My boyfriend was honest and rustic, didn t make me feel excited, and urged me to get engaged

In fact, his family's idea is not wrong, to put it bluntly, the blind date thing skips the confession directly, and pursues these two links, which is completely for the purpose of two people being together. If it's suitable, you'll come, and if it's not suitable, you'll be divided, just like an interview at work. I understand your situation, girls, of course, I hope that my marriage is perfect, and I hope to find someone who satisfies me, but then again, there are so many perfect things in the world, isn't there a saying that the person you marry is often not the person you love the most.

Maybe that's what it means. Personally, I think that if you feel that you still have time, you can give up, after all, your personal feelings for him are still relatively weak. You can definitely try to find the next one.

Personally, I think men should be honest, but they can't help it... If you don't even pay attention to basic politeness and appearance, what can you bear for your family in the future?

It's too late to make another choice, after all, we've only known each other for two months. He and his family put pressure on you, probably because he knows what kind of virtue his son is, and he is afraid that it will be difficult to find you if he misses you...

Through your description, such a man still has to observe and consider again!

No matter how old you are, don't like it.

What do you look like, are you very unattractive to men, why do you have to follow him?

It means that your performance is very much like it has been shaped, just like a clay sculpture has been slightly shaped, and the "craftsmanship" we call pure matching lacks the "nature" that people hope for now. But the general meaning is that your watch is sliding like you've learned. There is no indication of whether it is good or bad.

Nothing interesting, right? It's just that now your job is unstable, you don't make much money, and with your machismo, I'm sorry to let you have a treat! As for saying that after you have a stable job, he invited you because of a kind of care among friends who encouraged you to find a job early.

As for what to do, I think it's hard to fight!

In fact, he may have a reason why he can't invite you to eat now, but he can't tell you, and you are entangled in asking, and he doesn't know how to answer you, so he finds such an excuse! And he should want to eat with you! It's just that maybe not right now, you just have to wait!

Some guys don't like to have girls pay when they're with girls again, for whatever reason!

Now he doesn't have any money, and boys don't usually let girls invite them to dinner, that's it.

I'm also a man, but I never meet with netizens.

You also don't have exactly what you stand for.

It seems that you are the active party.

There is also this reason, I want to make it back! From this sentence, it seems that you are taking the initiative, since you like the next step, then go boldly, don't be awkward.

Well, I don't know if I misunderstood.

I like people like that, and I think most girls do. But different people have different perspectives.

Well, I'm a girl, and I don't think it's a good idea to start with it, depending on whether you're making friends or trying to pursue a girl if you're introducing her.

Feeling for you does not mean love ...

Well, support you, but if it were me, maybe I would agree.

22 The head is married! A man who has no career is unreliable! Top you.

It's not easy to manage a relationship, and marriage is not child's play, of course, you have to think carefully, it's a lifetime of happiness! It's best to stop taking the marriage and choose to continue dating, depending on whether your relationship with him can stand the test before making a decision! The feeling of a heartbeat is like a three-minute passion, not all the time!

If you miss this bus, you have to wait for the next one!

In the future, you meet a boy who makes your heart beat, he makes you feel like your heart is beating, and you feel that you will be happy together in this way.

You're engaged.

One day the boy found that he no longer had feelings for you, he thought about it and thought that it was not wise to risk marrying you, so he discussed it with his parents and finally broke up with you directly.

This story teaches us to do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Another truth is: no one can grasp the initiative forever, today you may be the leader, tomorrow? Are you ready?

You really don't understand what happiness is?

The feeling of heartbeat is only for a moment, have you ever had a boyfriend before?

You can't ask for a heartbeat all the time, otherwise, you'll end up ...

You've been poisoned by the Internet.

The key is whether you have someone who makes your heart beat right now. If you have, you can try to get in touch with that person, and if the other person doesn't have feelings for you, then you should try to accept your current boyfriend!

You're really good at tricks and games. It's not so much that you don't feel it, it's that you're irresponsible. You like the new and hate the old so much, can you guarantee that you will have feelings for your next boyfriend for the rest of your life?

People have been together for a long time, love is no longer the main thing, but more of a kind of affection. Do you understand? And the financial resources, energy, and feelings he paid were all wasted by the reason you didn't feel, do you say you are excessive?

Hehe, what is feeling? I don't feel like it's going to be there! Feeling is not necessarily happy, feelings are cultivated slowly.

Don't know how your boyfriend treats you? It is recommended to delay the time first (to her boyfriend's coquettish and tell him not to get married first, let him get everyone, you just need to get him)!Test your boyfriend's patience with you!

What to do, you're in it for the money, no money, no heartbeat ...It's still hairy, find a boss to be the second wife.

Didn't you feel it before? If you don't feel it, why get engaged. Sometimes after people have been together for a long time, that feeling will turn into a kind of family affection, a kind of responsibility.

The girl's happiness is not from romance, but from reality, in the ordinary!! According to your thoughts, you can only get temporary happiness, and the harm you may get in exchange is not proportional to the happiness you get!

Divide it....Otherwise, what if you have a heartbeat after marriage?

Either you haven't arrived yet, or you're too demanding.

You haven't met the person you're really destined for, don't believe in fate.

It's normal, it doesn't touch your heart.

There is no reason, you know the reason: I have talked about several boyfriends in four years, and none of them really moved my heart, not that they did not do well. Nor have I met a man who really makes my heart beat.

I have a female friend who is in a similar situation to yours. She's 27 years old. Her point of view is that it is better to have less than to have more, and the bottom line of her feelings is:

Looking for a husband is at least not annoying and suitable for being a husband. The premise is that you really can't find a man who you love and love yourself. I'm quite supportive of her point of view, and I hope I can give you a little bit of a reference.

From your explanation, I can tell that you even hate this man a little, and you said that you don't want him to be involved in your circle. Then you shouldn't have been in a relationship with him in the first place, and if you have a relationship with him, other men will no longer be able to approach you, because they know that you are famous. The family hopes that you get married early, and they should hope that you can live happily, rather than live unhappily with a man you don't love, it's better to wait for a man you love and love you!

Even though it may not work out. You say you're pretty, so you shouldn't wait. The reason why I say this is because you don't take the initiative to confess, in fact, it is not a charm for a woman to dare to say her love.

The point is whether the man you confessed to is worthy of your love. It's worth taking the initiative, and if she doesn't feel for you, forget it.

Secondly, a woman's external beauty is very important, and her inner cultivation is also very important, and my circle of friends appreciates women who have more inner beauty. Therefore, women should always remember to improve their personal charm and cultivate both inside and outside!

To sum up, if you don't have to get married, you should give yourself one more chance. Finally, I wish you a smooth relationship!

The marriage partner is going to find him like this, and it is true that his life in the future should be plain. You have to live a down-to-earth life, because the real life is oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and happiness is not comparative, but you yourself experience it in every bit of life. Since he is good to you, then you will definitely be happy in the rest of your life.

After a long time, there will be feelings, and his tolerance and love for you will move you.

Marriage for the sake of marriage Hehe The ideal is plump The reality is the backbone Your current naïve is a documentary Your ex-boyfriend is a romance film Love is your own decision It doesn't matter if you don't like to get married reluctantly.

I'm connected to you! Have you made a decision?

I'm sweating for Mao to get married next year This is still tender and hard to stipulate It's not afraid of unhappiness Your parents don't know how to be considerate You are also enough turtle hair You like you don't want to confess you are like this, and you are still saying that you must get married next year, but I don't like my current boyfriend, and I still have insomnia and think of the one I like but I don't want to confess, and then now the goods in my hand are not what you like, and I feel that people are not worthy of you Ouch hey, don't think I'm talking straight If you want me to say that you can't confess, don't say it for the time being, If you don't succeed, you can give yourself an explanation in your heart, and then now you really don't like to kick this in your hand, and then look for the right one you like, he likes you, and if you don't have it, you can find someone who thinks you can look at your character and career OK, you are now preparing to get married and dragging others It's not good No, why are people being used as a spare tire by you Finally, I married you You still don't look down on him in your heart People have given you a certificate to live with you for a lifetime So be fair and understand with him What you don't want to say, That's sister, you're selfish It's that people are a little selfish, so you have to bear the consequences After all, the world won't be all good things to you and all bad things to others, the consequence is to live a lifetime with him you don't look down on, of course, maybe you broke out in the middle of the divorce, maybe people broke out after getting married, and they disliked you before marriage, and after marriage, they were considerate of you, and they were not looked down upon by you, and they were probably going to leave you. I can't close the blood in my heart, so let's say so much, you can do it yourself

Is it that there is no freshness after being together for a long time, ah, be bland.