship of friends rather than lovers.

    Being rejected once or twice, it's not a big deal, and hopefully you can come out of the rejection and don't get stuck in it. As the saying goes, people go to high places, and water flows to low places. It is impossible for a person to stay only in a certain moment in this life, and therefore not move forward.

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