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It's too honest It's just a prevarication, and it is polite to say that it is not welcome. If you really want to marry her, you must have a good relationship with their parents, because Chinese marriage is a family matter, not a matter of two people in the West.
The thoughts of her parents are also understandable, who do not want their daughters to have a good home, to put it realistically, if the parents of a city family generally do not agree to marry their own girls to a rural or economic conditions are not good.
But she firmly disagreed, what about this! To put it bluntly, she likes to drag (or sneak) with you, the kind that can't see the sun, and it also shows that she is very protective of herself.
Very stubbornly told me that it must be two years later! If you wait two years too risky, because there are too many variables or uncertainties in two years, you can be sure that she is not attracted to other men? Can you be sure that she will marry you in two years?
Can you be sure that her parents will agree in two years' time? Wait, two years is too much to pay.
I'm not insincere with her, and I love her. It's not a question of whether you really or love her. If in the West, it's okay for the two to agree, and even the wedding without inviting the parents.
But the problem is that in China, it is (preferably) necessary for both parents to agree, otherwise there will be a lot of troublesome problems in the future.
I suggest you give up and find another half.
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Why not ask her why she did that? If you are seen as a transitional stage before finding a better one (but she won't say that to you, feel for herself), then go immediately, and the long pain is better than the short one. If you're worried about your parents, the job will ask you to do it!
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Maybe she's afraid to tell her parents that her parents don't approve of you once, and that's even worse.
Maybe that's a better plan
If you have such doubts, you should make it clear to her.
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It means that I don't like you anymore.
But you still have value, thank you.
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Turn away. You.
Say you.
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I've been looking for 5 years. Still not, I guess I have to ask my American friends to find resources. There is only a brief introduction on Douban.
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Yes. It's not that you're invisible. Just got dressed. I remember that it seems that this dress has already been invented in some country. It's still following up.
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There is no wonder in this world! Some people don't believe in superstition, but when it comes to phenomena that can't be explained by science, the problem returns to superstition!
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There is nothing only in what you think.
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Not yet, I'll tell you the map when I have it.
This data is ** on the map, and the final result is subject to the latest data on the map.
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I don't know that this question is hard.
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Yes, the United States has already worked it out.
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There are no wonders in the world, and it is better to believe in them than to say that they are not. What you didn't know in the past is not necessarily not in the future, and isn't it still talking about UFOs?
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This question is a bit new! Probably not!
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I've seen it. And I share the same bed. When I was in junior high school, you met brother, too.
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I haven't seen it, it's really transparent, and I can't feel it!
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I've watched too many movies ( Believe in the power of science Not now Maybe the future Who knows?)
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Isolated from the world, or not wanting to see, be transparent.
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He was transparent. I can't see.
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