What should I do if I am rejected What should I do if I am rejected?

Hehe, children, are always prone to annoyance because of this kind of problem. Feelings, always hurt! But everyone was once young, and they all encountered this kind of sad thing.

You tell her, "We're all very young, so we can stop thinking about it for a while, and we can focus on our studies first." Maybe it's also good to be separated for a while, and both of us can calm down, sober up a bit, and think about the issue carefully.

I really care about you, but I don't know what ...... be like losing youLet's calm down for a semester, and I hope you can also think carefully about our ......”

That's probably what you say, because you are still young, and you are often not very accurate about feelings, think about it separately, calm down, maybe you will clear the layers of clouds and fog, and find the essence between you, whether you love him or not, whether it is love or not, what do you care about more in your heart, see it clearly, deal with the problem clearly, and deal with it more rationally.

In this way, you can see your heart clearly, and you will not easily miss true love, and you will not be troubled by unclear relationship problems.

It's okay, don't be crushed by a small rejection, a small setback! She didn't promise you, maybe she hasn't thought it through yet, maybe you don't know each other well enough. Don't worry, what you need now is to relax and be happy, listen to happy songs every day, go for a walk on campus, and think about whether you love her or not.

Maybe it won't be long before you really know if she's the person you're looking for. If she's the person you're looking for, talk to her and ask her what she thinks. If she still doesn't understand what love feels like.

You say, I can give you enough time to think, after all, liking is the beginning of love! Don't be discouraged!

In addition, during this period of time, you can try to get in touch with the outside world, and you may find the girl you really love!

Let's find a basin of cold water to pour the toppings first.

Calmed down? I began to analyze.

Her attitude towards you:

If it's as she says, it's a fart!!She doesn't know what love is? Does she want to understand it for the rest of her life? A lifelong nun? So that's just an excuse, and then it's super easy to analyze, two possibilities:

1. I don't know if I love you or not, and I want to know how much you love her, if this is the case, you should try to show your love.

2, don't love your way of prevarication, in the long run, see if you want to invest more, if she has someone she likes, then the investment is meaningless, if you just don't like you, you have to know that she doesn't like you? Then go and correct it.

She didn't reject you, don't be sad, she was right, you have to study hard.

Seriously! It's very difficult for a man in this life! [ Be handsome, no money, be rich, not handsome; If the knowledge is high, the nerdy is angry, the knowledge is low, and there is no quality; Be lively, say you're not stable enough, be reserved, say you're pretending to be deep; Be rude, say you're not romantic, be gentle, call you a sissy; Make money by yourself, not everyone can make a lot of money, * women raise it, say you are a little white face; If you have a child, it is your business to support your family in the future, and if you don't have children, I'm sorry for your parents.

Hey, it's really hard to be a man these days.

Continue to be good to her How about it Is it college If you like it, you will chase it But don't know how to chase a woman You have to remember to study I wish you good luck.

That is to say, it's not that you don't have a chance, you keep chasing and work hard.

Just keep trying, it's okay.

1) Don't be too sad and don't do extreme acts.

After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness.

Some were rejected, wanted to die or live, and even used threats: If you don't agree to be my boyfriend, I'll jump from here.

This kind of behavior is extreme, and it is also very selfish, thinking that if I confess, I can get the other person's heart, in fact, to confess with this kind of thought, it was wrong from the beginning, and I should understand a sentence, "Love is mutual, not unrequited love".

Correct confession, first of all, is to be confident enough, secondly, very distracted, and finally at the right time and place, self-confidence and heart, go with the flow to express your emotions, which is easy to improve the success rate of confession.

2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience.

Why did confession fail? This point must be analyzed, to avoid making the same mistake next time, some confessions, never reflect on this problem, wait for the next confession, and fail, and some are rejected more times, began to cast nets in a large area, selective fishing.

I believe that only when people understand that they are wrong can they change their direction. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time is actually that my image is not good, my clothes are sloppy, my hair is oily, and the upper is dirty.

Summary: In the confession failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.

3) Try a second confession.

After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess? Some people say, no, they have rejected me, I will confess again, so embarrassing, so faceless, let's give up and change to another confession!

Failure is the mother of success, and confessing to a failure and choosing to quit is not confident or a sign of not loving enough. The last confession failed, maybe you didn't do it enough, maybe you were too nervous, maybe you were too sudden, and scared the other party, why not try to confess again?

Don't feel that if you confess again, I will be very cheap, the more you hint at yourself in your heart, the more you dare not confess, only if you have tried and worked hard, you will know the result.