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Many men are like this, they like to be public lovers, as if women are going to revolve around him! If I am you, you will give an ultimatum, either ignore her or ignore me, or divorce.
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This kind of man and ex-girlfriend are cheap, and they must be cautious when they get married, and they hate this kind of thing the most.
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Woman, grief for you.
You've found a husband who likes to play ambiguously...
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It is safe to say that your husband is an irresponsible man, since he is entangled with the woman behind your back, it means that he knows that if you know, he will be hurt, but he still chooses to do that, obviously he doesn't care about your feelings, you don't have a soft heart, find your husband to communicate well, only by solving the internal problems first, the third party standing between your marriage can be easy to deal with, just like dealing with garbage.
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You should communicate directly with your husband, and if he cares about you, he will know what to do, but you have to tell your husband about this kind of thing, or it will be self-defeating.
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Men, how many serious ones are there, where are the good men? What you can't get is always the best.
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Oh, if I had died... Just ignore him...
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This is a delicate situation.
You have to outwit, you have to show your generosity.
Since you're married, you're genuine.
You have to understand the woman, and you have to let your husband know that you love him and tolerate him doing this.
And you have to show your temperament and let him know that losing you is his loss.
Since your husband is married to you, it shows that he loves you.
They broke up a long time ago, and the fact that they would break up in the first place shows that they are not suitable.
You have to grasp it well, otherwise the gains outweigh the losses.
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Relationship problems need to analyze the psychology of the person, and you have to analyze the psychology of your husband.
Reason as you say, 1He ignored his ex-girlfriend before marriage, and contacted more after marriage. What does it mean?
There are two points: one is that he didn't want to have a relationship with his ex-girlfriend for some reason before marriage, and now he is married, which means that he doesn't care whether he has a relationship with her, which means that he is not very optimistic about your relationship, which means that he is reminiscing and reminiscing about the good old days. The second is that he can't find a good time with you (at least he thinks), or he feels that he feels a gap with you compared to before.
This can be seen in the fact that you only let women in. Explain that you are suspicious and biased against men.
2.They hugged and cried together, why? There could be two reasons for this:
One is to lose the other party, but this is unlikely, the second is that your husband has a lot of pressure and pain in his life, he found someone to confide in, and you are not the object of confiding, casually saying that the man has tears and does not flick, just because he has not reached the sad place, his ex-girlfriend knows your husband's heart and pain better, so he confides in the two of them to hug their heads and cry.
3.He persuaded his girlfriend to get married, **less, just a text message contact. It shows that he is not really going to develop an extramarital affair.
On the whole, it is not that your husband really wants to have anything to do with his ex-girlfriend, but that he can't find someone to talk to with you, and you don't know him very well in the depths of his heart, and you don't know his inner needs very well. In addition to being attractive to men on the outside, it is also important for a woman to understand his heart, encourage his confidence, and support his career.
This is written for you, although it is suspected of criticism, because it is your question, and if it is his question, I will also write some pertinent words about him.
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Spread it out with your husband and say that you should first understand what your husband means and take action.
First of all, you have to correct your mentality, what to do, turn your attention away, don't focus on how to cut off their contact, your attention should be on building yourself, find more common topics with your husband, give him a positive way of thinking, don't force him not to contact, if he is not consciously not in contact from the heart, you can't stop him, but you have the right to appeal. You can change the way you treat him, and after you find out, let him know that you know, but you choose not to make a noise, believe me, this effect is definitely better than your noise, and he will wonder why you don't make trouble, whether you are completely disappointed, or if you are also starting to have different intentions.
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